when a guy asks you out and says he'll pay for you what does this mean. i mean like to a movie or game or something.he also gives me heaps of eye contact when we are talking,laughs at some of the little things i say,overexaggerates when i nearly hurt him or something, and talks to me about our interests.He can become loud when talking to me or being around me and also moves closer. Then all of the sudden one day he starts avoiding me and now just recently he's talking to me again. does he like me.please someone answer my question coz i'm going crazy.
2006-12-04 18:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there was also another time when we hadn't spoken all day and then he calls out to me and asks me to borrow something.was this just an excuse to talk to me?
2006-12-04 20:49:00 · update #1
He likes you, but maybe during that time he was avoiding you he was flirting with someone else who he thought he might has a pass at. Maybe since that didn't work out, he's rebounding with you. I would keep my distance and get a better feel of him to see what he's really about.
2006-12-04 18:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys do that kind of stuff my current boyfriend and i were like best friends who both had a crush on each other but neither would say anything at first ask him tell him if you like him that's the only way you'll get the truth i asked my boyfriend out the first time he said he didn't want a g/f i went out with a scumbag instead and he was still there for me when the scumbag and me broke up i realise now it was stupid cause if i would have just waited i wouldn't have had to wait so long we are now living together and get along great but it sounds like he likes you make the first move he might just be nervous which would explain why he backed away for a little while
2006-12-05 02:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he showed a lot of interest, then avoided you, and then showed interest again, it is probably because he is interested in you and other girls at the same time. There is nothing wrong with that; you just have to be aware that you might not be the only one he has his eye on. This is the best time to play it cool, and to let him do the approaching. Don't worry too much about whether he likes you; just find out by being cool.
2006-12-05 02:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like how I was when I was in junior high / high school. Yeah you must've given him some kind of cue to back off a bit. He took it hard and next day avoided you. Unfortunately he sounds like he has issues with not being sure of himself , otherwise it would of been no big deal to him. He's now back and talking to you because you must've gotten thrown off by his reaction , thus he might be taking this as "ok i'm interested again." That's what I think from my own past expereince.
2006-12-05 02:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It kind of seems like hes possesing you. First off hes trying to buy your affection. Never a good sign. Then he just plain out acts like a guy in love. Not enough info to talk on the avoiding part, but maybe he was seeing if you would wait for him? I think he does like you, but don't let him "buy you" or anything
2006-12-05 02:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're asking a lot of questions. Yes, if he says he'll pay, then you should be expecting him he'll pay for the entire date : Example: movie and dinner. As far as his other actions, he's probably trying to decide whether you like him. One day, he might feel some flirty vibes from you (why he might be talking to you) and then when he's not feeling vibes from you, he might not talk to you. Guys can be weird during this process, please understand, as I am one of them. I think he's just trying to quietly figure out if you like him. If you do, which it sounds like you do, drop him some hints from time to time! Good luck to you.
2006-12-05 02:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by YeahThatsRight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I'm all over this one. This guy is a fickle idiot. Don't worry about him. If you focus on him you'll go insane sooooo.... Focus on a new guy or on your freinds or a new hobby like volunteering at a pet shelter or something fun. Get a life and he won't make you nuts. Don't focus on the guy. He's fickle. Look up the word fickle right now.
2006-12-05 02:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea he likes u, otherwise he wouldnt pay for everything when u go out..and he probably ignored u cus maybe he felt u werent giving him the same attention he was giving u."overexaggerating when you nearly hert em" thats the exact same thing i do..pretty much everything u mentioned this guy does, i do when i go out with my crush, so dnt stress, just let him make the moves and make sure u make the rights decisions..
2006-12-05 02:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by DooMRocK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it sounds as though he likes you but, he may have a secret that would have caused him to avoid you for that time. Ask questions, be interested in him, not nosey, and see how he reacts. He may have found interest in someone else and then decided he'd rather persue you. You never can be sure, men are hard to undestand.
2006-12-05 02:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once upon a time he was infatuated with you and you wouldn't take the time of day to let him know that you know. he disappeared because someone came his way and he probably had a few swings with her. now he is back but if you want him then let him know, otherwise soon enough he will become annoying.
2006-12-05 02:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋