Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

Ever get the feeling your s/o is living by the opinions of other people and bring them into your lives.....

Like they would have an opinion or say something that is totally not them.....say someone who goes 100% by what people post here and go back to their s/o and say what other people say.

2006-11-27 05:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 05:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by adacan25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

again my fiancee and I are having a destination wedding and my parents and his thought it would be a good idea if my parents paid for my trip and his (divorced) parents paid for his. His dad lost his job and his mom doesn't have enough money to pay for his in full. Should we (myself and fiancee) just pay for his trip? What about the reception? Who pays for what and what if his parents have the money to contribute, then do we?

2006-11-27 05:17:52 · 13 answers · asked by kgray 1 in Weddings

I dated this guy about a year ago we broke up but he has remained in my life as a friend he is really supporitive and is an all around good guy. He isnt that good looking though. but he has recently come back wanting to be more than just friends he says that he has not stopped loving me since we broke up a year ago. And that this could turn into something more if i wanted it to. When i am with him i feel happy and safe like i could date him again, but i am uncertain that he loves me and i dont know how to get him to prove it to me. But when we broke up the last time he cried really hard and threw a big fit ya know those fits that toddlers throw when they want something! and i am scared that he is going to do that again and i dont want that in a relationship i want a man not someone who cries more than me. once and a while if the moment calls for it than fine, but when we fight come on!. But is older brother says that he has changed alot really grew up, Do you think one more time or not

2006-11-27 05:17:29 · 20 answers · asked by pitbull luver 1 in Singles & Dating

He just heard i liked him, and now he is really mean to me around his buddies, but we have never been alone and never will be, because i have no school classes with him! and he asked me my phone number, but a week later called me ugly. And he used to ask me everyday who i liked and i told him that i liked him, what do i do? does he like me? NOW HE JUST LAUGHS ABOUT ME WITH HIS BUDS!

2006-11-27 05:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Singles & Dating

girls, I am a guy, and I am asking, whats your opinion on hair down low, how much should a man shave

2006-11-27 05:16:38 · 19 answers · asked by Sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend has been going out for over 4 years now(high school sweethearts) and i really trust her. So it was my girlfriend's first experience at a club last friday whom she went with her cousins. Next day she tells me everything that happened because she knew she had nothing to hide. At first I felt jealous and angry because she told me she danced with 3 other guys that night. She felt guilty for it, but I told her that I didnt want her to feel guilty for having fun. It was her first experience and my first experience as a boyfriend to hear that she was dancing with other guys. I talked to her about it and I understood that she kept her boundaries. The only question is, why is this feeling of emptiness still inside? I thought about it and I guess that I just can't see or imagine her with another guy. Even if it wasn't dancing but if we were to break up, it would be so hard to just see her with another guy. What can I do to overcome this feeling?

2006-11-27 05:16:36 · 14 answers · asked by Chau 1 in Singles & Dating

Have any of you ever been completely and utterly broke. Nada, Nothing, Zip?

2006-11-27 05:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing this guy casually.we have only met up 4 times and when we do meet,i stay at his place cause i live in a different town to him.he has been chasing me for about 2 years,even when i was in my previous 6 year relationship with my ex fiance.i had my own place with my ex too.

he knew about my relationship.he knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has since moved away.ive been single now for 8 months.

i have only kissed this guy but he does want to take things further.he is still chasing me.

when i was with him last,he was asking about my ex,asking how he was.was he seeing if i was still into my ex?

i really like this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me.

if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have given up now?

why wont he ask me out properly on a date rather than keeping things so casual?


hes 29 and single

2006-11-27 05:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been in love with a guy. we've gone out together for 2 years. and after 2 years, we started fighting a lot. there was a lack of understanding. then he decided to end up everyhting. i still love him a lot. i talked to him about getting back together, but he refused and said that we can never be together again. What SHOULD I DO TO GET HIM BACK???? Please help me. i really love him dearly, deeply. I want him back.

2006-11-27 05:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby has made it clear to me that I am a bad wife at house cleaning compared to his previous two wives. They held down great paying jobs and cleaned apparently Miraculous. As to where he says my cleaning looks like an half *** and asks me why I am so Lazy in the cleaning Department. Since I don't know how to clean like Godess am I really that bad of a wife I have trie dthat stupid fly lady thing I just don't know things I do look clumsy and good advice I will so appreciate.

2006-11-27 05:14:37 · 30 answers · asked by blueflyhorizon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We draw names each year and this year I drew her name. Which would be fine other then the fact that I can't stand her. I would like to give her a good @ss kicking, but I have to be nice on account of my nephews. So any ideas, I know that her favorite color is green or purple and that she likes exotic teas. I am really just drawing a blank. Thanks for the help.

2006-11-27 05:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother is a meth addict, has hep c and is recently homeless. She is a very sensitive person and very selfish. I refuse to let her come stay with me. I have two children of my own. She is careless when it comes to her hep c like picking at her crank sores and bleeding all over. I will not let my children kiss her or her them. She is homeless by her own choice. She knew for more than a month that she had to be out of her house and didn't do anything about it. She still hasn't done anything to find another place to live. She is now blaming me because she is still sleeping in her truck. Plus she is involved in things that could get her killed. Her drug addiction is out of control. Just this weekend she was so high she had no control over her body movements and she threatened to kill my grandma over money. My view on it is, my children are my responsibility, she's not and I need to protect my children. What should I do, if anything?

2006-11-27 05:13:40 · 19 answers · asked by r_eimaj 1 in Family

My ex calls me everyday and tells me how much he misses me and that he loves me. And then he says that he never wants to be with me again. How can he love me but not want to be with me? It doest make any sense. I love him sooo much and i cant get ovr him someone help me!!!!!

2006-11-27 05:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Bubblez707 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 05:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a very good friend who i tell all my secrets...family and personal but as soon as i tell him my crush he threatens to spread it to everyone(i live in india where if anyone knows about ur crush your gonna be hurt socially which is bad,real bad)i know his crush as well but he tells that he will tell everyone about me 1st so that no one will believe me........Help........Please..........!!!!!!!

2006-11-27 05:12:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This month has been very bad for me. I keep getting into these minor accidents. A week ago, I got into a bad car accident. Thank god Im okay. So, I contacted my ex again because of it...And talk for few days then stopped talking. Then, 2 nites ago I called him and said Not talk for awhile n he agrees. So, today in the pouring rain, I get a flat tire! So, I text my ex asking what to do ( i have no one here to turn to. dads away to another country) my ex called back to check up on if i got taken care of or not. so i said Yeah i did. I Imed him telling him Thanks for Calling back n sorry if i keep contacting you!.

Ok, what the hell should i do? Its hard.. Stuff happens to me and I turn to him. And We strt talkin again....Same cycle....

I'm not trying to get him back or anything cus either one of us want that now. He wants to remain friends but its a lil hard for me cus i do get emotional...cus I stil have feelings for him..


Any suggestions??

2006-11-27 05:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by julie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a very beautiful blk woman. I have a very high sex drive.(which my husband never complained about before) We have been together for 5yrs. We have two children together- 19 month old and a 8 week old baby. Even when the children are sleep-or away-even when Im fresh out of the shower with Victoria's Secret on-even when I strut around like a sex-godess-he never wants me. I need to have sex everyday or I am highly stressed and depressed. We only have sex when he is ready-which is maybe every 3 days. Im sick and tired of this ****. Someone please give me some advice. Im not going to divorce him nor cheat. We are a Christian couple and I have prayed that he'll desire me the same way I desire him, but it has yet to come. Maybe I need to get help for my over-sexual mind. I dont know. He has no ED problems nor is he cheating. He does have a high workload and is stressd from work most nights. Thanks a bunch!!!!

2006-11-27 05:12:00 · 32 answers · asked by butterrum28 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 05:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by helix 3 in Marriage & Divorce

females sometimes tend to blab to their friends about sexual encounters with men . . rendevous . . u kno, its part of females. but my question is do guys . .and I mean answer this honestly . . do you tell ur friends about women and what we do to you in bed . .or if it was good . .or it was bad . . and all the details in b/t?
I just need to know from a guys perspective . .

2006-11-27 05:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Chelle 2 in Singles & Dating

I've heard answers that range from $2,000 to $15,000.

2006-11-27 05:10:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im in love with someone 20 years older than me. It realy is true love, but do you people out there think it is OK?

2006-11-27 05:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by krazy 2 in Singles & Dating

Many people feel differently about what the word relationship means, and what is ' expected ' from the other party.
What is the one PRICELESS THING we can give our partners ?

2006-11-27 05:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband loves to talk to girls online and there always hitting on him he does it when im next to him.i tell him i dont like it but he ignores me,he also loves porn.we are always arguing bacause of it.we have a oppurtunity to do counsling through the military bacause hes in the military.but he thinks i have the problem not him.what should i do?

2006-11-27 05:08:57 · 42 answers · asked by babyphat.1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 05:08:54 · 20 answers · asked by prety girl 1 in Singles & Dating

A few nights ago i done acid which was really stupid...then I told my one friend about it before I told my bestfriend b/c i knew how she would react but after i told her she got really mad that i told my other friend before her and then we got into this big fight over it and then she said "I don't know you anymore!" and drove off and we havent talked since b/c she wont answer my phone calls or text messages...What should I do??Please help me b/c i dont know what i would do without her b/c she has always been there for me!!!!

2006-11-27 05:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by Mandy_sky_45 1 in Friends

I am trying to understand a good friend of mine. I suspected that she liked me, and I was starting to grow feelings for her. I told her she was my type, but I wanted to remain friends. She agreed and told me she had not intended to flirt. When she kept bringing up what more I wanted than friendship, I told her anything more is impossible and that I saw her as a really good friend. She was really happy that I thought she was that good of a friend. Now, she seems to hint like crazy at me though, and she even told me in front a few people that could hear that she had told a group of little girls that I was her boyfriend. What is going on???

2006-11-27 05:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing someone for nearly a year. This man is self employed and has been for over a year. Since having this business he has had many financial setbacks. He's had to go to a friend for money, which he did pay back. Even after this loan from friend he ran into more money problems. I offered to loan him money once and he paid me back right away. The following month he needed money again and asked if I could help. I did, again he paid me back. This has now happened on several occassions. Although he pays me back I am struggling with how I feel about this relationship now. I feel like I'm here just to simply float money for him. I don't mind helping, but its getting to be too much for me. I just feel I made a mistake to ever offer to loan him this money. Any thoughts?

2006-11-27 05:06:23 · 12 answers · asked by tranquil1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Very much in love - and things seem perfect on the outside. Until now had no doubts this was the man I would marry. Yesterday while at his house, I checked email on his computer and saw and adult personals site in the history. Curiosity got the best of me - and I clicked on it - Only to discover his ad with some very disturbing photos. Says he's looking for women to have fun with. (??Our sex life is fantastic??) If it was old - I maybe could justify it - but now that I know - I checked and he has been active on the site 2 days in a row. What should I do - and how should I confront him? I'm heartbroken and scared - please help!

2006-11-27 05:05:06 · 18 answers · asked by carolinagirl9912 2 in Singles & Dating

A year ago my son had to be punished because he joined bad crowds, was doing dangerous stuff. We grounded him for some months until we could trust him again. He changed completely, but got very resentful and humiliated, because he had apologized and promised to change and it took us months to trust him again. Today he's a great boy but avoids us, doesn't talk to us about his life, he just lives with us. We tried to tal with him a lot of times, explained we were afraid he'd do something dangerous, it was out of love. But he always says he can't get over , we should have belived him (although he had some chances to change his behavior without a punishment) and shouldn't wait for months before trusting him again. Today he's sure a great guy, but sems will never love us again. This year he got in the honor roll of his school and didn't tell us, I got to know from a teacher. We could have so many activities together, I could help him so much. But seems his resentment will last forever

2006-11-27 05:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships