My ex calls me everyday and tells me how much he misses me and that he loves me. And then he says that he never wants to be with me again. How can he love me but not want to be with me? It doest make any sense. I love him sooo much and i cant get ovr him someone help me!!!!!
2006-11-27 05:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by Bubblez707 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's stuck between, "can't live with them, can't live without them." He must be young (maybe under 28 years old) because it's those who are less mature who have a hard time deciding if they want to be with this one person and is it worth it. If you love him that much, you'll just have to sit back and wait for him to make up his mind and grow up.
2006-11-27 05:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess This guy needs some therapy,even i wonder how is that possible.My ex told me that he loves me many times but he doesnt even care about me.Does this make sense to you?.How can guys be so clueless?.I need to ask some guys what do they actually mean by that.But i read this book,"He's just not that into you".According to this book,when i guy says i love you,he means that he doesnt wanna hurt you,when he says i dont wanna be with you he truely means that he doesnt love you.
2006-11-27 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. It is very possible to love someone and yet not be able to live with them. From what I gather he's telling you he doesn't hate you it's just that you weren't meant to be together. It is that or you two have children together and he's trying to keep you soft so you won't push for everything you and your children deserve. I hope that's not the case. I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-11-27 05:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping you hanging on. Ignore his calls and don't contact him....it will be the best thing you do for yourself. I went through the same thing....but....what I did got him back. If that is really what you want....you need to ignore him completely. No joke. Don't let him string you along like his little doll.
You need to email me....
kellie_k_hoyle@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 05:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just lonely and can't get over you. he calls you because he misses you because you're gone. he doesn't want to be with you because he's afraid that he'll get hurt again. even though it may not have seemed like it but he's hurting.
i mean give him a break he's really confused right now
2006-11-27 05:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happens to me. Its maybe because he don't want to hurt your feeling or maybe he dont want you to get in trouble by your parents.
Just keep it this way. he knows whats best for you.
hope you feel better hun.
-someone-
2006-11-27 05:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him the reason why he cannot be with you. Ask him if he in in a problem. If he loves you then definitely he will be with you. Maybe he is in some trouble, meet him and ask him. Goodluck
2006-11-27 05:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is keeping you on standby in case he needs some attention.I would advise you to make it clear to him that you are moving on and may even start dating again
2006-11-27 05:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by knowsitallandabitmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants some BOOTY !!!!!!
2006-11-27 05:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋