Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

ive been seeing this guy casually.we have only met up 4 times and when we do meet,i stay at his place cause i live in a different town to him.he has been chasing me for about 2 years,even when i was in my previous 6 year relationship with my ex fiance.i had my own place with my ex too.

he knew about my relationship.he knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has since moved away.ive been single now for 8 months.

i have only kissed this guy but he does want to take things further.he is still chasing me.

when i was with him last,he was asking about my ex,asking how he was.was he seeing if i was still into my ex?

i really like this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me.

if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have given up now?

why wont he ask me out properly on a date rather than keeping things so casual?

2006-11-27 05:04:09 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

what a guy mean when he says bases refering to a girl.

and what does base 1, 2 ......mean

2006-11-27 05:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by beerlover 1 in Singles & Dating

OK So I never kissed a guy for more than a second. I guess i'm tooo scared to see what will happen longer. I need to know what will happen if i kiss a guy longer and how can i just relax when i kiss a guy. I'm sinlge now but i just wabt to know incase

2006-11-27 05:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by :-* <3 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend banged me last night in the nursing home where i was visiting my grandpa! The nurse caught us and now is talking about taking us to jail! But if we had sex in the room where he was at in another bed it shouldnt matter. What can i do to keep from getting in trouble???

2006-11-27 05:02:32 · 8 answers · asked by divine dana 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello, if I have recently started dating someone (it will just be 2 months by christmas time) what is an appropriate xmas gift? He has everything he needs, in terms of little gadgets and doo-dads, and I really don't want to spend more than around $100.00.

I am trying to think of something that is not too impersonal, but not really intimate either. Any suggestions?

2006-11-27 05:02:18 · 1 answers · asked by J A 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 8 years decided that he was not in love with me anymore this weekend. I pack my daughter and myself up and moved out of our home into an apartment. I am devastated by this and dont know if I can go on. He s 33 and I am 32 years old and the thought of dating scares me to death!!! I keep questioning myself if I did the right thing or not. We have only fought 1 X in 8 years and then this happens the fight happen when we first got together. We were the perfect family and I dont know what to do!! Please help!!!!!!

2006-11-27 05:01:42 · 11 answers · asked by harlie1056 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 05:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by tropic f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its really my step daughter. She lives at home with her mother and grandparents and visits my BF and I on the weekends. I have known her for 7 years. She is 12 now. She has always had a hygeine problem. Meaning.....when she takes a shower she just lets the water clean her. She doesnt use Shampoo or soap. Yes, I have explained to her the proper way a tween should clean themselves. She has told me that she doesnt care if she stinks or not. I told her that she is offending other people as well as herself. No reaction. I have bought her deoderant.....wont use it. Cute panties......wont change them......Nice fruity shampoo.....wont use it. Her mother obviously has not backed me up on this. I have tried. Her father has tried, in a man kind of way, to help her. He has tried but hes really not that helpful.
Im now looking into depression and Drs. She is trying very hard to be "Emo". She doesnt want Christmas presents and she refuses to go to Disney World with us.
Help.........

2006-11-27 05:00:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sqrlll 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I were talking about the holiday's. I know the holiday's are hard for him now because this past April he lost him Mother. I know his the feeling, I lost a child 3 yrs ago, so I know the feeling of not having a loved one around and I want to respect his wishes on this but I'm having a hard time doing what he ask. His family has decided not to do Holiday's this year in memory of there mom. That means there not buying gifts for each other or for anyone else. Well he said that he is going to do this but he would like to buy me something but would like for me not to buy him anything. He said it would just be to hard. So what do I do? I had already started on making him this blanket. Do i just go ahead and give him that and nothing else? Or should I buy him something small but special? Or just do what he ask? Any thoughts would be good.

Thanks!

2006-11-27 05:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a good kid. I get good grades, I'm a good friend. I dont go out with guys because i'm bored or enything ridiculous. I have a best friend who i couldn't live without. I have a great family, I'm my own person. so now i'm asking you...what is wrong with me? I have a good life and yet I am still feeling down. Can anyone help? Thanks. I hope so. xoxo <333

2006-11-27 04:59:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just curious why a woman is expected to change her last name to her husbands names why not the other way around.

2006-11-27 04:58:13 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't had a complete orgasm yet with my bf...and this is becoming a huge problem.
Although I have some small build, and feel satisfied, I know I can get a full satisfaction by masterbating. My bf wants me to have an orgasm, but I can't... I really hardly get orgasm with a partner...
I have been telling him that I have had orgasm, but I never fully did. Should I tell him this? Should I let him work on me till I do get a full orgasm? I don't want him to get tired...cuz I know it takes nearly 30 min...but is this normal?

2006-11-27 04:58:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hurt my ex in past? will he come back ? what do u think if he still loves me?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me at the monet. dont say move on .
i also foned 2nite late n he wasnt there missing me huh?

2006-11-27 04:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean ok if u want her to be fit its ok, but like most guys neeed big boobs, nice *** etc...y so picky?!

2006-11-27 04:57:36 · 22 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a recent break up with a girl of seven years and two children she's cheated on me four times... i've never cheated on her but i'm no saint either. she's having contact with a friend of ours that she has slept with. part of me wants to stay away and move on but most of me wants her back so badly. she says she needs her space but, i wonder if it's the other guy. they only contact by phone right now because he lives a few states away. she says they are just friends but, they did have sex before we moved home and separated. i'm so very hurt and confused on what choices i need to make. other than the cheating she was good to me but, the cheating hurts. please give me some good advice.

2006-11-27 04:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by laviniablue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 04:56:28 · 9 answers · asked by Muslim Man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need alittle help here... especially from guys? why do you guys do the sweetest thing what either purpose do you want from the ladies? cause my boyfriend has been acting strangely romantic and does the cuttiest thing's!! But it's beginning to alittle bit to much for me.. believe me I AM like WOW and wonder why he is doing this for me? Should I do something in return?

2006-11-27 04:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tilly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:55:10 · 15 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family

2006-11-27 04:55:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, you have a small 4-5.9 incher on one side and a larger 6-8 incher on the other. Which one is going to get you turned on more? When you see a erect 4 incher it will probably be 1.5 to 2 inches when flaccid. Does that turn you on? Or would a flaccid 4-5 incher make you want to reach for the higher 6-8 inches?

Be honest please. Don't hand me that motion of the ocean crap. Or, "It doesn't matter to me". Not only because it is crap, but I'm not talking about feeling, I'm talking about what is stimulating to the eyes. The majority of people obviously want bigger ones. Our society cators to them.

If you don't agree with me, then how come there are no 4-5 inched males in the adult buisness? How come 4 inched dildos aren't readily available in adult stores?

You're telling me a tiny unseen erection in a guys pants will turn you on when you can't even tell if he's hard or not? Or will one buldging out of his pant legs get you aroused? Something just doesn't add up here

2006-11-27 04:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Erica B 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm looking for a first love! My Name is Justin R. Cramer.
Tiffany would be 24 Sometime this Summer. Not exactly sure of a date...
We are about 1 1/2 months apart in age differance. We last had contact wnen we were 11 years old. My Mother (Sheree L. Cramer at the time) was married To My Ex-StepFather (Larry E. Cramer). When My parents, Little sister (Brittany) and I Left Murray City, Utah we Never heard from eachother again (Tiffany and I). We were in McMillan Ellementary School When we seperated. I have some Pictures in which I think she Might be in but got to figure out how to post pics 1st... Her family Members Names are Frank & Debbie Fleming Father & Mother, And sister Jessica Fleming... If someone out there can give me some info. as to where any of these 4 family members may live I would much appreciate some info. also email addresses or Phone #'s would be helpful to, plz and thanx... My Email Address is jstn_crmr@yahoo.com If someone has details plz email me o.k.

2006-11-27 04:54:55 · 1 answers · asked by jstn_crmr 1 in Friends

even though i'm 21yrs old, 6'1, very good build and i play football 4 a pro team. But girls don't see me more than a friend - someone safe. Also i h8 clubs and bars because of the smoky air so i can't chat 2 girls after a game.

2006-11-27 04:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was basicly waiting for her to come back for 7 months and I finally realized that's not going to happen and am cool with that.

The problem is I think of her all the time. I conciously redirect my attention to other things 99% of the time but the prob. another memory is always there.
It was my first time in love, and I am not looking for anyone right now. I know these things contribute.

Is there anything else besides staying busy and find someone else?
I do realize it's a lot more important to concentrate on where I'm going as opposed to where I've been.

2006-11-27 04:54:05 · 19 answers · asked by MeaCulpa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering, if u had a crush on this guy, but this guy doesnt really put in much effort to go out with you, and there was this OTHER guy who is really nice to you but u never really had feelings for him, would u start to like him? ....try to think like ur still in high school.....

2006-11-27 04:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have not been spending enough time together like we used to. We used to see each other twice a week and now it is twice a month. He says he's always busy working. I even talked to him saying I am willing to work around his schedule, he agreed and I still feel like what I have said did not go anywhere and went back to the same thing. We've been together for 6 months. I just found out he has a page on myspace and shows he has been going to shows and hanging out with friends. So busy he is.... I have not confronted him yet, I just wanted some suggestions or advices on what to do first. Thanks

2006-11-27 04:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by Lovespell 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently met this guy and he's the sweetest, but the other night we were in my room watching Xmen 3 and he came on to me. He first tried to hold my hand and then he tried to give me a kiss, which I backed off from both and I told him I didn't wanna do that. He said ok, our evening finished and he went home. Everytime we see each other we're still cool, but he still tries to flirt or hit on me thinking he can win me over, the thing is, well he doesn't know I'm lesbian and I really don't know how to tell him. I don't know what his reaction wil be.

2006-11-27 04:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 2 in Singles & Dating

First off, i'm junior in college that doesn't have any real friends. I am quite straight but have never had a girlfriend, let alone a date. I am very shy around girls, and guys too (but not so much).
I'm not like a big macho man either. It seems like most guys want to just get a girl for sex, but I'm looking forward to (hopefully) getting married and having kds one day. Am i wierd?

2006-11-27 04:51:54 · 22 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Please give me some good ideas...None of the usual meal,cinema , club stuff.....

2006-11-27 04:50:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has left me cuz he fancies sum 1 else we were 2geva 4 years im pregnant and we have a child.will he *** 2 his senses could he really have just fallen out of love wiv me

2006-11-27 04:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by cheekychopz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have done all my Xmas shopping except for my grandparents. Any ideas on what to get they are in their 70's. Please no socks, smellies or incontinence pads!! They are quite active for their age.

2006-11-27 04:49:56 · 24 answers · asked by tewittdewoo 1 in Family