hurt my ex in past? will he come back ? what do u think if he still loves me?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me at the monet. dont say move on .
i also foned 2nite late n he wasnt there missing me huh?
2006-11-27 04:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give him up, sounds like he just wants a bump now and then
2006-11-27 04:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by treetown2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly say to go to the local library and check out the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt, the guy who did consulting on the Sex and the City TV show. He calls 'em like he sees 'em. It's a short easy read and if you recognize your scenario in there, one of his answers will be for you. As he says, time and again, "don't waste the pretty." I truly don't think there is such a thing as, "I love you, but not right now." But Greg puts it so much better than I can. Check it out for some real, honest answers. You will recognize every guy you ever dated in his insightful, hysterically funny wisdom. He will help you tell yourself the truth and get on with life.
2006-11-27 05:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is stringing you along probably to stay on your good side & has probably moved on & keeping you on the sidelines in case he needs you.Tell him that you are going to start dating other guys & then do it.His reaction will let you know where his heart really is.Either he will care enough to get back together or not,,either way,,you move forward.I think there is someone better for you out there. ;O)
2006-11-27 05:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme guess.. both of you are teenagers..
He's clearly a player and just wants you as reserve in case he doesnt have anyone else. Dump him girl n move on... the grass is greener on the other side :D
2006-11-27 05:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need to move on he is giving you mixed messages and basically has you hanging about.It may be that he is also scared to tell you the truth as you have not also behaved very well towards him.Try not to contact him any more and perhaps then he may come back to you when you have gave him the space he is asking you for.
2006-11-27 05:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by knowsitallandabitmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you betrayed this man and broke his trust,would you want to be with a some one that did that to you? this is how you must look at it from his side not yours, also unless you got a lot of help you can not just be a good girl on your own, you need to look at why you did this self destructive behaviour, in order to get it under control
2006-11-27 05:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's moving on, he just doesn't want you with anyone else most people are like that
2006-11-27 05:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋