I recently met this guy and he's the sweetest, but the other night we were in my room watching Xmen 3 and he came on to me. He first tried to hold my hand and then he tried to give me a kiss, which I backed off from both and I told him I didn't wanna do that. He said ok, our evening finished and he went home. Everytime we see each other we're still cool, but he still tries to flirt or hit on me thinking he can win me over, the thing is, well he doesn't know I'm lesbian and I really don't know how to tell him. I don't know what his reaction wil be.
2006-11-27 04:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're not really not into him(as you said, you're a lesbian), then you should not worry about how his reaction is going to be. besides, if he's a real friend (and not "acting" as a friend just so he can hang around with you), he would accept you for who you are. if he can't, you've got nothing to lose, right?
2006-11-27 05:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Stanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you just see him as a friend and you just don't feel the same. Tell him he is a nice guy and bring his self-esteem up and say that there will be someone else who likes him for who he is. (Kinda even out the "rejection.") You just don't feel the same way.
2006-11-27 12:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact u r a lesbian should not be difficult just let him no and he will quit by himself
2006-11-27 13:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that your lesbian, your sexual preference shouldn't bother him if he is a real friend
2006-11-27 12:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T KEEP LEADING HIM ON
TELL HIM SO HE CAN FIND A GIRLFRIEND
2006-11-27 13:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋