even though i'm 21yrs old, 6'1, very good build and i play football 4 a pro team. But girls don't see me more than a friend - someone safe. Also i h8 clubs and bars because of the smoky air so i can't chat 2 girls after a game.
2006-11-27 04:54:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks have nothing to do with being sexy, it's something else completely! You could start by practicing your flirting and take it from there! Talk and flirt with as many girls as possible even if you're not that interested. Take it from there. And remember that we all have our own definitions of sexy, so there be no telling who'll be attracted to you. Good luck!!
2006-11-27 05:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey m8 "Head over Heals girl friend" don't worrie about a thing that's just going to make you fell 100 times worse!!! Not everyone,everyday all the time feels attractive, so your not alone m8! But i now how your feeling but on a smaller scale.Well I'm 1 of 6 sister's who are all pretty in there own ways, and even sometimes when were out together,I feel like the Ugly Duckling!! :(
And listen to this my sister's don't even believe me when I tell them that some dude had their eyes on me, they just laugh it off and make me feel like i am just a big Joke, so now i don't even tell them about my personal experiences, I just keep everything inside me and shut myself away! Starting too fell very isolated,and evan feel suicidal at times.(Due to other issues aswell). All the best xx
2006-11-27 06:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex appeal has nothing to do with how tall short fat thin good looking or ugly you are! i used to hang with a girl who looked like Rik Mayall n got all the guys drooling over her, its much more how confidence and how you feel about youreself..your self esteem realy dioes affect others view of you!
you're only 21, give it time. girls dont know what they want at that age, the bad but exciting guys soon get boring when we get a bit older n want stability n love rather than thrills..hang in there
2006-11-27 05:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well keep your chin up because in the new year the new laws for smoking in pubs are coming in so you can go then as nobody will be smoking.
I think you may be imagining it coz if I met someone like you I wouldn't want to be friends
2006-11-27 06:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a relationship is 2 Half's, some times you have 2 be like a comeleon and blend in a bit
2006-11-27 05:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerGeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i think that you should not do yourself like that I'm 5'3 about 245 and i am in love with myself. the thing is if you don't think that you are the **** then who will . you have to not worry about the club scene and everything do something else how about you throw a party to see how its gonna turn out. however i know that you are a great person because you are worried about the situation. please don't worry don't put your worry on Friends put them on you get yourself together first. you are beautiful!!!
2006-11-27 05:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by taby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is other places to meet women, clubs aren't the only place. Keep positive thoughts, when your woman comes along she'll be the right one for you. She won't be smoke filled or alcohol induced.
2006-11-27 04:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex appeal is a state of mind; look for the good in yourself and work on that. If you don't think you're sexy, no-one else will.
2006-11-27 05:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club. I'm not sexy or excing to look at. In fact I'm plain ugly.
2006-11-27 04:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s confidence that also makes one sexy. A plain or ugly person could be considered desirable if they ooze confidence and charisma.
2006-11-27 05:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋