Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

during some phases of your life you get a lot of attention and seem to be very successful in attracting the opposite sex, and then equally, during other phases, you go through whole periods with nearly no attention whatsoever!
I am a guy and when I was in a serious rel with a girl, I had no end of attention and flirtations with random girls (of which I never ever persued), and now that I am single again, I find it very hard to get noticed and be approached!
Why is it when you are after something, it just seems like it's just not there!
Damn!

2006-11-27 04:49:43 · 15 answers · asked by Christian_80 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a male friend and we're getting REALLY close. We're on the verge of dating. He's never had group sex and would like to try just to see what it is like. He says that he wants to do it with these 2 certain male friends because with them I'll get pleased and since it's no strings attached, I won't have to worry about anything later on down the line. He says that it will not mess up what we have and it will not get out to anyone else, for the sake of saving my reputation and it's just for his personal pleasure to see what's it like. Should I? I really like him, probably in love w/ him, and I'd do anything for him but I don't wanna look bad in this situation.

2006-11-27 04:48:46 · 29 answers · asked by rclark324 1 in Singles & Dating

On Saturday I celebrated my friend's b-day and I invited this guy I liked who is actually my friends boyfriend of 2 years and anyways long story short, the boy and I have been secretly talking for 7 months and we were making out and I got a hickey and my mom saw it and got all pissed off. She was mostly mad because I told her I didn't have a boyfriend a couple days ago and so she thinks I got it from some random guy and is being mean to me right now. I couldn't tell her who the guy was of course cause she met him before.Keeping in mind that I'll be 18 in a few weeks I feel I can make out with someone I like if I want to, but does that make me a bad girl? I know that makes me a ***** for messing around with that guy but I'm calling it off today when I talk to him.

2006-11-27 04:48:44 · 9 answers · asked by atldutchess 2 in Family

ok i like this girl but her and another guy like each other and she knows i like her but doesnt act like it and then this other girl i barley know gave me a note that says that she thinks i like her and i should call her but the girl i like ahhhhhhhhhhhh can anyone help me
i 15

2006-11-27 04:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by bballboyrocks 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We met 10 months ago and hit if off right away. Everything was very promsing.

Then she told me she was returning to her religion, Jehovah's Witnesses, and that we can't have pre-marital sex. So we just fooled around alot and I was okay with that.

Then a fellow female JW moved in with her, and suddenly I wasn't allowed to stay over. Now we're fooling around less and less each month.

Now someone from her congregation saw us together and warned her that we're not supposed to be together without a chapperone. So, we've only talked on the phone for the past week.

So, in the beginning, it was just the two of us and I was happy. Then, she invited "Jehovah" into our relationship at it was okay. Then, she invited her JW friend into our relationship and it was tolerable. Now, she's invited her entire congregation into our relationship and it's unacceptable.

Should I kick her to the curb and move on, or stick around and see how much worse things get?

2006-11-27 04:48:10 · 20 answers · asked by drgolfmd 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:47:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 29, single, and i think a pretty good looking guy. i'm not really into the bar/club scene anymore. i did that in the early twenties and just want to meet someone without feeling i'm trying to be young again by hitting that scene agian. where do i meet ladies

2006-11-27 04:46:27 · 13 answers · asked by Roger W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

X-Wife and My son has moved back in with me after 6 years of seperation and Divorce. We live together for financial reasons and to raise our child. What kinda of present do you get for her.

2006-11-27 04:45:29 · 11 answers · asked by Rich 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Being female iv never whistled at a guy - or girl - and i never intend to.but what i wanted to know is do girls and guys find it offensive to be whistled at? or do people like it?? does it make any difference on what the person whistling looks like?
just curious

2006-11-27 04:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

women should treat men. And although I like him, I'm not that into him.

#2 is good looking, a very sweet man but his job is very low brow, blue collar. He has a LOT of family baggage and he's deaf, which makes communicating tough. I think I'm attracted to him but maybe only b/c he likes me so much.

#3 is also nice, funny, smart and talented. He has a good job. But I'm just not feelin' it.

#4 is THE ONE I WANT. #1 to 3 are all compatible with me spiritually, but I have no idea what #4 is like in that area. But he's VERY smart, EXTREMELY talented, hot and successful. But he barely knows I'm alive! This one is a pipe dream, I know.

Which guy should I go for?

2006-11-27 04:45:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is for the guys!! Let's say you have been dating me for almost 2 years. I know your not racist or prejudice, but you just make stupid remarks about black people and mexicans, and I asked you not to talk like that, atleast around me, what would you do? Would you respect me or would you keep doing it anyways?
Just a question......10 points to the winner!!

2006-11-27 04:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of one year moved in together about 2 months ago. 3 weeks ago on vacation, he proposed. Now that we're engaged he seems to have stopped trying at everything...he doesn't help me clean or do anything around the house. He stopped going grocery shopping with me, etc.
We both work full-time, but he acts as if we have traditional gender roles. I'm feeling overwhelmed, and when I tried to tell him how I'm feeling or ask that he helps me a little more, he acts as if I shouldn't be complaining or that my feelings are trivial. I like taking care of the house and cooking, but it's too much with a full-time job.
I feel that now that I have an engagement ring, he acts as if he doesn't have to try anymore. Is he just taking advantage of the situation? I don't want to change him. And if thats how he is, it will be worse in 20 years. Should I try to tell him again, then if he doesn't start helping dump him? Or should I take this as a clue and run?!

2006-11-27 04:44:36 · 17 answers · asked by bored_in_city 2 in Singles & Dating

talked to this guy last year all the time and we flirted and everyone said that he liked me. gave him my number and he never called me over the summer. we came back to school and he almost never talks to me anymore and when he does it is like an after thought like o yea she is still here and i am bored so i'll go talk to her. but then he will go out of his way just to do something cute so i will notice him and get this cute little look sometimes when he looks at me like he wants about to say something important but can't. . also when i ask him what is going on he will mumble things like "i alway liked u (idk if as friend or what) and "we always talk"i don't know what to think so i am about to end the small friendship we now have because i am tired of trying to figure him out. what he is doing and should i just try to forget him?girls u are great and i appreciate ur answers but i would like some guys to answer too cuz u know better than girls what is going through his mind. what he doin

2006-11-27 04:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by lalalalalalalalala23 3 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I wouldn't trust myself if he came and talked to me. But he's so cute. And then today he did talk to me. Man this so frustrating all this and I have a boyfriend who I indeed know has things every girl would want in a guy looks, personality, good sex, the works. the thing is though I moved so now we're a thousand miles apart. Help!!!!!!

2006-11-27 04:43:13 · 11 answers · asked by misscoolcat89 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 04:42:43 · 6 answers · asked by kriggle 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is super romantice says i never do anything need to impress but nothing expensive like something homemade that i can do fast or other ideas please

2006-11-27 04:42:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he just got an xbo 360 on friday and it's like the xbox gives him permission to be a slob! he leaves plates around. throws his pants off and just leaves them there. it's like the xbox is sucking hs brain out! anyone have this happen to them? grrr. i'm not ever ever going to dump him, so don't suggest that. we're getting married when he gets back from kuwait....

2006-11-27 04:42:06 · 24 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Singles & Dating

okay. so my bf and i have been on and off for almost 1 year and 1/2-16 months as of right now! we spend a lot of time at his place, his apartment that he rents since we both are college students and today he said something along the lines of how it seems as though we are sort of living together since i spend the night at his place 2-3 times a week sometimes which is alot i will admit!but me and him are almost 2 years apart in age difference and are the complete opposite and a couple of days ago he said that the only way you know that you and the other person are meant to be together is to live together and experience how it feels because only then you get to know your bf or gf really well, better than now!am missing something that he is trying to hint? help plz

2006-11-27 04:41:42 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

How can i seduce a woman, with out doing any thing funky like buying flowers every day until the sun crashes to earth. I dare you to answer.

2006-11-27 04:41:19 · 26 answers · asked by Chard P 3 in Singles & Dating

if i girl knows u like her and does the following:
1) say "whether we become acquaintances, friends or whatever, i won't regret anything", what does the whatever mean? she has said in the past there is a possibility but has seemed unsure lately

2) while talking about pants, touch your pants on your thigh to judge how loose they are.

3) when u tell her she is too pretty to look at, look up at you and say "that is a potential problem"

4) when showing u her bed, which is blocked by a blanket, creating a kind of cave, and u say "it's good for mediation," say to you, "yeah and privacy"

is this flirting? she says her nature is not flirty but i think this qualifies as flirting.

2006-11-27 04:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(sorry if my spelling is bad but i am a really bad speller!)

Ok well my x boyfriend and i were going out for four months. we are only young though (13) well after we "kissed properly" he started to ***** about me.. calling me a frige and also he called me a rubish kisser! The thing is, is he thinks that he is god's gift and some kind on babe magnet... but in reality nobody thinks this off him!! infact.. he dosnt have very many friends but i think that because im "aparenty" really popular.. i think he said all that stuff to get attention from people... could this br true??
please help me and tell me if you think differently to what i have already said...
bye!

2006-11-27 04:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer to take the initative in sex or the woman?

2006-11-27 04:40:44 · 8 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl about 3 mothns ago. Not your traditional girl either. she's punky, and geeky. needless to say, we got along from the start. At 1st, she was really nothing but *another friend8, but as time went on i began to find my delf falling in love with her as we grew closer and closer. Our personalities match perfect, we spend all our free time together(we're in college, so that means everytime we're not working on homework or sleeping, we;re together), and everyone who sees us instantly thinks we're a couple. Only problem is...we're not. Normally, like with most girls, i would tell her how I feel...however, with her its different. Every guy she ever seems to meet instantly falls in love with her (shes the dream girl; she loves games, star wars, and roleplaying games) And I'm afriad that if i confess my feelings, it'd ruin our friendship (which i also love) and I'd become nothing more then another one of the 100 guys who've fallen for her in the past-what should i do?!?

2006-11-27 04:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-27 04:39:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 11th grade and there's this kid that from 9th grade has made fun of me. We had a couple of fights (nothing big) and he just likes to call me Pokemon. I kept standing up for myself but I've seen that it just keeps him attacking (verbally) more. So, since the beggining of 11th grade I have been mostly ignoring him and acting like I didn't care about what he said when he made a comment about me.

By the way, this is a very angry person. He hates me. There's absolutely no way of talking to him about this - trust me!

2006-11-27 04:39:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was with him for 2 years, he was my bestfriend, the love of my life and I broke his heart to be with someone else who treats me bad and now I want him back so badly it hurts, what should I do?

2006-11-27 04:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by kelsey 1 in Singles & Dating

How much would you pay?

2006-11-27 04:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating