I have a male friend and we're getting REALLY close. We're on the verge of dating. He's never had group sex and would like to try just to see what it is like. He says that he wants to do it with these 2 certain male friends because with them I'll get pleased and since it's no strings attached, I won't have to worry about anything later on down the line. He says that it will not mess up what we have and it will not get out to anyone else, for the sake of saving my reputation and it's just for his personal pleasure to see what's it like. Should I? I really like him, probably in love w/ him, and I'd do anything for him but I don't wanna look bad in this situation.
2006-11-27 04:48:46 · 29 answers · asked by rclark324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i mean thats up to you..not us..i wouldnt do it. but thats because i have a man. but if you say you love him and he wants you to do it that dont mean you have to. and who cares what people think of you...dont base your life on what other people think...but follow your instink it wont let you down!!!!!
2006-11-27 04:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun if you have any kind of pride for yourself then step up to the plate and tell him its either just him and him only or none at all. making love is something you cherrish if it has no meaning then why do it at all. I know of this young lady and she wont make love unless its with 2, 3 or 4 men at the same time. Well now she has a name about her that nobody should have. Because as you know guys do talk and brag on who they have had and how good the women are. Please use you head and think this out first because once word gets out your name will change not to your face but behind your back. Ans. this for me why would any man that loves his g/f or wife let another man make love to her or have her perform oral sex with them?
2006-11-27 13:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joe G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ought to be ashamed of yourself for asking that question.
Now...
If you like him and he likes you... and you're on the verge of dating... WHY WOULD HE ASK YOU TO SLEEP WITH SOME BUDDIES OF HIS?
I don't care if they're close and he feels safe with them. That doesn't matter. The bottomline is, if you love something (or really care about it), then you would have a hard time sharing it. And to be honest, if he had some close friends of his that have NEVER done this, do you really think they would want to be doing anything with him unless they've ALREADY done something like this? Come on now! His "game" may be strong, but it ain't that strong.
And you ought to know better! If you wanna do it because you wanna try it, fine. But don't end up on Maury talking about you think one of those three guys is the daddy and all that. And it could even be worse...
Use your head. Do it if you want to but be aware of the risks and the "rewards".
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-11-27 13:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the verge of dating. That means you have not even gone out on a date with him. That would also mean that you have not slept with him. And now you want to sleep with him and his mates???!!! You're kidding me right?
How old are you girl? 15? You'll be the talk of the town. The easiest lay in town. DON'T DO IT.
And i agree with an earlier post that said that if he had any feelings for you, he certainly would not share you with his friends. Maybe a SLU.T he would share, but not his woman.
2006-11-27 13:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Doraemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe any of the "it won't mess anything up". Do it of you want, so you know what its like. But you need to not be with the one you love the first time. A lot of feeling are going to come out and then a lot of senses will be dulled, you"ll see.
2006-11-27 12:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is a male and wants 2 other males to bang you? O.K. that is crazy what normal man would want to watch his so called friend having sex with 2 other guys. I don't know but he sounds gay to me. Why would you do it?
2006-11-27 12:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not do this for him. For one that is not cool for him to ask that of you. He might as well have said he wanted to run a train on you because as I see it it will we be three guys and one female. You don't know what these men have (STD) or how often they have done this. the sound gay anyway. Three men! What are the other two going to be doing when one is on you.
2006-11-27 13:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by A Walker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont......if you have any plans for anything relationship-wise with him later......you'd be killing that. Most people (Guys anyway, some girls but not quite as many).....have that sort of tendency or dream/fantasy anyway, and the fact that he asked you to take part to it, seems more or less that he doesn't really care at all. To me, seems like there was no friendship there to start with if he's jumping right to this kinda stuff.........ESPECIALLY with other people involved.
2006-11-27 12:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not!!!!!!! This guy obviously has no respect for you. Any guy who would share his girl with other guys is a pervert and should be immediatley kicked to the proverbial curb. I understand that you want to trust and believe in this man but trust me a man who loves you would not ask for such a thing.
2006-11-27 12:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie--Group sex is a big mistake. If this guy is into you, he will want you! If you have to ask yahoo answers--you are not interested. Please think this through and through before you say yes. Sounds a little like gang rape to me. Where are the other women?
2006-11-27 12:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by nguler_rn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether YOU want to have several males, or if it's just his wanting to try a threesome. If he just wants a threesome, you should suggest another lady friend! And yes, friends have the right to screw each other and stay friends later on.
2006-11-27 12:51:30 · answer #11 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋