I was with him for 2 years, he was my bestfriend, the love of my life and I broke his heart to be with someone else who treats me bad and now I want him back so badly it hurts, what should I do?
2006-11-27 04:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by kelsey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with the other guy, now.
After a few months contact the love of your life and let him know that you regret your actions and if he will have you, you want him back - start dating him.
2006-11-27 04:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and take control of your life. First, dump the guy who treats you bad. Second, take a few months off on your own (so you can also see for sure if this is what you really want and convince the guy you love that you are not just on another rebound).
It might work for you guys but the higher probability is that you will do the same thing again. I lived the exact situation with my Ex, wanted him back, had him back in no time and hurt him the same way again and again. I got progresively worse and didnt even respect him enough to be honest to him towards the end. He got insecure and became rude and it ended up all very ugly with broken hearts!
I suggest you take a long breather and understand what you really want in a guy, your Ex definetly doesnt have it all otherwise you would not have left him in the first place. Remember grass is always greener on the otherside, try and look deep inside why you left him, there was probably a good reason.
2006-11-27 05:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Curious George 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the person you are with and go back. Start slow, don't beg him to take you back, but make yourself into the kind of person he can't help but notice and be proud of. He will realize that people learn from their mistakes. And you need to leave someone that treats you badly as soon as possible.
2006-11-27 04:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how you truly feel about him now. Write him kind emails also detailing your apology and love for him. It is possible that he may forgive you and hook up with you if he still loves you. If he is capable of forgiveness and still loves you he will accept your apology and make a second attempt at the relationship.
2006-11-27 04:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by neutral 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you'd leave him alone. It's not fair to him, maybe he's just now almost over you, or maybe he's managed to move on, it's not fair to him to put him back through that, especially since he'llnever know when you'll decide again that he's not good enough fo ryou. Because that's what you said when you left him for someone else. "You're not good enough. I don't want you. I like someone else more than you."
2006-11-27 04:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u go talk to him. tell him how u feel, open ur heart don't hide anything from him. explain how it was for u, y u left him n y u want to come back to him. accept ur fault n try to build something from there. u won't lose anything if u go ask for his forgiveness. remember in love there is no pride
2006-11-27 04:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dominique Saint Claire 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you need to talk to your ex-boyfriend to see how he feels.. for one thing for sure you or anyone should not be treated badly! get away from him and start with talking to your ex and take it from there because you have to have trust in a relationship weather its friend or more but try starting there with talking things out.....
2006-11-27 04:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by georgeannabarse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about him and see how he feels now. he may have met someone and moved on . in that case you should do the same thing. he has to know how you feel before you go any further. good luck.
2006-11-27 04:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can come crawling back, lotsa apologies, etc. but don't be too surprised if he's not interested. Why should he think it won't happen again?
2006-11-27 04:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by k_e_p_l_e_r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh what a tangle web we weave :) unfortunately your punishment is going to be pain:( what goes around comes around :( you earned this hurt because of the hurt you inflicted on another!!
2006-11-27 04:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋