Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

Hey everyone..need some advise and quick! Ex and i have been
broken up since labor day. We have been going back and forth
with the calls, you know the maybe this and maybe that, but now
I get for me it is over..I need to move on. He has had all this time
to get his crap out of my place, that has never happened nor has
he given me my stuff back. I dropped his truck off to him, along
with his clothes in it...he still has not given me my stuff back. I have
a couple of items of his that I do not want anymore. I have found
someone to but them, is it wrong for me to sell them? I have given
him enough time and he just won't do anything about this...
What do I do...once they are sold I will FINALLY get my peace
and closure..is that wrong?

2006-11-27 23:59:54 · 14 answers · asked by wicktjw 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 23:58:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I spend the holidays with a mixed group of family and friends. My best friend always invites her uncle. Initially, he is pleasant. But as the day passes, he becomes more and more intoxicated. At dinner recently, he surpassed his usual vulgarities and went straight to sexual innuendos. He told my nephew to shut his "F'n" mouth, and suggested that my husband 'teach me a lesson', whatever that means. I cannot take it anymore. I am not the only one who has met their limit in this area. I suggested that my friend tell him that these drunken tirades will not be tolerated. But she is afraid that he'll feel alienated. Christmas is around the corner, what do I do? I don’t want to be alienated, either.

2006-11-27 23:57:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 23:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by sayswho 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been with each other for nearly 2 weeks and over the last couple of days she's been blanking me out. I've found out because she only now sees me as a 'friend'. would you happen to have any idea why this is and if there is say...a 'cure' for this or something. i really want to make this relationship last more than 2 weeks!

2006-11-27 23:54:51 · 13 answers · asked by dan 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and 2 months, he is not the anniversary type of guy, but he does sometimes make a fuss about birthdays. Due to work issue, we have been in a long distance relationship for 16 months, during this time, we keep in touch pretty often. He is not a guy who is very good with birthdays and stuff, he can even forget about his family's birthday. But the thing is, we had made plans for November since it is the time for my birthday and it's also the time for Earthcore (Trance music festival in Australia), and again, due to work issue, I couldn't organise a trip back to Australia in November, we almost break up because of that. Seeing November is such a big deal to him, I would think he would remember my birthday afterall, but this is not the case, and I am pretty upset about it. Should I be?

2006-11-27 23:54:46 · 28 answers · asked by devviash 2 in Singles & Dating

So i met this great guy and we started a relationship.

the first 2 weeks was great!!! he called me every single day sometimes once or twice per day.

after that it decreased bit by bit and he now only calls me once a week???

girls: am i the only one, or has this ever happened to you?? and is this normal??

guys: is this usually what you do?? is this how you behave??
or is it just me??

2006-11-27 23:53:49 · 36 answers · asked by melissa renston 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know guys ,im really needing help on this one

2006-11-27 23:52:12 · 8 answers · asked by alex j 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 23:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by sayswho 2 in Singles & Dating

Plain, or with jam?

2006-11-27 23:51:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a really shy person and find it hard to start converstions...what do i say that wont make me sound stupid? what's a good converstion starter? something that would work on any age...from 15 -30...plz help...

2006-11-27 23:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im in a relationship right now.. But im hurting now.. my partner is making me feel worthless.. what should i do?

2006-11-27 23:50:28 · 2 answers · asked by J-Drip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean if we lived together in Hungary do you think that I will face a cultural shock there,She will follow my religion,She loves me and I love her very much,But I am afraid of the cultural differences between us,,are we able to overcome all of that? Am I will adapt my self there?her family likes me too much,and I do also,I am little confuesed,So I need advise

2006-11-27 23:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and i don't understand. i like him so much but have not fall in love with him yet.

he always tell me i shouldn't live him but he loves me so much.

he is a skiny guy and how can i help him to build up his body.

2006-11-27 23:49:45 · 3 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 23:49:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give me slogan?
My brother is returning back from USA after 8 years, we are going to receive him, his wife and his daughter... i want to create some good posters for his welcome please help me with some good notations, slogans or any write up... it will be thankful to you

2006-11-27 23:49:15 · 6 answers · asked by Indian 1 in Friends

and she disapeared, she moved abroad or can't be found, maybe dead or hidding. Is it possible to get a divorce from her ?

2006-11-27 23:48:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I introduced her to my husbands best friend.As he lives 320 miles away we only really thought they would be friends as she is a single parent.Nearly 2 years later they r an item but our friendships with both of them is ruined.She houseshared with her ex boyf so they couldnt go there so used our house like a doss house never leaving us alone.She then got her own place and we havnt seen them since though not for the want of trying believe me.Me and her have now fallen out over our sons!!! I met her 5 years ago when my son was 1 years old and her son used to hurt him all the time even drawing blood at times.He gave him a black eye last week which was the last straw and I erupted saying a lot of things in hind sight I shouldnt have said. We used to be so close and now I regret introducing them and everything as it has ruined 2 friendships.What do I do?

2006-11-27 23:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by Clare B 3 in Friends

I was seeing this guy about 1 year ago and since we split up he meet some1 else and had a baby, but even b4 th baby was born he would always come round 2 my house and we would end up have sex, i know thats bad but i still havent meet any1 4 my self yet. I always tell him that this needs 2 stop but its like he doesnt want me 2 move on and meet some1 else, i even told him not 2 come round anymore but he still does and when he comes i always bring up his girlfriend but he just dont seem 2 care. WHAT CAN I DO 2 STOP THIS PLS HELP ME

2006-11-27 23:46:51 · 16 answers · asked by nats7916 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 23:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ivve been dating my boyfriend since 9/13/06 but we've never done anything!!! no dates! no "real" contact just hugs! what do i do?!!? i want to move forward!

2006-11-27 23:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by LazyLOViNtEEn 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is returning back from USA after 8 years, we are going to receive him, his wife and his daughter... i want to create some good posters for his welcome please help me with some good notations, slogans or any write up... it will be thankful to you

2006-11-27 23:45:46 · 1 answers · asked by Indian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girk\l friend who I love has a cancer in her uterus,She will not bring more childrens to me in the future if i married her,I will leave my country to live with her in her country,I can sacrify by any thing for her,BUT this point is very critical,What will I do after many years when I feel I need a baby?she did not agree about marrying another girl in the future to bring me babies,I am confuesed,I need to solve this condition,Continue with her the relation or not,She will make a surgery to removed the cancerous part in her genital system,What I am going to do ? I need a babies in the future and I need her also at the same time?

2006-11-27 23:44:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy.we are only seeing eachother casually. i have only kissed him but he "wants more".

how can i say to him that i really like him and want to date him and ask him if he just sees me for sex?

im not sure if hes just giving me time cause i came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago but i really do like him and its not a rebound thing!!!!

2006-11-27 23:44:46 · 11 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 23:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by rainyman258 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pretty and smart,but i'm not a boy-magnet

2006-11-27 23:41:07 · 17 answers · asked by irish s 2 in Singles & Dating

i am married for 12 yrs . i have 2 kids. my husband is more committed to his mother and siblings, and most of his earning goes to them. ihave sufffered a lot as i did not have financial security. and now i see my children in the same condition.he has not saved anything for them.i have tried all means to make him realize this but all in vain. we finally end up quarrelling and his mother comes up to us' come son i am sorry i ruined your life.' and he walks down with her. all this is so painful i cant explain.i once left his house also , but no use ,as i have no where to go. i cant see my children killing their desires for small thingsand my in laws wasting his money mercilessly.he is just not ready to realize the fact that they are exploiting him. so please can anyone tell me that is their any rule which says that my childen and i can force my husband for our monthly expenses and pocketmoney.what percentage of his earning can i get?

2006-11-27 23:40:40 · 12 answers · asked by annu 2 in Family

snow, for a ski run?

2006-11-27 23:37:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he made it clear to me before he left me that he didn't love me anymore. He is rather cool with me each time he makes a contact. We were married for 18 tears. I just don't trust him anymore and I am wondering what goes in men's mind to even want a contact again after completely falling out of love with their wives? Any ideas out there of what to tell this confused man?

2006-11-27 23:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When guys look at my breasts or when they try to stare at my butt.

2006-11-27 23:34:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating