girlfriend now only sees me as a 'friend'...help!?

Question

me and my girlfriend have been with each other for nearly 2 weeks and over the last couple of days she's been blanking me out. I've found out because she only now sees me as a 'friend'. would you happen to have any idea why this is and if there is say...a 'cure' for this or something. i really want to make this relationship last more than 2 weeks!

Answer 1

take it from me i'm no relationship expert but men and women cannot be friends its unhealthy and plain weird. the F word is a disgusting word. she sees you as a friend because she doesnt love you and sees no future with you. shes had her fun, now you are yesterdays news. sorry but i've seen that behaviour plenty of times. forget her friendship (pity) tell her to get lost and get your boogie shoes on.

Answer 2

First of all, I think it's harsh that other people are saying that 2 weeks is nothing becasue for some people it is a long time.

Like dr scalectrix's, I am no expert, but I agree with everything that he said.

You will never be able to make women out. Sadly, you cannot make her like you. I always think saying that she just wants to be friends is pretty insulting. So if you're still gonna be fancying her then don't bother being friends.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Whatever you do, try not to be desperate. Is it the girl you want or the "I want this to last more than 2 weeks" that is more important. If you were only seeing her for 2 weeks, then it is best not to put so many rules on yourself and her. Be her friend because if you do, indeed, want to be a couple with her, then you are going to have to learn to be her friend anyway.
Oh, dear, life is NOT a dress rehearsal.

Answer 4

sometimes u like someone alot b4 getting close to them, and then u realize that there is no chemistry between u..that happens all the time..maybe she expected u to be different from what u really are, that doesnt mean that ur not good enough, but people have different tastes. i would advise u to move on, stay friends but dont promise urself of more..or maybe u can try to impress her if u know what gets to her...but remeber, the longer u stay wth her hoping that things will work out, the more u'll hurt when they eventually don't

Answer 5

No! She purely realized she needs a social existence. it really is a sturdy ingredient. She might want to of commence issues with you and about the way you bypass out each and every of the time. My advise is to go away it on my own until eventually she ditches you out back. I say this because she will be able to then use, the very actuality she not in any respect whinge once you change into lengthy previous out which include your friends. be careful and, save in thoughts she is a lady.

Answer 6

Bit different if u have been together years but 2 weeks mate is really nothing. U will find another! Millions out there.
Good Luck

Answer 7

Sorry man, wasn't ment to be, if you're being phased out after two weeks, it means she tried being with ya, but something's not meshing. Take friendship, it's just as good as a relationship anyhow, unless you're in it for the sex.

Answer 8

girlfriend for 2 weeks and no girl ( only as a friend ! ) for 2 days, right ?can't you make her sense that you can blindly assess and admire the energy- field- vibrations on her personal forms and contents to the most accurate point by merely groping about with eyes closed.

Answer 9

sadly, people in relationships will act squirrelly, there is no insta-cure. even the best of relationships need a break...and at two weeks she can be itching for a break from the suffocation she might be feeling.

Answer 10

What are you? 12? Get a grip kid, this happens. You had a few good sh*gs and now she wants someone else. Get over it!