Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

whats the best thing a guy has ever don for you in the bedroom, be it a possition, words, atmosphere, items, ideas fantasy... whats the thing that sticks in your mind?

2006-11-27 20:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by FuSioN` 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband 2 years and it drives me crazy when he goes out partying all weekend like there is nothing else to do or spend the money on, or even worse like haven't been out in a lonngggg time..... am i crazy ? I really think is childish!

2006-11-27 20:07:29 · 38 answers · asked by lissy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

No lies to me

2006-11-27 20:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been having a major crush on this hot rocker guy in my school, he's really unique, hot, popular and talented. he performs in our school band.i like him so so much but im too shy to do anything. he's always with his group.he doesnt have a girlfriend. there re so many girls in the school who like him too but it seems like he doesnt care abt having a gf cuz he's rejected to like all of them. do i still have a chance??my friend told me that she heard he has a crush on that new asian girl and she's not really pretty(if i dont want to say "ugly" and hardly talks to anyone). i think im prettier than her. so guys what do u think i should do?do i still have a chance??

2006-11-27 20:03:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a question of my friends say about me jocks
I be frightening
Which makes the girls away from me
Although they often laugh when jesting
What are your suggestions ?

2006-11-27 20:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 20:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl i really like has started to act really odd around me. We use to hang together all the time, had heaps of lunches together, go to movies alot,and the odd dinner as well, plus coffess after work etc....lately shes being ignoring me heaps, like ive done something really wrong?....basically she talks to me like she doesnt really want to, or like she has to answer, she can be nice at times, but i can tell its not the real her.she also has stopped txtn me from about 20 times a da, to like 1-2 max, and i have to make the effort. Why has this suddenly happened?....we have so much fun together, i can only imagine shes heard something about me she doesntg like or something?.....it makes me angry so much!she refuses to acknowledge me aswell.we talk, but its not the same, but most importantly, she doesnt touch me at all, like she use to always want to, and also we dont hang out together now, been like this for past 2 week.s....what should i do?

2006-11-27 20:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a very difficult decision. I have a friend who i love. I want to be her boyfriend. But everyone is telling me i shouldn't because it could ruin my focus on my career. I'm 18 and about to become a Real Estate Agent. They say that it will distract me from reaching my goal. Or she'll just get in the way of it all. But i love this girl. What should i do? I need some advice.

2006-11-27 19:58:22 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Brightside 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 19:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife told me she was pregnant 2 nights ago but I think she is lyeing to me cause I want a divorce. I havent had sex with her in a month ever since she found out about my adultery. I resort ot drinking at the house to get away from my marriage problems but its alost getting in the way of my parenting the children. How do I prove my wife is a worthless liar of a housewife? And can I sue her in court for this?

2006-11-27 19:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of almost 5 months, doesnt seem to care about me as much as he did before. Yesterday he didnt even talk to me during the day, but he flirted with one of my best friends. She just got here about 3 months ago, and now he seems to be so interested in her, but she is engaged! When she isnt around, he acts like he still wants me forever. I hate it, I feel like this relationship is going to end soon, even if I dont want it to. Help me figure this out please!

2006-11-27 19:53:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a real problem where I work. These girls just won't quit following me around licking and sucking on them. I can't ban bananas and its too stupid to put them in detention for it. What other punishments should I give? How do I handle this appropriately?

2006-11-27 19:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come a man can sleep with many different women and no one really see it as something big (he goes bragging about it, and his mates like praise him because of it) But if a woman sleep around she gets called a s.l.u.t, w.h.o.r.e and stupid **** like that when i man can do the same and he wont get called ****.

2006-11-27 19:52:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The reason why am asking these question is that, most men are good pretenders, and would do anything to covience a woman to rest assured the man she's with loves her

2006-11-27 19:52:21 · 10 answers · asked by spooky 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get the good man i.e christain man

2006-11-27 19:52:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 34 year old mother of 2 small children 6 and 4. I have been in a severely emotional and verbally abusive marriage for 8 years( together 12 years). He has been physical by choking me in the past( over 4 years ago). I have been preparing to leave him and my brother died last night. the FOURTH brother I have lost in my life. This is so painful. We were arguing when I got the call. I rushed out hte door. After visiting my mom and family I came home and he was mr niceguy and I cried on his shoulder etc. I always fall for his so called 'caring' behavior then it's thrown in my face later. I get called horrible names while he's screaming in my face, I can't do anything right and I'm not in love with him anymore. my kids run to hteir closets and he's becoming increasingly mean to them with his words. He says i'm worhtless and gets all in my face to scare me. Then he'll be nice like nothing happened. My ? is, how do I keep my emotions at bay so I can leave?

2006-11-27 19:50:56 · 21 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 19:50:23 · 23 answers · asked by makemesmile 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been holding off asking this but can't take it any longer. My husband is addicted to chatting with women in chat rooms and doing whatever they ask of him. Some of them also get naked and do whatever he wants them to do. Not as many women do this as men. I could be in the next room trying to sleep but knowing what he is doing on the net prevents that. I will go into the roorm and ask him to shut it down and come to bed. He gets agitated and says in a minute. Most nights he stays up all night and then goes to work. I feel rejected, lonely, second best, and most of all cheated on. On occasion, he will ask if I want to join him and "perform" for someone that wants to watch the two of us have sex. As a way to stay connected to him and spend time with him, I did try it twice. I am not comfortable having sex with my husband knowing that others are watching. I enjoy chat rooms myself but do not take off my clothes for anyone. Cheating or not? What can I do or say to stop it?

2006-11-27 19:50:19 · 12 answers · asked by time4me2fly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 19:47:30 · 17 answers · asked by basheer a 1 in Friends

THE meaning I secretly hope it does?

2006-11-27 19:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how were you able to find out that your spouse had been cheating on you?

2006-11-27 19:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law died yesterday in a car wreck. A man fell asleep and hit her head-on, she died instantly. In my husbands immediate family there were just two boys, no girls. My sister in law and brother in law have been married for 36 years, my husband and I 26 years. She was so much more like his parents. I feel inadequet to be the only daughter in law in this family. She was better at so many more things than I am especially cooking. Thanksgiving she cooked the dinner because our in laws are their late 80's. Do I step up now and take care of everyone?

2006-11-27 19:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Jan G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

me friend calls me goth along with teh rest of the school. and i tell im not. if anything im going poser goth. but still shes my friend and she called ,me goth. and she finds that as a bad thing! i call her stupid and stuff. i do that to all my friends as a joke. but she doesnt seem to get it. she keeps on e-mailing me saying that im really mean to her and im a super bad friend. she doesnt seem to get that those names are jokes betweeen me and my friends. shes being super annoying right now! this is what she said,

"shut-up your turning GOTH and i dont care anymore if u hate me 4 saying that!!! because i hate that u call me stupid and stuff!"

what should i do about her.?
P.S. i have her in all my classes except one period and i cant avoid her because all of my friends sit at the table she sits at and i want to sit by them. what do i do!!!!!?

2006-11-27 19:42:38 · 3 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Friends

In a new relationship, should the guy do all the pursuing or is it ok for the girl to do some pursuing too? (as in making contact first, calling him, etc)

2006-11-27 19:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me and came back after a couple months--he has changed for the better. At first I had feelings for him but after a week they seem to be gone. I now find myself afraid to commit to a relationship with him and I don't know where my feelings went. I'm not sure if they are covered by hurt/fear from the breakup or if they are due to fear of intimacy/commitment that I didn't realize I had. You see, I was hesitant at the beginning of the relationship----and it was only when my boyfriend started pulling away from me that all my intense feelings came out for him---and now that he is back I am feeling scared again. I don't want to lose him and I don't want to hurt him. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can heal/move forward with him/re-connect with my feelings/overcome my fear? I know if the feelings were there once--they have to be there again. I previously believed he was the one---he has all the qualities I was looking for and everyone thinks we are a perfect match.

2006-11-27 19:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by C 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a very long-term relationship a few months ago and I am 110% not ready for another relationship. However, a man I've casually dated for a couple of months (we both know and agree that there will be no monogomous relationship) and I have been having a sexual relationship with each other for a few weeks now. The relationship is strickly physical and I'm ok with this, however, I'm afraid my emotions may get the best of me in the long run. I've never been in just a physical relationship before. My question is, is it possible for women to do this? If so, how long does it usually last? I'm thinking on the lines of Samantha Jones (from sex & the city)..Are these women really out there, and is it possible I'm one of them?

2006-11-27 19:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 19:40:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an openminded but somewhat old-fashioned guy, and I'm not sure exactly what to do about this situation. I've been dating an 'older' woman for a couple months. I like her and am very attracted to her. We're honest and up front with one another, and speaking with her on the phone recently she told me that her 22 year old daughter who lives with her and who I've met a couple of times when over their house, is very attracted to me! I find the daughter to be very attractive also. But, I mean... really! Wouldn't this just complicate matters? Last Saturday evening I went over there thinking that her daughter would be working (she's a waitress at a restaurant near their home). I even asked first, just to make sure. But when I got there, the daughter had taken off work. The three of us hung out together, which I guess was OK, but I would've wanted more time with my GF. Anyway, I'm not sure what to do. It's turning into a BIG dilemma! I feel like I can't go there anymore. What do I do?

2006-11-27 19:40:06 · 8 answers · asked by mr_c1ass 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 19:39:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So cruel that even my relatives fearing staying with me. I get annoyed so fast that even my little daughter suffer thorough beatings and to may relatives I'll quarrel them seriousely when they spoil as I wish it happens.

I long to stay with them but they go due to my cruel nature. Surely should I just leave everything in amess and so I stay with them or what can I do?

2006-11-27 19:37:57 · 3 answers · asked by jeyomosh 1 in Family