How come a man can sleep with many different women and no one really see it as something big (he goes bragging about it, and his mates like praise him because of it) But if a woman sleep around she gets called a s.l.u.t, w.h.o.r.e and stupid **** like that when i man can do the same and he wont get called ****.
2006-11-27 19:52:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all in how society 'stereotypes' men from women, and their actions (in the bedroom, or bedrooms).
It's sad to think that in our society, a woman is labelled poorly because of her choice in lifestyle. But for a man to do the same, it's thought of in a way of 'scoring' in a beneficial way to him.
Society has done this for many generations, but only because society still perceives a woman as 'lower' than a 'man', and there are higher expectations of a woman, to 'limit' herself, just because she's a 'woman'. For a man, however, it's all for 'bragging rights' and 'competition'. Men like to compete and 'win' these sorts of silly actions that portray women as 'sex objects' and earn 'points' along the way (even popularity).
But, in that sense, you can imagine that 'what goes around, comes around', and those guys out there, who are sleeping around, are the ones who won't live long, because a majority of them will have contracted multiple STD's and HIV/AIDS!!! So, they get what they deserve, and it serves them right to go bragging about such things, when in reality, they're a disease, waiting to happen!!
It's safer to think that a guy who's slept with many women, is NOT the ideal guy to be with!! And for a woman who has not done such a thing, is valued more, because of the caution used and the safety measures ensured, because she is careful and 'smart', something a lot of guys can't say they are!!
2006-11-27 20:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question has no simple answer, but since I'm not in the mood to go on a tirade I'm gonna give a simple answer anyway: Sex is a high priority with men. It's considered an achievement. Guys keep "score" all the time. We care about how many points we scored in a game, how big our salary is, how much our house cost, how many awards we've won... and, of course, how many women we've been with.
To women, this is not a priority. Sex is a means to another end (rather than the end in itself, as it is with men), and if that end is not met, the means was pointless. Not to mention, women are a LOT more concerned, on the whole, as to how they are perceived by their peers, and calling other women a "****" is an easy way to demoralize their opponents (cuz we all know how vicious women can be to each other. Loyalty doesn't apply).
Not to mention, there are few men in the world who don't actually dream about sleeping with lots of women. It's a pleasurable idea. Not so with women.
2006-11-28 03:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me your a **** looking for some incouragment. Sorry to tell you but your a back alley hood rat in the making..I suggest you get in the porn industry quick before you get pregnant by the next trick you pick up. Good luck!
answered by kast
2006-11-28 03:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's deff a double standard. Don't let it bother you though. I still wouldn't suggest sleeping around with a bunch of people..unless you want to be called a horsey whore.
2006-11-28 04:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, this is part of the recognition of dual sexs. look, men were designed and programmed to have many partners, women, because of child bearing and caring, were not. maybe thats morally wrong, but its true. and thats why. men were built with an entirely different cognitive and emotional index, and so they get to have all the fun. you can scream and yell and call it unfair, but your fighting milllions of years of evolution, so good luck. sorry.
2006-11-28 03:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right. It is not fair in any way and under any circumstances, this practice must be discontinued.
This is Coz you are living in a male-dominating society.
2006-11-28 04:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Raaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double standards in a patriarchal society.
2006-11-28 03:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do not realize that. Be it man or woman, they build bad images by being promiscuous or playful.
2006-11-28 03:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way it is wrong. Do you know that if people were monogamous there would be no SD's or AIDs. Both are equally wrong
2006-11-28 03:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause were men and your a woman , lol woman need to be discreet
2006-11-28 03:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋