my so called friend?

Question

me friend calls me goth along with teh rest of the school. and i tell im not. if anything im going poser goth. but still shes my friend and she called ,me goth. and she finds that as a bad thing! i call her stupid and stuff. i do that to all my friends as a joke. but she doesnt seem to get it. she keeps on e-mailing me saying that im really mean to her and im a super bad friend. she doesnt seem to get that those names are jokes betweeen me and my friends. shes being super annoying right now! this is what she said,

"shut-up your turning GOTH and i dont care anymore if u hate me 4 saying that!!! because i hate that u call me stupid and stuff!"

what should i do about her.?
P.S. i have her in all my classes except one period and i cant avoid her because all of my friends sit at the table she sits at and i want to sit by them. what do i do!!!!!?

Answer 1

Here's a thought it maybe you should stop calling her stupid she may not think its very funny. Apologize and move on.

Answer 2

Show her this:
Goth is more a lifestyle or outlook on life than anything. They tend to accept that there are bad things as well as good things in life, rather than 'sweep them under the rug', to say, and pretend they don't exist. They can dress however they want, although many prefer darker colors and more dramatic clothes and makeup, and listen to lots of songs and varied genres of music, which can include but are by no means limited to, new wave, darkwave, ethereal, Celtic, goth rock, punk, postpunk, chants, heavy metal, industrial, Latin, et cetera. Not all are interested in vampires - in fact, relatively few are. Many if not most have good relationships with their parents. Very few have mental or psychological problems. Most are actually quite nice, if a bit saturnine. Very, very, very few are 'satanists' or 'devil worsippers'. Most of the young teenagers who listen to Marilyn Manson, Disturbed, Slipknot, Korn, My Chemical Romance, Drowning Pool, et cetera and wear heavy thick makeup and studded spike collars and bracelets are called 'Mall goths', shop mostly at Hot Topic, and - this is important - they're not real goths. They just seem to think they are. They act disturbed and surly and try to impress/intimidate people. It seldom works, as most are obviously pathetic, and almost all will (thankfully) grow out of it. If you'd like a comprehensive explanation, try visiting goth.net. Some songs that goths might listen to:
Dragonfly (Conjure one mix) - Cruxshadows
Dazzle - Siouxsie and the Banshees
The Passion of Lovers - Bauhaus
Lucretia My Reflection - Sisters Of Mercy
Lullaby - The Cure
She's Lost Control - Joy Division
In Our Angelhood - The Cocteau Twins
Funeral Night - Bella Morte
Deliverance - The Mission UK
Cemetary Gates - The Smiths
Are 'Friends' Electric? - Tubeway Army
Love Is Stronger than Death - The The
Nowhere Girl - B-Movie
Twilight Of The Mortal - Killing Joke
Seconds - The Human League
Indigo Eyes - Peter Murphy
Right Now - The Creatures
Walk on the Moon - Daniel Ash
No Big Deal - Love and Rockets
Fire Woman - The Cult

Answer 3

you shuld stop speking bad for instance. You may not realise what you are saying. Bad words can hurt people as much as kicks. You may see them at TV having a good time and talking all kinds of staff, but is not ok in real life. People are sensitive, so be polite. Or you can find another table to sit, and other friends too.