2006-11-27 19:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there.
Now i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
2006-11-29 21:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to forget a lover is to find a new one.......actually you will probably never forget the ex-lover............he/she will just become a memory of your past. I think love is desiring to share life experiences with......a feeling that you want to be with them all the time.....laughing, loving and feeling like you cannot live without them.
2006-11-28 04:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by keig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very beautiful feeling that sometimes hurts ,but still beautiful .You may never forget your lover and the one you love but you will get over at least by meeting new people . Life just goes on and on .Be patient and enjoy your life !
2006-11-28 03:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion once felt could never be forgotten. Cherish your love, try to keep it within your embrace. Yet if under circumstances that is not possible, cherish the memories and slowly let it subside to the other things in your life. But, while doing that keep in mind and admit it to yourself that true love cannot be forgotten. Once you admit that and let yoursel f go through the natural stages of loosing love and not rushing or questionign those feelings. You'll soon see the love won't effect you 24/7 liek it does now. Soon it will dwindle down to just memories and be something tucked away in the back of your head.
2006-11-28 04:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to forget your lover is of course going to take a little time and patience....First of all how long was the involvement? If it was 10 years it will take you longer then a relationship of 6 months. Here are suggestions that really work...I know because I have had something similar happen to me! First...get rid of his phone number in your cell phone, or anywhere that you have it...This way you are not tempted to call...Do not email him...Delete all his photos and emails....Get rid of his photos....Do not be friends with him...This only prolongs the agony...You will get over this...It just takes time...Get involved with your friends and family...Even a new pet can help alot....Think positive and know that YOU WILL GET OVER THIS!!!!!
2006-11-28 04:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you really want to forget their smile warm embrace and the tender moments you shared. love is a very spiritual thing and no one can explain what makes them care about someone(at laest not in this format.) you can move on though by accepting that you both were headed in different directions or that no matter how much you care you weren't right 4 each other or even maybe bad 4 1 another. the pain of loss may never be forgotten but it can be healed w/ time and ones acceptance of themself. we each are perfect in our own right but we all need others that's why your here asking that's why (s)he looked to you and you to (s)he but sadly sometimes we outgrow those needs or the need of what the other can provide.
2006-11-28 04:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to forget your lover?
2006-11-28 03:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is when GOD sent his only begotten son JESUS CHRIST to a hill called calvary to die for all of our sins that we may LOVE others as CHRIST so LOVED the world you can never and shouldnt never forget your lover JESUS CHRIST now this earthly creature dont call him dont accept his call learn how to love you all over again then wait on love dont go seeking it
2006-11-28 04:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I knew ..I am a person who doesn't soon forget the passion of loves embrace.....peace
2006-11-28 03:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is life. if you really love him he respects you, your feelings and emotions, you can not forget him. If he does not respect you, your feelings and emotions he does not love you. It is better find one who respects you, your feelings and emotions and really loves you. It will help you to forget that fellow.
2006-11-28 04:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋