Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

Here's a story... This guy I know is my best friend. I love him. He loves me. Of course, the story doesn't end there. I'm only 14- my parents said I could date this specific guy when I was 15. That happens in 5 months. The problem is that I'm not sure my parents will really let us "date" when I'm 15. (movies without my brother inbetween, holding hands, kissing sometimes... going places alone... etc.) Is that to much to ask? The guy is 16, super respectful, and has already been waiting for about a year and 2 months. I've known him for like a year and a half. What do you think is appropriate?

2006-11-27 18:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 6'8" 260lbs and girls look at me like i am weird. I dont really like girls that are close to my height..so do ladies like really tall guys

2006-11-27 18:47:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some boys mocks at me saying i'm ugly and says who would marry such a girl like me but there's a guy who has been loving me since i was 10 yrs and now i'm 16 yrs i know he is sincere wat would u advise me to do friends

2006-11-27 18:46:31 · 6 answers · asked by pallavi 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy talking to another girl,is that a sign that she likes him?Or are women just ultra-competitive for attention?

2006-11-27 18:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am confused, what should I give priority when choosing a guy, looks or brains or money. Well combination of all is the best I know, but is it possible and where to get such guys.?

2006-11-27 18:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mary G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes for Chrismas. Would a girl rather get some kind of $250-$350 jewelry, or somthing that shows her I LOVE Her (yes we're together} and what ever it is,, what kind of jewelry, or what could i get to show her I love her ( I honestly do :] )

2006-11-27 18:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean i love this man. like a romeo and juliet. so how do i let go and love without worrying about getting hurt. cuz most relationships dont work these days and my chances could go 50/50. so what in the world do i do.

2006-11-27 18:44:03 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I have recently started dating a girl from work, however b4 all this started she went away for 6 months and we were just friends etc. Now she is back and we just got together, however when she was away i had a fling with another girl from work, which started and ended while the new girl was away. Neither of them know about this!! and im not sure if i should spill the beans and tell her about this fling, or should i tell the fling girl (who i think still likes me to keep it quite) or keep it quite and hope neither of them find out........ what do u think!!!

2006-11-27 18:41:50 · 6 answers · asked by m_mazza 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been friends for a pretty long time and he says wsup everyday. or i say hi. but mostly him i guess. and he plays around with me a lot in language arts...[[: now that my secrets out thanks to a lowlife with a big mouth, he keeps his head down when he walks by but stares at me when im not looking. what does this mean and what should i do?

2006-11-27 18:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Singles & Dating

so i have a boyfriend i love more than anything, and then theres this other guy that i met at my college.... i have no interested other than friends....but tonight he got with his friends and he had a few beers and someother drinks. he and he called me up and told me he loves me and that i am the best thing that ever happened, and he wants to be more than friends....two of my friends were there when he called, i just want to ignore it but two of my friends tell me to stop hanging out with him....there is no way in the world i would even think about leaving my bf...what should i do? should i ignore it? or stop hanging out with him?

2006-11-27 18:40:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning to get married soon, but i am scared whether we will last for long... wat are the tips to find out the person whom i am planning to marry is the right person... we are in love for 5 years... but lots of feuds and making up .. but i love him

2006-11-27 18:40:11 · 15 answers · asked by sueann_love 2 in Weddings

how much are you willing to sacrifice to save your marriage?

2006-11-27 18:39:12 · 19 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Not being able to trust my partner hurts a great deal, I would appreciate any tips on ways we could rebuild our trust.

2006-11-27 18:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently my ex wife and I had somewhat of a blowout. I had my son for a week and during the week he was sick and couldn't play outside. He's 10. Since he was indoors most of the week and I had to work part of the time I let him have several hours a day playing video games. When he went back to his mothers he pitched a fit. She only lets him have 30 minutes per day of video game or computer time. The question is: Should I limit his video time when he is with me to what she mandates. I'm looking for honest opinions from custodial parents on this issue. I don't just set him in front of the tv and leave him. 99% of the games we play together. I feel it is bonding time between us.

2006-11-27 18:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by knite_hawk1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or if you're just lonely and amplifying every little friendly gesture?

Here's the background story, met this guy through a friend and he's offered to do things for me, even calls to check up on me and things like that. I've also found that he's been reading my blog (my friend told me).

Does this mean he's interested?

2006-11-27 18:37:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know... just do it.

Well I can't just do it. I tell myself I'm going to just do it. I'm pumped! And then the time comes, and I'm frozen. I can't even manage to look at him.

It's okay by me if he rejects me (I mean, it's certainly not ideal but I understand the possibility... even likelihood); I just want to be able to follow through with what what I intend to do.

He's a man, I'm a woman, so please put this in the context of post-highschool (that doesn't mean I don't want you brave young ones to respond!).

2006-11-27 18:37:27 · 11 answers · asked by solaralley 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have only been married for 6 months and I find myself completely unsatisfied with our love life. She NEVER initiates sex, and always says "no" repeatedly when I try to start things up. I have to essentially beg her 5-10 times and maybe 5 times per month, she reluctantly agrees to have sex. We're both fairly attractive so I don't think that is the issue. When I ask her about this, she claims she gets turned on by this routine. I hate this routine! We are 26 years old and it would be nice if my wife's version of foreplay wasn't to consistently reject me and make me feel like she is doing me a favor by giving in. I get extremely turned on when she initiates it, and feel virtually like a scumbag for always initiating it to a partner who always seems annoyed with my advances. She thinks guys like to play hard to get. I don't, and have told her so. If I didn't initiate every single time, we would probably have sex twice a year. Any advice/similar situations???

2006-11-27 18:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by thedude 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Fellow Christians, what would you put as boundaries in a friendship between a mature Christian guy and girl not after a romantic relationship? Sincere answers only, please.

2006-11-27 18:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Free Ranger 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my guy friend lives far from me. but he always tells me how affectionate he is, how he wants to hug me or give me long hugs. does he like me?

would a guy say these things to a girl he has no feelings for?

2006-11-27 18:30:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 3 years on and off! We've always wanted a baby and now that we have one he just takes off! Now we're back together but I'm afraid it'll happen again. He acts like his actions don't affect me or our son! He never thinks about his actions!! What should I do, stay with him and try to work it out or should I break up with him?

2006-11-27 18:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u believe...?

2006-11-27 18:29:04 · 11 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 18:28:17 · 31 answers · asked by happyness=) 1 in Weddings

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2006-11-27 18:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by amrat_abi 1 in Singles & Dating

She says shes having a hard time finding a good man...so.....

2006-11-27 18:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by davo 2 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I work with, and I rlike him, but I have no idea if he likes me. We talk a lot, always say hello and goodbye to each other, and always smile when we see each other. He's admitted to me that he's really shy (I asked why he doesn't talk much to other people at work). We both always make a point to stop and talk to one another at least once a day while working together.

I got his aim messenger under the rouse that I wanted him to give me a link to something. He was really eager to get my e-mail. We talked online for a while until I got busy and didn't sign on as much, and he recently commented that he never sees me online and that I should sign on more and IM him.

He mentioned once that before we started working together, he saw me in a bookstore and told me it was the 'first time'. I was like, 'Uh, first time what?' And he replied, 'the first time I saw you.' Is it odd that he'd mention that?

2006-11-27 18:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Eri 3 in Singles & Dating

I promise you my love
I promise you my heart
I promise you my life
I promise we'll never be apart

I promise not to hurt you
I promise to never make you cry
I promise to always trust you
I promise not to lie

I promise you forever
I promise you tonight
I promise you my respect
I promise to do things right

I promise to always be there
I promise until the end
I promise to always love you
I promise to be your best friend

I promise you my love
I promise you my life
I promise this forever
I promise our friendship is my life

your the PEANUT to my BUTTER ,
your the STAR to my BURST,
your the M to my M,
your the POP to my TART,
your the MILKY to my WAY,
your the FRUIT to my LOOP,
your the MILK to my DUDS,
your the LUCKY to my CHARMS,
your the ICE to my CREAM,
your the GHETTO to my BOOTY,
but mostly....
your the BEST to my FRIEND

2006-11-27 18:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by aznflippgurl 5 in Singles & Dating

I cant take him off of my mind...i always think of him all the time...the only problem that REALLY bothers me is that he has a 2 yr. old son from another woman...(he said this to me before because he wants to be honest to me) but he said that he loves me and that woman is his past...i really don't know what to do...help me please...i just don't want the feeling of him having a child already and especially me being his second...

2006-11-27 18:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Xena 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a dream last night about a guy i met a couple months ago and haven't seen since. He is a pretty nice guy, OK looking, good job. I never really even thought about him as a potential boyfriend though, I mean, I don't even really know him! But then I had this dream that he called me and we hung out, and then I woke up with this silly crush on him! I mean, I'm getting the butterflies in my stomach and everything when I think about him! And I'm 25, not 15, I rarely get those kind of crushes. Has this happened to you before? Do you think it's some weird sign that I should get in touch with him?

2006-11-27 18:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 18:23:59 · 34 answers · asked by Mark L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, the situation is this. My boyfriend works cleaning homes that are new construction. His job is to go in first and clean out the cardboard and all the big stuff etc. and get the home ready for the women to come and do the final cleaning. His job isnt directly with the women, in fact he really has nothing to do with them. Well, I found out that he has the phone number and called one of the women he works with. Ok, it could be work related, but my problem is, why does he have her phone number in the first place. Ladies, how would you react to this. I dont want to be crazy, but he hasnt always been honest with me and I do have reason to not trust him. what would your reaction be if this was your guy and he called a woman from work?

2006-11-27 18:22:04 · 18 answers · asked by meeahcat 1 in Singles & Dating