Fellow Christians, what would you put as boundaries in a friendship between a mature Christian guy and girl not after a romantic relationship? Sincere answers only, please.
2006-11-27 18:33:13 · 5 answers · asked by Free Ranger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you can be friends without having sex. it's okay to think about it, but if she is not interested in a romantic relationship, do not act on your sexual feelings unless you want to ruin a good friendship. take it for what it's worth, the friendship, a lot of guys never get the chance to have a female friend. consider her priceless. treat her as you believe a mature christian guy should treat a woman who is not his mother or sister.
2006-11-27 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, in christianity there is no topic in the bible about romantic relation....yet.
But there is one clause that I would say has a loop-hole - "Do unto others as u would want them to do to u".
ie - treat her as u would want to be treated if u were in her shoes.
I think ur "not after a romantic relationship" is a little vague....is she after a:
1. Physical relationship only.
2. Monetary relationship only.
3. Physical & monetary relation ship only.
4 Platonic relationship only.
or does she just want u to mow her lawn.......I mean - its not a "romantic relationship"
Please specify.
2006-11-27 19:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deut. 25:11-12 11 “If 2 men combat mutually, and the spouse of one attracts on the area of rescue her husband from the hand of the only attacking him, and places out her hand and seizes him by the genitals, 12 then you certainly shall cut back off her hand; your eye shall no longer pity her. This verse is a few female grabbing the genitals of a guy who she isn't married to. it is definitely no longer sexual, yet that's taken this severe. that's barely one verse, besides the undeniable fact that it is the only I bear in mind the main. you have crossed the line for particular. a hundred%. little doubt approximately it. it form of seems such as you probably did no longer be attentive to greater effective in spite of the undeniable fact that. you will be attentive to in spite of the undeniable fact that that that's unlawful what you're doing, on account which you're nonetheless a minor, and you're posting this publicly. My suggestion. provide up. You mentioned you does no longer take your pants off, besides the undeniable fact that it is high quality for him to take his off?!? that doesn't even make experience. save all your outfits first of all, the two one in all you. i won't be able to inform you what to and to no longer do, yet while i could i might say, do no longer even touch one yet another everywhere which you does no longer touch your loved ones. think of of him like a brother in different words. you does no longer do the failings you're doing to him on your brother, so do no longer do it to him. needless to say it is not the comparable, yet on account which you men have already crossed the line you may make the attempt to no longer get to that element returned. i be attentive to incredibly some human beings won't trust me, yet i'm speaking to you from a Christian's attitude and from what the Bible says. you may probable get some form of duty too. locate somebody who you could each and every proportion those products with to maintain you common and to blame mutually with your dating and what you're doing. in case you have somebody asking those questions you're much less in all probability to do something.
2016-12-10 17:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends and don't do each other when consoling each other after a break-up and u should be fine...
2006-11-27 23:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Joey_D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would draw the line at missionary. Anything beyond that is probably inappropriate.
2006-11-27 18:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bastardo 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋