I know... just do it.
Well I can't just do it. I tell myself I'm going to just do it. I'm pumped! And then the time comes, and I'm frozen. I can't even manage to look at him.
It's okay by me if he rejects me (I mean, it's certainly not ideal but I understand the possibility... even likelihood); I just want to be able to follow through with what what I intend to do.
He's a man, I'm a woman, so please put this in the context of post-highschool (that doesn't mean I don't want you brave young ones to respond!).
2006-11-27 18:37:27 · 11 answers · asked by solaralley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest that you choose several different guys to ask out, say, in one week. Go go go girl ask every one until the idea becomes as comfortable as breathing.
2006-11-27 18:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear is caused by the unknown.
U dont know if he might say yes or no.
Are u friends or are u strangers? I assume ur friends.
So the answer is in testing the water before u leap. Check out how does he react to u? How are ur eye-locks going? Does he look back? Does he look at u when u pass by? Does he look at ur breast/bum, figure?
If he doesnt avoid u then u could just say "I havent seen ____-that movie could u take me to it" Here ur not expressing ur feelings for him only for the movie. When he does take u to the move u can lead him on by saying "so I m ur date tonight, yeah" "Could u buy ur date an Icecream or something" as if ur joking.....See how he reacts. If the reaction is positive you can hold his arms, (dont forget to brush ur breast against his arm when u get the chance). After the movie u can say "I enjoyed the movie & would like to go out more with u". Here again ur not commiting urself - u enjoyed the movie not him.
Try it.
2006-11-27 20:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . there really isn't anything else to it. The way you get yourself to just do it is to remember that you lose nothing if the fellow rejects you. There is nothing to lose! About the worst thing that could happen is that you would end up on a bad date. So go for it! Good luck!
2006-11-27 18:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you,to have the courage as a women to take a step forward instead of just sitting back and complaining about men,like most women do and wait for all the scumbags to come crawling to them.
2006-11-27 18:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you do care, if you did not you would have asked him by now. just think (this is what i did) that if you don't do it now, that he/she will get taken by next friday. and that you HAVE to do it, your life depends on it. this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. oh and by the way, i get rejected.
2006-11-27 18:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by wolfgang4862 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well he should have the balls to ask you out. you shouldnt have to work at it. a lot of guys are pansies these days when it comes to initiating love. if he's too pansie to ask you out, and you know he likes you then he's not good enough for you.
2006-11-27 18:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just remember that even he would be lucky to get a woman like you
2006-11-27 18:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by want2know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i heard a woman say today, lifes short....the worst thing that could happen is hed be flattered :)
2006-11-27 18:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by christina rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i always complain how hungry i am infront of them untill they buy me lunch or dinner
2006-11-27 18:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind you asking me.
2006-11-27 18:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋