my guy friend lives far from me. but he always tells me how affectionate he is, how he wants to hug me or give me long hugs. does he like me?
would a guy say these things to a girl he has no feelings for?
2006-11-27 18:30:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just says "i wish i could give you a long hug. i'm a very affectionate person."
2006-11-27 18:35:18 · update #1
remember.. he says this to me MORE THAN ONCE. if he wants to hug me as a friend, he wouldn't need to say it all the time, would he?
2006-11-27 18:49:40 · update #2
A hug...
Hugs can be used as a way to comfort people...in this case...for the romantic guys, a hug is a bond between himself and a girl. A hug of any sort can just be a sign of saying "hi i like who u are and im here" or it can mean "i am a close friend and this is the way i show it"
A long hug, from your friend the affectionate, is most likely him saying that he misses you. Maybe in a tad flirtatious way, but it seems that he has some feelings for you...maynot be relationship feelings but just feelings one would have for a best friend.
and for your last question...
yes, I guess i can call myself a young romantic...more old fashioned, opening doors and such...but i hug other girls besides my girl friend to tell the other girls that i am there for them.
Good luck my friend.
2006-11-27 18:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Hideo Okino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls miss the feeling of another guy when they are feelin negated by their current guy. Other times its just because the miss the person like in a friend way. If she doesn't see him then she can't be having sex with him and if she did want to have sex with him she'd probably break up with you. It's hard to tell because i don't really know her or anything so i dont know what type of person she is... just tell her what you did and ask her why she said that. shell prob get made that you went through her texts but just tell her that you told her the truth and you came forward. just be as honest as possible
2016-03-13 00:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. absolutely. He thinks that you are attractive, cute or physically appealing if he wants to hug you. If he truly, likes you, hugs will also be accompanied by long conversations and frequent socialization in public and in private. He will not just hug, but talk, be of assistance in any way he can and find multiple ways to please and impress you and keep you smiling whenever he is around you.
2006-11-27 18:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is saying he wants a long affectionate hug then it prolly means he likes you more than just friends.
2006-11-27 18:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by supermonkey081 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, If a man really likes a woman then he would send her flowers, invite her to dinner, mail her sweet poems in a card, the whole nine yard. But instead he have his arms wide open to give you hugs then after hugs take of your scrubs...Sometimes I wish that some men can think with there first brain as much as they think with there brain below! Don't fall for that.
2006-11-27 19:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by ghettofessional 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He probably likes you. Be gentle with him, but if you don't like him be sure to stop any false hope he has. Just do it gracefully. If you do like him, he probably doesn't have the guts to ask you out yet. So ask him. Anyway, good luck!
2006-11-27 18:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what they all say girl until they get pussee! lol feel me? I have male friends and they don't come at me like that they know better. I mean why would your male friend tell you how "affectionate he is" Then tell him to go grab his pillows.
2006-11-27 18:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by candy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He likes you. Unless, he is gay (nothing wrong with that) male instint tells me he is either attracyed to you and/or express his desire to touch you.
The question is do you want to be held by him?
2006-11-27 20:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you.
so, he wants to hug you.
2006-11-27 18:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
guys are always trying to sell themselves when they like a girl
2006-11-27 18:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by mgibson92804 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋