how do i get the good man i.e christain man
2006-11-27 19:52:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is someone you are interested in go for it!! 29 is still quite young and there is plenty of time to find that special someone.
There are christian dating websites out there. I have a Friend who goes on one. I am a Christian and am married to a non Christian. It is hard sometimes but he does come to church with me because he wants to. He tried going to the men's pub night but felt a little left out. It is better to look for a man who shares your beliefs but you cannot help whom you fall in love with.
It works for me and I hope one day my husband will give himself to the Lord but there is never any pressure.
Hope you find someone babe!! Take Care and God Bless!
2006-11-27 20:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think first off it is safer to look for a christian man in your church, or any church. Look for the qualities that you want in a man and also qualiites a christian would display. Also the most important thing is to ask God who is right for you...and your purpose. Some people were not intended to get married. So i would advise you to pray about this first. I wish you all the best
2006-11-28 14:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tuff this one. I was seeing a christian guy on a casual basis and he foned me at the weekend to tell me he has met someone and he is sure its from God.
If its from God then you will know. Pray about it and if there is a shred of doubt in your mind then hold back. If its to be it will be. Also don't worry about being 29 and single. my friend got married last year at 46!! God promised her this person 10 years ago and because she was patient God kept his word.
I agree with the person who said go to christian events. Relationships should start as friendships and then if you feel something stronger then start the praying.
Hope this helps
2006-11-28 05:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a Christian guy, there is something about a girl who is also saved. That spirit and glow they tend to have about them sooner or later attracts the respectable guys who like you for who you are and who can see what kind of person you truly are.
Sometime, though, us shy-er guys need prodding, so don't be afraid to make the first move if you suspect there is a guy who likes you.
2006-11-28 03:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by JD H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you associate one with the other.
I was born a Christian. I don't need to be born again.
It never stopped me having serious relationships whether you believe in sex before marriage or not.
2006-11-28 08:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the best place to get a God fearing and trust worth man worth your self is the church itself. But dont just rush in for any one who proposes to you but rather study ach persons character and behaviour. Be very careful of wolves in sheeps skin as well and lastly theres always someone for everyone.
2006-11-28 04:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sammo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS a christian never be bodered about that the right person for you will come. First of all find out what God's plan is for you, is marriage inclusive in His plan? cos it is not every body that God has a marriage plan for, but if you desire for it, then call for it and table it to God. He will guide you and help you out.
Thanks
2006-11-28 05:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by lauretta e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence on religion but don't preach to much there are plenty of good law abiding men out there don't discriminate because they aren't a christian.
Just go out have fun and relax You are a Christian not a hermit it isn't a sin to enjoy yourself and meet new people so why can't you do the same as everyone else go to pubs, classes etc just get yourself out there
2006-11-28 04:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you dont have to have a religious man do you Emmini there are a lot of men out there for you and at 29 you had better be sharpish so get your skates on Good Luck
2006-11-28 04:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to church-based single events at different churches. You don't have to go to them all the time but you just need to make friends. FRIENDS. As you guys get to know each other they'll learn more about you and be able to refer good men to you.
2006-11-28 03:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by CaliforniaT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋