So cruel that even my relatives fearing staying with me. I get annoyed so fast that even my little daughter suffer thorough beatings and to may relatives I'll quarrel them seriousely when they spoil as I wish it happens.
I long to stay with them but they go due to my cruel nature. Surely should I just leave everything in amess and so I stay with them or what can I do?
2006-11-27 19:37:57 · 3 answers · asked by jeyomosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am glad you are willing to look at this and work on yourself. It's a hard thing to do but well worth it. Go to a natural health food store and talk to them, they will direct you in the right direction. Go to the doctor to see if you have too much testosterone.
2006-11-27 19:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into the military or bootcamp so you can get a taste of your own medicine and are picked on by guys your own size!!!
Aside from that , you obviously need counseling and theorapy badly in anger management. This will only work for you if you have a strong desire to change yourself for the better.
2006-11-28 03:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the,best part is that u know u r hightempered,at least u know that ur doing wrong, the best thing that i can propose u that whenever u think that u r going to get annoyed or u feel something is disturbing u just be quite.........quite ....n quite try to listen first then take ur time to ans.
The 2nd thing u can do is that keep urself at othres place n try to feel how they feel when u get annoyed n may b when u find out that how bad it feel to listen those words that u say u may realise ur mistake.
I know the reactions comes instantly u donot get time to think but if u have will power even 3% trust me u can do it,really.
And the best u can do is keep urself happy,give time to urself n ur hobbies,analyse ur self ,ask questions to urself.talk to frds they really help.play wid ur kids.do activities u like n simultaneously work on ur self.Bcoz every time u get annoyed u loose sum good part of ur life, pray regularly,greet ppl u meet on ur way,appologise 4 ur mistaks n give thanks to them who really deserves, im sure it will work.**** luck
2006-11-28 04:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by neha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋