Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

i just dont like what i see in the mirror sometimes......im goin 2 the gym 2 improve my muscle mass and i dont know whats wrong with me, i have never had a relationship with anyone. and no im not ugly. people are attracted 2 me....why do i need 2 be perfect to have a relationship? why am i like this?

2006-11-27 23:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by sexyashell 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together 9 months and he states he talks with her less now that we are dating and they used to go to lunch or a movie 3-4 times a week. He acts sad when he says this! He wants to get married, but I am only 26 and want to finish grad school. "Anni" has been dating someone for a couple of months but whenever she leaves town my boyfriend must keep her dog...because "she trusts only him". I love him but I think she is a wall that keeps us apart...we get along great otherwise ..but he can't see this. Do I ignore this 37 yr old obstacle or do I move on?

2006-11-27 23:03:38 · 4 answers · asked by 3'sacrowd 2 in Singles & Dating

Why a Jew can grow his beard in order to practice his faith

But when Muslim does the same, he is an extremist and terrorist!


Why a nun can be covered from head to toe in order to devote herself to God

But when Muslimah does the same she oppressed




When a western women stays at home to look after her house and kids she is respected because of sacrificing herself and doing good for the household?

But when a Muslim woman does so by her will, they say, "she needs to be liberated"!



Any girl can go to university wearing what she wills and have her rights and freedom?

But when Muslimah wears a Hijab they prevent her from entering her university!



When a child dedicates himself to a subject he has potential.

But when he dedicates himself to Islam he is hopeless!




When a Christian or a Jew kills someone religion is not mentioned, but when Muslim is charged with a crime, it is Islam that goes to trial!

2006-11-27 23:03:24 · 5 answers · asked by A knight with a heart & wisdom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 23:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by cindrella 2 in Friends

what would be a best outfit for a wedding of my own sister..
what attire should i use.. is it any "forbidden" color that u shouldn't wear.. or other small stuff... what is the proper shoes dat i should use?
what pattern of tie should i choose..

2006-11-27 23:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by a_wi82 1 in Weddings

2006-11-27 23:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by sara a 1 in Family

there must be tons of racist ppl here :-(

normally when we talk about asians we love to bash them and say they're short and when i ask a real question maybe those with experience, nobody answers. and then someone implies i like this asian guy bc i "can't do better" lol, u can see the jealousy. then someone says my vagina smells bad.

is it really that intimidating when an asian guy is good looking and bigger than any other race? i can't imagine this happening to a black guy! you guys disappoint me. not speaking up is equally as bad as trash talking

2006-11-27 23:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always dreamt of having a very big house with lots n lots of rooms and all my poor family members are staying in there jointly. Have lots of money to buy everyone gifts for B/days and Christmas and all other occations. A big bank balance will only help as the interest will be pouring in for the needy. I know it sounds stupid but............

2006-11-27 23:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Belinda Ann D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...ever lick the end of those square batteries? Or was this just something me and my pikey twin brother used to do as kids? It gives you a little electric shock, we used to do it all the time, dare each other to do it etc..... there must be other people that used to do this as kids?!??!?

2006-11-27 22:58:57 · 30 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know this guy frm last 4-5 years. but ,i dontt know anything about him.. [not even his name] i just know him by face, he is a complete stranger to mee butstill evn being a stranger i dont know why i hv a strong feeling towards him-he doesnt feel like a stranger for mee, whn he is not there my eyes r always searching for him and if he is there i notice him looking towards mee but.. i never show him tht i m concerned about him- he even once told me "hi" but i didnt respond. i want to talk to him but i cant
I hv posted this query a few days earlier , most of the people said - it is infatuation. but,let me ask u - can a infatuation last for such a looooong time [4-5 years] i dont think it is infatuation i think it is love
i love him but i dont know wht to do,i m damn sure tht i dont hv guts to say him anything. wht if , if evn he doesnt tresponds like i did to him,i know it was my mistake -but i didint do it puposely . i was just in sm other world tht time bcoz he was in front of me.

2006-11-27 22:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:58:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with a guy for two months. He was the first person I liked after splitting from my ex of nearly three years. We were getting on really well and were both crazy about eachother. I thought he was the perfect guy, until....I was out with my buddies one night and his friends happened to be out too, one of his "buddies" chanced his arm with me but I refused. He told the guy I was with the next day that we slept together, which was totally untrue! and my boyfriend at the time broke up with me. I told him it was untrue and to listen but he wouldn't so I let it go. I saw him when I was out and he he started calling me very bad names in front of people **** etc and telling people to keep away from me. I was shocked that he turned on me like this. I saw him last weekend and he apologised for what he said saying he was angry and that he was crazy about me but I hurt him. Do you think I should stay away from him. Been in an aggressive relationship b4 don't ever want to go there

2006-11-27 22:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Singles & Dating

Just doing a consensus...What age do we all agree is the norm to lose...it.

2006-11-27 22:57:58 · 11 answers · asked by smile_hairy_krishna 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are very innocent, we are not looking for anything sexual in our relationship but our parents (more mine) dont understand that. We would love to sleep together in a bed but not in the sexual way. I have always found parents good people looking for the best but this is just down right frusterating and I hate being accused of something I don't do. How can I make my parents more relaxed about this?

2006-11-27 22:57:00 · 21 answers · asked by Male16 3 in Family

2006-11-27 22:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really don't know what to do since i've been living with my step dad for 3 years my stuff keeps on going missing one day it will be my jeans another my sim card even my ash tray which is in my room i'm sick to death of it when i get home from work I can't even put my bag down for 2 minutes as i'm too scared it will get stolen. I have even had a lock fitted onto my door which i've had for 2 weeks and already he's found a way of getting into my room by picking the lock with a dart. I know he's pathetic but I want to be able to leave my stuff lying around and know it won't get touched. When I confront him he just ignores me what should I do i'm really at the end of my tether

2006-11-27 22:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i got pregnant when i was 17 and we were a childhood sweetheart but he left me coz he migrate in states.i was young then and its easy for me to forget and forgive him.and he had livein partner in states and they had a baby.after 6yrs 2002 we saw each other again and he said that he left the girl.no doubt im still inluv with for da sake of my son but we got married but he went back to states to fix our petition.but i found out this MAY that after our marriage he still living with his partner in states and have another baby.and last yr he wants to divorce me bcoz da girl wants to.he choose that girl but that time i ddnt know da situation but he found out girl cheating.he came back to again and said sori i though i did sumting wrong.but few months ago he wants to break up with me again and her mom told me everthing behind i was shocked coz i trust him so much.he wants to come back to me again but i made a decision to stop between us.i admit im still inluv with him.we have two kids.HELP

2006-11-27 22:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if you got married and then found out that your hubby and daughter is having an affair?

2006-11-27 22:51:51 · 13 answers · asked by Eliza F 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:50:16 · 20 answers · asked by TiaMaria 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got a new job which is 8 Hours a week working as an sales assistant. I study part - time (5Hrs) which is two nights in a row
My partner at home alone and never tidy up after him but understandable because he's an accountant and works 36hours a week.
But when he does create mess, when he collect me from college and having just walked in my front door I see dishes lying on the worktop, not washed, he leaves his tie on the chair and could have been put away, he leaves his dirty clothes on the bedroom floor and the basket is 10 foots step away, what i'm trying to say is I come home from classes and I would be grateful if he doesnt create a much of a mess, I had to clean up this morning and now im heading into the city to get a few things and head to class, then tomorrow i.ve work, this weekend my mother staying over and I have no time to clear up the spare room and clean the rest of the apartment. I just wish he would tidy up after himself. let me get on with my coursework

2006-11-27 22:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A woman & a man are involved in a car accident on a snowy, Monday
morning.
Both of their cars are totally demolished but amazingly neither of
them are hurt. God works in Mysterious ways.

After they crawl out of their cars, the woman says, "So you're a man.

That's interesting. I'm a woman. Wow, just look at our cars! There's
nothing left, but we're unhurt. This must be a sign from God that we should
meet and be friends and live together in peace for the rest of our days".

Flattered, the man replies, "Oh yes, I agree with you completely, this
must be a sign from God!"

The woman continues, "And look at this, here's another miracle. My
car is completely demolished but this bottle of wine didn't break. Surely God
wants us to drink this wine and celebrate our good fortune."

Then she hands the bottle to the man. The man nods his head in
agreement, opens it and drinks half the bottle and then hands it back to the
woman. The woman takes the bottle and immediately puts the cap back on, and hands
it back to the man.

The man asks, "Aren't you having any?"

The woman replies, "No. I think I'll just wait for the police...."


MORAL OF THE STORY:
Women are clever and they could be evil. Don't mess with them.

2006-11-27 22:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by Nino 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i m sharanu in search of a girlfriend is some one there who want to be my friend with true heart.

2006-11-27 22:48:51 · 5 answers · asked by sharanu s 1 in Friends

My new Girlfriend is beautiful and Philipino...will I get a shag or will I have to wait to be married...sorry It's so crass but there it is!

2006-11-27 22:48:19 · 28 answers · asked by alan l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant and will it be better for me to file for a divorce before the birth of baby or afterwords for child custody. I dont want any contact with him after the divorce will it be possible?
what rights will he have?
Its been its been 9 months to marriage and am staying with my parents from 2.5 months.
I am from a decent family and I dont want to bring out the matter that he was abusing me ...
in an Indian family its gets very difficult to stay with the after effects of a divorce. I am really very confused as what to do...or should I continue to stay separate without taking any action...

2006-11-27 22:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by 28March2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at the parents race at school sports day.
Of course i let her win!!!

should i come 1st for a change??

2006-11-27 22:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my b/f wants to start a business where he buys property and cars at a low price and sells it real cheap but he still makes a huge profit. i dont know what capital he will use though. i advised him to use his accounting degree and work for someone instead...do u think this business idea of his will work?

2006-11-27 22:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Christianity is the only true relgion.

George Bush is a evil sob, who is against America. He was involved in 9-11

Homosexuality is a disgrace and all fags are decieved into believing lies.

Girls who have abortions are selfish horrible people, they murder a human life for a few seconds of pleasure. Sick!

2006-11-27 22:46:07 · 5 answers · asked by nohomo 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy he likes me and i like him too but he acts shy around me but he looks really tough from outside and all of his friends are really tough and outgoing. so i am not so sure wether to trust him

2006-11-27 22:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by chick on fire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Shaven or not?!?!?!?!? I personally prefer shaven!

2006-11-27 22:44:46 · 52 answers · asked by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating