Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

this guy has been chasing me for years. even when i was in my past serious relationship.(he did know my ex, not friends tho and my ex has moved away) (i was with my ex for 6 years, engaged and had our own place together)

i have only met up with him by chance a few times.we live in different towns and meet up if we happen to be out in the same town.

he says he likes me etc. we have only kissed but he does want to "take things further".

he does ask me about my ex when we are together.ive been single now for 8 months. he also asked if ive been with anyone else since my ex.

how can i tell if he is really interested in me and not just after sex?
he hasnt asked me out on a date. is he just giving me space cause of my ex or is he just waiting for sex?wouldnt he have given up now if he was just after sex?

2006-11-27 22:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Given that this someone is really persistent, but youre heart really belongs to only one... and u cant afford to be unfaithful....

2006-11-27 22:44:25 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2006-11-27 22:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by Joseph Manners 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is he deal my mother is 85, and for the last 12 years I have been her sole caretaker, I buy her groceries, take her to the doctors, take her on vacations, and generally do everythin for her including buy her birthday,mothersday,christmas presents. I have 2 older brothers one is 57 the other 59 and the extent of thier participation is they might (usually not) send her a card for her birthday. Anyone know a good way I can get them to take more responsibility? I lov my mom dearly but it's wearing me out doin everything or her with no help from the two stooges?

2006-11-27 22:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by roymoenkhoff 1 in Family

What do I do with an old boyfriend who won't return calls or emails when he and I BOTH have to sign to claim some unclaimed property from the State? He is pissing me off! He never respected me, since day 1, and he's doing it now! We're both married to other people now, but I'm so tired of playing his lame games! What do I do? This is a lot of money we're talking about here, and it's mine!

2006-11-27 22:41:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for good friends with whom i can share thoughts.Any1 interested plz feel free to add me in there yahoo list

2006-11-27 22:41:15 · 6 answers · asked by friend_simple_guy 1 in Friends

Got friendly to somoene through the net, talked on phone. he said he liked me alot, asked what I wanted for xmas etc... eventually wanted to meet, but after two days had a change of heart, I continued to text just general 'hellos etc' but no reply... I know I should'nt be texting at all !!! my fingers are not listening to my head!!! HELP !!!

2006-11-27 22:40:56 · 12 answers · asked by sonia 3 in Friends

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2006-11-27 22:40:10 · 1 answers · asked by aramaiya 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by serene 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by tapakani 1 in Friends

2006-11-27 22:37:20 · 10 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Friends

2006-11-27 22:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Friends

i talked to my ex husband to leave us alone and i dont need anymore him even the child support,because a lot of times i tried to convince him and please him that i cant support my kids right now coz he left us with nothing and no work.it really hurt me alot for cheating me and playing with my emotions.his family even saying some bad words of me because we got married no question at all aftersix years he abandoned me and when he came back to me i accepted him and married him eventhpough i knew that he had live in partner have a son.but iam the first and we had a baby wen i was 17yrs old and hes my childhood sweethart and he left me coz they migrate in states.after sixyrs we saw each other again and i stil inluv with him no doubt i accepted him again after he left for sixyrs and thats the first time he saw our first child.after we got married he went back to state and promise us to fix our papers.i trust him so much and my whole life his da only man that i loved and i waited him.pls help

2006-11-27 22:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you would punish ur 15 year old son with the belt and 2 weeks grounding and banning from computer and tv for this?

2006-11-27 22:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by L R 1 in Family

I'm a western professional in my 40's living in Asia. I have an interpreter at the office to assist me in communications. My interpreter is a demure (typical here), highly educated 30 year old single female Asian and I have fallen madly in love with her (unknown to her I think). She was engaged to be married and asked me my opinion of her situation. I was honest, and told her that in her culture she will be expected to give up her job and completely devote herself to her husbands’ needs and the home. Apparently, after our conversations, she asked her husband-to-be about his expectations and found that her life would in fact be worse than imagined. The marriage is now off. I feel responsible for this mess. I am married, love my wife and won't cheat - but when I'm near my interpreter I feel a gut wrenching attraction to her and I think she is attracted to me also. I don't want to fire her to protect myself but can't stand the tempation of having her near me- how do I get out of this?

2006-11-27 22:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by mindless 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does it usually last?

2006-11-27 22:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently, this girl I like behaved strangely. She is shy in front of me. When I asked her a question, she sometimes did not dare to look and did not dare to talk. I feel it is weird.

I previously told her my feeling but she said she just wanted to be friends. Still, it was one month ago and her behaviour has just changed in these few days.

Why?

2006-11-27 22:23:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this one girl in my school right.
she just broke up with her boyfriend a month ago.
So i decided to be brave and ask her out, and she sayed yes!
So last week we went to a movie, it was a really nice date.
Then in sunday i went over to here house.
I really like her but i really messed up.
Yesterday I sayed to one of my friends
"I think she might be going out with me to maker her ex jealous"
because on sunday at her house she talked about him alot.
so my friend has to be adumbass and tell her!
now she doesnt want to speak to me ever again!
I really really like, and feel really bad about this situation.
what should i do?

2006-11-27 22:22:51 · 12 answers · asked by AlphaD1269 1 in Singles & Dating

i jst LOST a friend bcos she thot tht our relationship was gettin weird. she's not a gf we r just frends. she sed tht i was crmpin her space and tht i always pressure her (she only txted me this cos i cudn't pick up the phone 3 times). readin the msg, it seemd like she ddnt wanna b frends. she also sed tht she felt tht i like her mor thn a frend (true). she's nvr had a bf (we r both 17).

i tried to call her but she ddn't wanna talk (her sis told me). wen i emailed her on wat i wnted 2 say, i specifically askd "can we stay friends?" she answrd along the lines 'sry...getting weird... cos i'm new to relationships' and the dreaded "No" (also not as bf/gf was implied)

our friendship was a good one. we had fun bein w/ each other. we laughed, talked, did sum random things, told each other personal stuff. we also had lots in common.

i don't wanna lose her.

Do I need to fight for our friendship or do I need to let go?

If i need to let go, how do i?

2006-11-27 22:19:27 · 7 answers · asked by joe s 1 in Singles & Dating

Am in love with a guy who i met once in 2005 and up till now he still call me and tells me how much he love pls tell me is this infatuation or real love or how do i konw his love is real for me.

2006-11-27 22:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by lauretta e 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy, he is very good friend and very good too me alwys. we hve only been close 8 months but, we are very close, o touching or anything like that, but, all the people that we come into contact with keep saying that we got it bad. boh of us they say they cn see it all over our faces. we r both happily married, I dont get it. I wont leave my husband that is outa the question? so whats this about. If I knew wht a soul mate was Id almost guess that is wht the feelng is? but idonyknow.What is the feeling how can we both have it? and neither of us get it?

2006-11-27 22:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by cat771 1 in Friends

my anniversary with my boyfriend is close to xmas and i need to get him 2 gifts, problem is i dont no wat i shud get him! he is really hard to shop for! clothes is a no because he is fussy and pretty much everythin is a no cos he is soooooo fussy...what 2 gifts can i get that is a gaurantee he will love, he is 21 if that helps.

2006-11-27 22:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:14:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A nice big Iced Lolly?

2006-11-27 22:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl her name is jessica she go to chruch i look at her she look back at me. that some of her firends came and i look at her and she look at me does she know i love her but know one does not smile how can i show love to her.

2006-11-27 22:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-27 22:11:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK me and my wife are having a serious argument about our 7 year old daughter. She has been going to gymnastics at the local Y for a couple of years but she told me recently she would rather take the martial arts class they offer there. The class is a good mixture of both boys and girls and the childrens classes are seperate from the adult classes. The instructor is a young ldy about 25 who is a 3rd degree Black Belt ans sem to really enjoy working with the kids. She stresses that what they are taught is only to be used for self defence, and she talks to them about setting goals, self disipline. I think this would be good for my daughter but her mother doesn't agree she says it's just teaching them to fight period!! is there anyone out there that can give her some good examples of why she should change her mind?
She says she will go by the majority rulling as to wether or not to let our girl take the classes.

2006-11-27 22:11:19 · 16 answers · asked by flyfisherman_46 2 in Family

Is it possible to divorce a sibling?, When irepairable differences occur between the two individuals with the threat of physical violence between the two.

2006-11-27 22:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by martin k 1 in Family

What should i tell him?????????
don't want 2 b embarrased

2006-11-27 22:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by Trish 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 22:08:35 · 44 answers · asked by smi 1 in Marriage & Divorce