i know this guy, he is very good friend and very good too me alwys. we hve only been close 8 months but, we are very close, o touching or anything like that, but, all the people that we come into contact with keep saying that we got it bad. boh of us they say they cn see it all over our faces. we r both happily married, I dont get it. I wont leave my husband that is outa the question? so whats this about. If I knew wht a soul mate was Id almost guess that is wht the feelng is? but idonyknow.What is the feeling how can we both have it? and neither of us get it?
2006-11-27 22:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by cat771 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love is a choice, not a feeling. At least, real love, the kind that lasts a long time is. What you've got with this other guy might be 'chemistry'--it happens. It might happen again.
And chemistry 'experiements' can blow up in your face.
Walk away, friend. Choose to love your husband, to not peek over the fence, or wonder or worry about it. When are you two together that people are talking about you? If this is a temptation to you, put some distance between you and ask your husband out for a date :-)
2006-11-27 22:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Netty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a very complicated question.
i believe that everyone has a soul mate, but we don't always find them. you can be happy without ever finding your other half, but when you find him (her) you will know. it's like looking into a mirror that reflects the best parts of you. sensing that this is the person that you are supposed to be with. knowing to your core that they will never leave you, or hurt you. that your happiness is more important to them than their own, and you feel the same way about them.
when i met my husband i knew that i'd known him before. i felt closer to him than anyone i had ever met. we were married after "knowing" each other for three months. we have been together for thirty years. we aren't exactly alike. that would be boring. he doesn't believe in the same things that i do, but i know he feels them.
your soul mate is the other half of you. you only feel complete with that person.
if you are in love with your husband you probably shouldn't pursue this. it can only lead to pain. if other people see this in both of you he does to. you should spend less time with your friend, and concentrate on the things you love about your husband.
your friend could be your soul mate, but do you want to risk your happy marriage on a maybe.
good luck.
2006-11-27 22:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soul mate means the person to whom your heart belongs, the person who makes you feel complete. Apparently there is only one soul mate for a person.
2006-11-27 22:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by kags 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cat, you are playing with fire...your soulmate should be your husband...watch your step...it can lead to trouble
2006-11-27 22:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by smartchic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember this......the forbidden fruit is always the most tempting
2006-11-27 22:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Enigma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋