i jst LOST a friend bcos she thot tht our relationship was gettin weird. she's not a gf we r just frends. she sed tht i was crmpin her space and tht i always pressure her (she only txted me this cos i cudn't pick up the phone 3 times). readin the msg, it seemd like she ddnt wanna b frends. she also sed tht she felt tht i like her mor thn a frend (true). she's nvr had a bf (we r both 17).
i tried to call her but she ddn't wanna talk (her sis told me). wen i emailed her on wat i wnted 2 say, i specifically askd "can we stay friends?" she answrd along the lines 'sry...getting weird... cos i'm new to relationships' and the dreaded "No" (also not as bf/gf was implied)
our friendship was a good one. we had fun bein w/ each other. we laughed, talked, did sum random things, told each other personal stuff. we also had lots in common.
i don't wanna lose her.
Do I need to fight for our friendship or do I need to let go?
If i need to let go, how do i?
2006-11-27 22:19:27 · 7 answers · asked by joe s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've already sent an email to her saying everything that i felt. i also told her that it would be stupid if she would sacrifice our friendship because of this awkwardness. but she still said "No" to our friendship.
2006-11-27 22:46:05 · update #1
Give her space, she may be falling for you and wants to distance herself.
Spend some time with other friends maybe find a girlfriend, keep it casual with her not to pushy it will work out in time
2006-11-27 22:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spelling issues aside...
Maybe a letter/email would work if she won't talk to you on the phone. Simply make it clear what your feelings are about this; remind her what a great friendship you had together, and what a waste it would be to discard everything out of awkwardness or fear.
What you should answer for yourself is whether or not you would still be content with being friends and ONLY friends if she does come around.
2006-11-27 22:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space, might be all she needs right now and if your friendship is as important to her as it is to you then she'll tell you openly what the problem is and you two can work it out then. Good luck and you are such a royal friend, keep it up
2006-11-27 22:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by bush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her space and be nice don't call and text her she might just have her period and be having a bad day lol i used to fight with my mates and then be there bf the next week get over it life goes on you wont even remember this when you are 50 lol
2006-11-27 22:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont call her for sometime, let her cool down for some time then go and talk to her personaly.
2006-11-27 22:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Martha K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, then go out meet new friends, she will soon realize how much she misses your friendship
sometimes you have to let go for people to see the importance one has on one's life.
and if she doesn't be your friend any more then remember it is her loss not urs.
2006-11-27 22:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by talkintame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to spell
2006-11-27 22:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋