Am in love with a guy who i met once in 2005 and up till now he still call me and tells me how much he love pls tell me is this infatuation or real love or how do i konw his love is real for me.
2006-11-27 22:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by lauretta e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is looking like real love coz u are saying he's been phoning since 2005. Don't take too long, he might loose interest!
2006-11-27 22:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's very easy and romantic (and often an illusion) to love someone you simply call from time to time. Day-to-day living together and behaviour is what counts. You will only discover if his love is real by the way he treats you when you pass several weeks together, or try a holiday of a fortnight first.
It's ACTIONS not words that denote love, so don't trust what may be just a nice fantasy.
2006-11-27 22:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be infatuation. But once u people start going out, It may turn into real love
2006-11-27 22:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is just taking you for a ride. How can you love someone you dont really know. To love someone is means to love the person inspite of his bad side. You need to get to know him first.Its an infatuation
2006-11-27 22:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by kags 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU met him once? Last year, if he loved you , you would have seen him more he is just using the word love .If he loved you he would move heaven and earth to be with you.Not just use empty words.Forget him.Find a real person who wants you for you and who wants to spend every waking hour with you.
2006-11-27 22:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Carol B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is neither love nor infatuation. It is an overactive imagination. Get involved in some real life issues.
2006-11-27 22:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no sure way of knowing...logically...u met him once..so..dnt think so. but then again far stranger things have happened. in love nutin is for certain..sometime u jus gotta jump in without testing the water..other times...run the opposite way
2006-11-27 22:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by necromancer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear madam
it is true that we can fall in love by looking each other but there is also two type of love in world one is one side love and other is both sides loves. now you tell him that you are in love of him and than see his response if he response as he love you too you can say him that you have to accept me with good qualities and bad qualities too. if he accept you with your good and bad qualities so you can be think he is in your love if he don't than you see. but it will be carefull for you that you accept him with his good and bad qualities in this way you can decide that he and you are in love or you are not
2006-11-27 22:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Muha A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when someone truly loves you you know. with other guys i've been with i've needed to hear them say it, my current guy, who im engaged to coulld never tell me again n id still know . its in his body language, the way he looks at you etc..if you need to hear it it prolly isn't real..also watch out for guys who seem to say it too soon and too freely
2006-11-27 22:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a crush not actual love.....
2006-11-27 22:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋