i just dont like what i see in the mirror sometimes......im goin 2 the gym 2 improve my muscle mass and i dont know whats wrong with me, i have never had a relationship with anyone. and no im not ugly. people are attracted 2 me....why do i need 2 be perfect to have a relationship? why am i like this?
2006-11-27 23:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by sexyashell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not an external problem so no matter how buff you get, it's not going to fix the problem. You have self-esteem issues, you think you aren't worthy of love. That is not true, but you might need the help of some counseling to help you re-program your own thought patterns so you don't keep thinking that way about yourself. Stop the negative self-talk.
2006-11-27 23:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believed as I do not have much hope into this matter, I just could not attract a girl into an relationship. I was totally wrong. I was myself, and managed that way. Is not worth to run after illusions, if don't go well try to improve it, if go against your way of be, speak your mind then, not after some time when she forget. You can take it like that: is well and good on a side and at the other side is bad, wrong and stupid. In the world are many girls, I can say good girls, they are not perfect, neither we boys. You will find someone, did you though to look at a site for singles, there are girls which want to meet someone. As a fact: don't ended the girls on Earth. Try to be as the best you can always. I was somehow in this situation, I am not anymore. Is not wrong as you want to improve your muscle, I would want more for myself too, bad for me I do not make anything for it.
2006-11-27 23:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mircea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO PROBLEM BROTHER
u are not in any sought of trouble,its only a matter of distance what u make wid peoples u r not able 2 express ur veiws completly in front of any 1
if u are able 2 express ur feeling u r d winner nothing lies in the musles and ur built what lies isn inside ur soul and i think thts crystal clear thts why u are able ask this question
2006-11-27 23:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones perfect love!!!
First off you need to build up your self-esteem, people might think you're attractive but if they see you think lowly of yourself, they'll eventually turn their head. You cant get into a relationship (thinking its going to last) when its just based on looks
With me my personality is verrrry out there and I cant seem to find someone to relate or who can handle it but I'm not going to beat myself down over it! I'm going to continue to live and let love find me! Stop searching for it! Believe me it'll hit you one day!
Beating up on yourself isn't good sweetie and it could lead to something even bad!
Good luck and I hope i helped a little
2006-11-27 23:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy outside of Yahoo Answers, sweetie. This is a deep issue that you need professional help with...no offense.
2006-11-27 23:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋