I really like this guy.we are only seeing eachother casually. i have only kissed him but he "wants more".
how can i say to him that i really like him and want to date him and ask him if he just sees me for sex?
im not sure if hes just giving me time cause i came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago but i really do like him and its not a rebound thing!!!!
2006-11-27 23:44:46 · 11 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple way around this, dont give it to him, if hes still waiting then id assume he wants to commit, if he leaves you, then id say u have had a lucky escape
2006-11-27 23:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by amethyst2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl if u really like this guy.then u need to know this guy before u can move into another relationship.u need to really know what he really wants and what he doesn't want in a relationship.and that goes with the same with him .but if u already know this guy for a long time and u know him in and out then just go for it.but u need to remember one thing dont rush it and dont let him force u in anyway.do it when ur ready and in ur time.and if he can't understand that or respect that then he isn't the one to be with.and another thing u just came out of a relationship for 6years .make sure that u are ready to settle down with another ok i wish u all the best and good luck for that .and if it does work out for u and him then goodluck for the futures and the next coming years and take care and be careful ok.god bless u both
2006-11-28 08:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by darkangel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not in a proper relationship with him, I would say no to sex. If you sleep with him you might ruin the friendship, on the other hand, I married my best friend 11 years ago, so it can work out, but be careful, find out what he really wants. Take a deep breath and ask him what he thinks of you.
2006-11-28 07:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be up front and ask. The answer may hurt, but its better to find out early than wait until its too late. Also he may want the same thing but is scared to rush you or get hurt in the rebound potential.
2006-11-28 07:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every guy wants more, what you have to do is tell him that as much as you like him and want to date him you are not into freely having sex. If that is not acceptable to him then you don't really need him in your life. I fear that he thinks that you are on the rebound and ready to fall into bed with any man.
2006-11-28 07:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by supressdesires 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really likes you, then you will come before sex and he will respect your decision to wait until your ready. If he goes on about wanting more, then he sounds like he just wants you for sex cos a guy that actually likes you wouldnt pressure you into it cos they wouldnt want to lose you.
2006-11-28 07:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Minnie Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u gotta take is slow...say u dont wnat anything "too serious" if he says why, just say "because i'm not sure YET"...this will make him want to have u as his girl..BUT only when u make him WAIT for sex...every male person i know tells me,//waiting for sex is a b!tch, but it really allows them to like the girl...uu can be the hoe or the wife..2 be the wife..make em wait a bit until ur so sure he cares about u! ur a bit tender right now..u just came out a relationship! dont rush
2006-11-28 07:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I think that coming out and asking him in the same way you asked the question here is the best way to ask him... In newcastle we have a saying, "shy bairns get nothing", so my advice is to be brave and just ask him! that way you'll know whether he just wants you for sex and whether it's worth continuing to see him. If you don't ask, you'll never know.
2006-11-28 07:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Leon S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is really interested then he will be willing to wait, just say you want to take things slow at the moment & if he is genuine he will be willing to wait, if not then you know its sex he's after! goodluck
2006-11-28 07:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by BLONDESHELL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please seek help with your mental health I don't know how no one else has noticed that you've set up several profiles and ask exactly the same question day in day out every day. Please get some help you sad sad person
2006-11-28 08:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by crownose 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋