I was seeing this guy about 1 year ago and since we split up he meet some1 else and had a baby, but even b4 th baby was born he would always come round 2 my house and we would end up have sex, i know thats bad but i still havent meet any1 4 my self yet. I always tell him that this needs 2 stop but its like he doesnt want me 2 move on and meet some1 else, i even told him not 2 come round anymore but he still does and when he comes i always bring up his girlfriend but he just dont seem 2 care. WHAT CAN I DO 2 STOP THIS PLS HELP ME
2006-11-27 23:46:51 · 16 answers · asked by nats7916 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put your foot down and ACTUALLY MEAN IT! You're obviously not saying it firm enough because he doesn't believe you when you say, "stop coming around!". Threaten to call the cops or even his girlfriend! Do whatever you need to do to keep this creep out of your life. From what you've said it seems like all he wants is to have his cake and eat it too. Don't be his chick on the side who he occasionally has sex with. He's using you and you keep letting him. You will eventually meet someone new but not until you get rid of the past. Stay strong, girl.
2006-11-27 23:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't have sex with him anymore, don't even let him into your house. Go get a plastic toy from your local adult store, to take care of your needs. He only wants to hit it, so I'm asking you this. What do you think he would do if you got pregnent. He'll deny it's his, and you'll be stuck raising a kid without a father.
2006-11-28 07:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take resonsibility for your side of the street. You let him continue to bang you. Your fault. You want him to stop? Don't open the door. Or change the lock.
2006-11-28 07:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Toni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont answer the door and dont answer his phone calls there is a baby involved know he needs to grow and and take responsibilitys for his actions and you need to be grown and tell himthat you dont want to get in the way of his child having his parents
2006-11-28 07:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u either tell him not to come to ur house no more or u gon call the police hes needs to go home n take care of his child u should reall y stop having sex wit him to
2006-11-28 07:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by lostgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he comes you go out. dont talk to him on the phone. dont let him in your house. start going to clubs.make your self to busy for him.he obviously doesnt care about that little baby. or his other girlfriend. or you. hes using you. fade him out of your life.
2006-11-28 07:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by gorjis gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want this guy around STOP answering the door.Sounds to me you want hi to be around until you find someone else.
2006-11-28 07:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps coming back for sex. STOP GIVING IN!!! Hes a guy he wants it as much as he can and from whomever he can!
2006-11-28 07:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a baseball bat beside your door, when he comes sniffing around for free sex, tell him the bat has his name on it! By the way, you are not required to open the door for him--call the police and tell them you are being stalked by a sexual predator!
2006-11-28 07:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the guy that he has a kid and to take care of the kid instead of taking care of you. but that isn't such a bad thing either.
2006-11-28 07:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by gangsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋