ive been seeing this guy casually.we have only met up 4 times and when we do meet,i stay at his place cause i live in a different town to him.he has been chasing me for about 2 years,even when i was in my previous 6 year relationship with my ex fiance.i had my own place with my ex too.
he knew about my relationship.he knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has since moved away.ive been single now for 8 months.
i have only kissed this guy but he does want to take things further.he is still chasing me.
when i was with him last,he was asking about my ex,asking how he was.was he seeing if i was still into my ex?
i really like this guy and he shows all the signs that he likes me.
if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have given up now?
why wont he ask me out properly on a date rather than keeping things so casual?
2006-11-27 05:04:09 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 29 and single
2006-11-27 05:05:20 · update #1
It might be because you are making things too easy for him. Keep your distance for a while and see if he comes looking for you. Don't stay at his place and try and be busy for a few weeks. That should force him into some action if he is interested in you.
2006-11-27 05:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to make sure things really and truly are over with you and your ex before moving forward with you. You should establish with this guy what he wants with you and vice versa. Does he want this to turn into a relationship or is it just a sexual thing? Making this clear is essential for you to both be on the same page. If you think it is a relationship and he thinks it is just sex then you stand to potentially get your heart broken. Communicate and you can't go wrong. Good luck.
2006-11-27 05:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I'm going thru the same thing but I'm the guy in the situation and I just haven't decided how to bring it up yet. It might actually help if maybe you make your feelings clearer, but it may just be he's waiting for the right time, or as you brought up, he just wants to make sure you and your ex are officially over. Good luck with it, hope it works out for ya.
2006-11-27 06:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by leprechaun3833 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you tell that he wants to move further?
coz if he does, and if he really likes you, then he would waste no time. he should have asked you out on a date already.
be careful with this guy. he could be dating others at the same time, based on my recent experience.
try reading "he's just not that into you" to tell if he really is into you or not. it's funny and it's worth reading. ;)
2006-11-27 05:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by jjjjjjjjjjjjjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are dumb. You should talk to him about things so you know, otherwise you will always be guessing and unsure. Maybe he isn't sure if you are ready for a relationship, or maybe he doesn't want to be tied down. Tell him you are interested in dating exclusively.
2006-11-27 05:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing it safe until he's sure you're over your ex for good. Re-assure him, maybe then things will move forwards.
2006-11-27 05:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with or find another guy!
2006-11-27 05:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he does not want to commit
2006-11-27 05:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know !!!!!! why dont you ask him ?
2006-11-27 05:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋