i have a very good friend who i tell all my secrets...family and personal but as soon as i tell him my crush he threatens to spread it to everyone(i live in india where if anyone knows about ur crush your gonna be hurt socially which is bad,real bad)i know his crush as well but he tells that he will tell everyone about me 1st so that no one will believe me........Help........Please..........!!!!!!!
2006-11-27 05:12:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend like that once. He went and told all my secrets to my ex-husband while we were in the process of getting a divorce. I have learned that even though it is very hard to do, keep your secrets to yourself and don't trust anybody! And when your "FRIEND" tries to go around telling your crush then DENY! DENY! DENY! Just say he is LYING because he is jealous of you and don't tell anybody about his crush either. That would put you down to his level and you seem like you are not that kind of person. If you want, I will give you my "FRIEND" number and they can tell on each other! LOL!
2006-11-27 05:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is blackmailing you and threatening to tell things that are supposed to be sacred between you and him, this person is not a FRIEND. I would tell everyone about his crush first and then I would cut all ties with this friend. Get rid of him now, he's not a true riend. Tell all his secrets and never speak to him again.
2006-11-27 05:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell the people that you told secrets about, there is no other way, what ever happens as punishment is a lesson to never tell or talk about private family matters to anyone. You loose no matter which way you go, but you have to take the first step and start to be honest and Honourable
2006-11-27 05:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww gross. Not sure what would be so solemn about a feast of dung, but to answer your question as to what kind of god threatens to spread shite on your face, that would be the god of shite of course. Obviously a god that screwed up big time with the upper management and has been demoted over the eons. I imagine that would not look good on a resume. Apollo and Aphrodite would laugh their asses off at the thought of there being a god of shite, but if you're at all the Pantheist, you must know there is even a god of belly button lint.
2016-05-23 10:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? Why is your so called "very good friend" threatening to blackmail you?
I personally don't think you should spend one more second stresing about this when life is so short.
If your friend is hanging this over your head he will hang everything over your head. I really think you should drop the "friend" and essentially call his bluff.
If he does tell your crush you will know who your real friends are.
Just my opinion.
2006-11-27 05:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gossip is bad, especially when it isn't true
don't tell him any secrets if you don't want then shared maybe
also, figure out why you need to have so many secrets
I'm just pretty much open about things so I don't have to worry about small things like that
2006-11-27 05:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling him your secrets!
If he says anything, just deny it. If someone asks you about, and says "I heard your crush is so-and-so!" just calmly say, "No, that's just some moron making up stories to get attention. HE is actually the one who has a crush on her."
2006-11-27 05:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Zoe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatis happening is called power over and it is due to his wounding. He is trying to get your "energy" by threating you so you will surrender.
SUBMIT TO NO ONE> SURRENDER ONLY TO THE ONE GREAT CREATOR OF US ALL>
Find a new" friend". Follow your heart, trust your intuition. As for now Pay no attention to his treats. Know karma will deal with him and live your life as your heart is asking you to. Your heart is your connection to the One Great Creator. Follow the wisdom of the UNI-VERSE and sing your heart song, your love of life. Peace be with my brother.
2006-11-27 05:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he tells you "that he will tell everyone about you first so no one will believe you" he is really mean. you should talk to him (maybe that's the easiest thing) or..just don't tell him you're secrets(especially about your crush).
2006-11-27 05:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by polly spotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats ur age mamu ... tere tho ... saala bachon ke jaise time pass kya .... watever it is ... don't even care abt the crush just deny saying u have no idea ... and he is cheap .. i am from india i know that
2006-11-27 05:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sansita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋