A few nights ago i done acid which was really stupid...then I told my one friend about it before I told my bestfriend b/c i knew how she would react but after i told her she got really mad that i told my other friend before her and then we got into this big fight over it and then she said "I don't know you anymore!" and drove off and we havent talked since b/c she wont answer my phone calls or text messages...What should I do??Please help me b/c i dont know what i would do without her b/c she has always been there for me!!!!
2006-11-27 05:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by Mandy_sky_45 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your best friend will always be your best friend... With that said, you just have to be more careful on how you keep stuff from her coz she might blow up agen like dis. What dosent kill your relationship will make it stronger. U will be friends agen n seems like u guys mean alot to each other, this is just a steping stone, a river u both have to cross...
2006-11-27 05:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time to cool off. She obviously cares about you and wants to feel important in your life. After some time has passed, talk to her, send her a letter if you must and tell her that you know what you did was dumb and wanted to tell her but didn't want her to think badly of you or judge you for something you already felt pretty bad about. Make it clear to her that you love her as a friend and value her friendship and her opinion. Hopefully, that will get the ball rolling. Good luck.
2006-11-27 13:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok she got mad over soomething that was kidda stupid but if it was me i would had got mad to so you need to tell her that you sorry and that the only reason why you didn't tell her before is becasue of the way she was going to react tell her to forgive you and that it won't happen again also don't forget to say that you don't want to lose her as a friend and that she shouldn't get mad becasue after all she is you on;y best friend and no one can take that from her after you say that give her a hug
2006-11-27 13:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that your friend is at fault. Even my best friend doesn't always hear of things before someone else. It just doesn't happen that way. I don't know what all went on in the argument, but if the only thing that's making her mad is that you told someone else first, then you're not really at fault.
2006-11-27 13:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by pzratnog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN a case like this your friend probably feels a little violated and a lot left out. If you have tried calling and texting to no avail then you are going to have to sit tight and wait until she is ready to talk about it.
2006-11-27 13:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you couldn't tell your best friend you were dropping acid because you knew she'd be upset, what did you expect? It's possible your friend doesn't want drug users as friends, so there may not be anything you can do.
2006-11-27 13:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to decide who your best friend is, second acid is for losers, seriosuly its just lame. And if you are still doing it dont even try to apologize to your bestfriend, or crack your back infront of her, ull get high from the acid left in your system...
2006-11-27 13:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by kewllikethat@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told your best friend first, but it is ok, just call her, hope she answers, and tell her you are really sorry, miss her, and need her back as your best friend.
2006-11-27 13:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "best friend" is not being a really good friend. Tell her that you didn't tell her first because she would freak out, just like she did.
2006-11-27 13:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good friend should not behave the way she is behaving leave her alone everything will be fine
2006-11-27 13:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋