He just heard i liked him, and now he is really mean to me around his buddies, but we have never been alone and never will be, because i have no school classes with him! and he asked me my phone number, but a week later called me ugly. And he used to ask me everyday who i liked and i told him that i liked him, what do i do? does he like me? NOW HE JUST LAUGHS ABOUT ME WITH HIS BUDS!
2006-11-27 05:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds very mean
if he is laughing at you with his friends it means he has a bad self image and you should stay away from him.
2006-11-27 05:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does he has a funny way of showing it. I wish we had a class for young people to teach them how to date effectively. :) The behavior that you are doing wrong is being too available and easy (if you will). I don't mean sexually. It's just that there is no game for him to play. Whether they admit it or not all men like the "chase". If he doesn't have to put forth any effort to try and impress you or woo you then he won't AND he'll lose interest. Everything happens for a reason. Let this one go because the next one is waiting around the corner. Just next time don't be SO open and let him work a little at getting you to like him. You'll both benefit in the long run. Good luck to you and God bless.
2006-11-27 13:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you, but he also sounds a tad childish. By insulting you in front of his buddies, he's trying to get your attention and seem manly at the same time. Or maybe he thinks that girls respond well to being insulted -rolls eyes-
If you want him to give it a rest, next time he says something stupid, say sarcastically: "well, you're quite mature, aren't you?" and roll your eyes and walk away. If he's nice, smile and if you two are talking, keep it nice and light and pleasant.
He obviously wants your attention, but like a bratty child, he doesn't know how to get it. If he realizes that he has to be nice to get your attention, he'll stop acting like a nimrod.
Has he called you yet? If you want to see him outside of school, you can make open-ended invitation that are subtle, that way you can tell if he likes you. For example, plan to go see a movie with your girl friend(s), and when you talk to him, say "Jane and Sally and I are going to see James Bond this weekend, and then we're going to Sally's for pizza. Know anyone else who might want to come along?"
I don't know how old you are, but for starters, it's best to see him and hang out with him in a group. That way, you can casually let him know you're interested (and so can he) but if he's not interested, or it doesn't work out, there's no big 'break up'.
Good luck! :D
2006-11-27 13:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but he doesn't want to get all mushy in front of his buddies. Therefore, he acts mean to you to show that he's still one of them (I'm assuming you all are in like Intermediate school). Call him and if he's alone he'll let you know what's up.
2006-11-27 13:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave that boy alone my neg if he treating you like that but also fix your hair up start dressing clean *** hell and just tell him when he ask you who you like say no one at school and walk away trust me it works don't give and attention let him follow you and don't don't i mean don't let him touch hug kiss or nothing show him how it feels to be treating that way.
2006-11-27 13:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by SexyBlack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW....this guy sounds like a total ******. Why do you even bother. Forget him and start looking somewhere else.
2006-11-27 13:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by oaparicio2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does but he's just afraid of what his buds might think or say......
2006-11-27 13:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋