This month has been very bad for me. I keep getting into these minor accidents. A week ago, I got into a bad car accident. Thank god Im okay. So, I contacted my ex again because of it...And talk for few days then stopped talking. Then, 2 nites ago I called him and said Not talk for awhile n he agrees. So, today in the pouring rain, I get a flat tire! So, I text my ex asking what to do ( i have no one here to turn to. dads away to another country) my ex called back to check up on if i got taken care of or not. so i said Yeah i did. I Imed him telling him Thanks for Calling back n sorry if i keep contacting you!.
Ok, what the hell should i do? Its hard.. Stuff happens to me and I turn to him. And We strt talkin again....Same cycle....
I'm not trying to get him back or anything cus either one of us want that now. He wants to remain friends but its a lil hard for me cus i do get emotional...cus I stil have feelings for him..
Any suggestions??
2006-11-27 05:12:16 · 6 answers · asked by julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have feelings for him, and talking to him is hard because you get emotional, then you should stop talking to him (unless you both want to start back into a relationship - but because you broke up already, I'm guessing that's not the case.)
You sound like you need to widen your circle of friends. Get out there! Keep yourself busy! Volounteer, play sports, take up a hobby with some friends, go to bars and make friends, go bowling, whatever! The more friends you have, the more stuff you'll have to do, and the less time you'll have to dwell on / contact your ex.
2006-11-27 05:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with an ex is extremly hard. If he still wants to be friends you should try to make it work. even though it may be really hard at first it will turn out for the best in the long run because if you dint be his friend now he might not want to be your friend later. Telling him how you feel might help to. Although guys dont show there feelings correctly sometimes I suspect that he cares about you enough to listen to and apprecieate what you have to say! Good Luck!!!!
2006-11-27 13:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't set a boundary you can't keep because he gets the message that you don't mean what you say. If you want to talk to him, then talk to him. If you want time away and it's best for you, then NO contact! I know it is hard, but develop some friendships independent of him where you get what you want and need- like, companionship, intimacy, fun, etc. You will gain clarity and self-respect if you can just do what you mean and not what you "think" you should do.
2006-11-27 13:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by soberlunatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im wit manny w get a vibrator or use yr phone 'set it to vibrate n finish yrslf off' [quote from Ali G : In da Haus]
2006-11-27 14:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah make yourself not talk to him it'll be hard but you have to be strong
2006-11-27 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lonely. Get a vibrator.
2006-11-27 13:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋