Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

usually from childhood i have brought in a environment of family girls. i was the only boy used to play with girls . when i become younger things started changing when i used to talk nicely to all . sudenly so many enemies created out of simple conversations. then i stopped talking frankly to many. even few cases were there. i thought things will go easy. i had very serious problem . some are started pretending talking nicely infront of their husbands and family persons to create misunderstand between my wife. and she is innocent developed suspicious mentality. then i fuly stopped to talking to all sudenly. this caused my life to fall in mental collapse. this is affecting my career and money prospects. even my close friends started rumours by linking to sincere persons . without doing any mistakes i have fallen my image down.now i decided to talk in natural way to all . let the things happen . please guide me how to handle situations mixing with all family persons without tension?

2006-11-09 05:04:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I finally went out with my first love when I was 17. We dated for 2 months and then I broke up with him because he seemed to have lost interest in me. Now I am married to another man. We have a child together. We have been together for five years, married for three years. However, he treats me like **** sometimes and he drinks alot. Not to mention he doesn't work due to so-called "panic attacks" and is on disability and he hardly helps me around the house. We are always broke. My ex has come in and out of my life several times in the past five years. Once I even cheated on my husband (before we were married) with him once. Just recently after 2 years of no contact he calls me out of the blue. My husband says I need to cut off all contact with him in order to make things work. I decided to do this. I have not talked to my ex in a week and I still can't get him out of my head. Even when my husband and I have sex I think about him. I don't want to feel this way! Help!!

2006-11-09 05:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by Torturedsoul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 05:03:49 · 4 answers · asked by Roxanne J 1 in Family

I belive "There's no point in just grown up by parents.. playing.. studying.. earning.. only taking care of family.. wedding.. bringing up kids.. then die oneday.." what's the big deal? Just a normal human life.. Can't we do big things in life.. other than just..

2006-11-09 05:02:51 · 16 answers · asked by littlehearts13 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Members of the homosexual community are determine to spread and grow their perverted politics, philosophies, and belief system. I have found them to be aggressive, disrespective, and preditory.

2006-11-09 05:02:41 · 8 answers · asked by Billy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The saturday after Thanksgiving, we are going down to Alabama to attend my boyfriends' cousin's wedding. It's 4:00pm in her mother's backyard garden. I have no idea what to wear to this. I was thinking of a deep red dress with a black sash around the middle but would that work? What are some colors to consider?

2006-11-09 05:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by angel_babe323 1 in Weddings

I found a receipt for diamond earrings. I found out he is having lunch with her almost daily. She went on vacation with us and they left me in a motel room and they went bar hopping. I had to drive the truck to the beach and her and him rode the motorcycle down and back. We went to the movies and he sat and through popcorn in her mouth like teenager right in front of me and another couple . No matter where we go she has to come along. If I say anything I am crazy. Am I crazy? What should I do?

2006-11-09 05:01:12 · 27 answers · asked by springer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

O.k my boyfirend of 2 years broke up with me yesterday...and the thing is that i love him but i was talking to this guy at school (an adult achool) which i really like. there just both different in many ways..so now i don't know whether to be sad because of the brake up or happy because this other guy wants me to be his girl!
what the hell should i do..i really miss my boyfirend!!
now let me mention that i've only known this other guy for 4 months..but the way he make me feel and laugh when were together..i love it!

2006-11-09 05:00:55 · 12 answers · asked by Precious M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy but he is 16 years older then me. but really truely love him. and a lot of people tell me that he's to old but i dont really care becouse i love him. now i dont know what to do. should i have a relationship with him or should i not.

2006-11-09 05:00:32 · 33 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not real adept at all this relationship stuff, but I absolutely adore my gf. She's been sorta distant lately (and, yes, we've talked about it). It seems like she's waiting for something from me, though, like I have the key to bringing her back and that she's hoping I will. Anybody else ever had anything like this? Tips or advice?

2006-11-09 04:59:47 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

First of all, let me make known that I would never cheat on my husband.

Trojan sent me a condom free sample, and it's sitting on my coffee table. When I start thinking about it, I think to myself that I could get away with cheating. But the idea of another man touching me like literally turns my stomach. But still the damed thing is like...I don't know, that I could get away with cheating, and I begin to think who would use it and I get all gross feeling and nautious (not excited). Could this be me longing for my free and single days again? Missing the "thrill of the hunt" and just being free having a good time? I am young, I'm only 24. Please help.

2006-11-09 04:59:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. The thing is there is this guy at my school that I like a lot but I’m nervous about asking him out. I kind of wanted him to ask me but my friend said he wouldn’t because he is so shy (which is very true, but so am I) and that I should ask him. I don’t know if he would say yes. And if he said no, that situation is always weird and I would have to sit by him in so many classes which would be very awkward. I really like this guy and I keep hinting that I do but I don’t know if he is picking that up or not. I told my mother and she said I should give him the opportunity to ask me to the Christmas dance next month instead of me asking him. What should I do?

2006-11-09 04:59:13 · 19 answers · asked by Emma G 1 in Singles & Dating

how do senstive people create happiness in relationships..if they take every movement personally - how can they or the other person be free in any way?

Are you with a senstive person? Do you have space for that? Does it work for you? What is the upside? What is the downside?


(I have played both parts!)

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2006-11-09 04:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

For the past five years I had been with the same boyfriend, and the relationship was extremely rocky and very unhealthy. After him moving and everything moving on, I started dating the guy I now love and worked with for two years, who liked me the entire time, and was my best friend. Even with problems with the last bf, he was there for me and never made a move on me. So now we're together and just moved into our own apartment and I know how picky he is and how he couldn't live with just anyone. Summer is going to roll around again and I want to go back to school, so does he. Prob is, when I was 16 and with the horrible bf I ended up not finishing high school, and now I want to finish so bad and go to college and get a degree. He doesn't know I didn't finish, as far as he thinks, I have. I want to take my ged without him knowing so I can go to college. I'm afraid he would be dissapointed in me and might not feel the same if he knew. I just turned 21 what should I do? I want to make

2006-11-09 04:58:36 · 19 answers · asked by Liquid Cherry Blood 1 in Singles & Dating

'Marriage is complete only if solemonised.

2006-11-09 04:58:09 · 2 answers · asked by Subal Ranjan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you want from a girl, what interest you?

2006-11-09 04:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am operated for appendicitis and it was in need to remove my appendix since then i feel anxious about my tummy because it was so big looking like a 2 months pregnant i hate it speciallyy when i revieced a not so good complments from others sayin that im like a preggy women,it was my long time problem bcoz i really wanted to be sexy. this was the only problem i have in my body help me pls,,,

2006-11-09 04:56:29 · 10 answers · asked by astrid23 1 in Singles & Dating

(confused?? I am!)Since he left me, we stayed in touch. I've never asked him to come back or even told him that I am still so much in-love with him. I think it's obvious anyway to say it. Anyway, we are friends with benefits. But it's all up to me when I want him over. I made it clear to him that he better be honest with me when he starts dating/sleeping with other women, becauseI wouldn't want any part of him! For some reason this is helping me ease the pain and I figured since he still my husband and I don't sleep around (he's also my first) I can deal with it. It is clear to me that this does not mean getting back together. But for some reason, I get a feeling that he might be interested again. Just too proud to say anything. I know he checks me out when we're togheter and he has not declined any of my invitations. I've gotten him to stay over (entire weekend), had breakfast, gone to the movies, shop and dinner. Could he be re-thinking about us? or is it just purely "sex"?

2006-11-09 04:56:24 · 26 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and by beloved were havin a session the other night when he asked me to whack his bonobo. what is the correct way to whack a bonobo as i think i may have done it wrong.

2006-11-09 04:56:23 · 13 answers · asked by kates_bush 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has had feelings for me ever since we met. We've been really good friends for the past year and I always thought it was kinda annoying that he had a little crush and I told him that I wasn't that physically attracted to him. Lately though we've been spending all of our time together ane I think I'm emotionally attracted to him. I know I love him and we've recenty made out a few times but I've always stopped him. I just don't know what to do.

2006-11-09 04:56:20 · 5 answers · asked by Stef 2 in Friends

The other boy im talking to it is really compliacted with us... he just got out of a 4 year relationship about 8 monthes ago, and we started talking about 3 monthes after him and his gf of 4 years broke up.... no one knows about our relationship except a couple people. he is not ready to tell anyone bc hes my brothers friend and my best friends brother and he feels bad bc we ve known each other forever and hes the "good kid" and doesnt' want ppl to think bad about him but weve been together for about 6 monthes now and he still doesnt give me straight answers about wat he wants. So now my ex of 2 years came back into my life and wants me back and our relationship was rocky but i always loved him and cared about him and he says hes changed. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! leave the boy im a secret with or go back to my ex. what should i do

2006-11-09 04:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by holly 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend of four years left me because she wants to be single. weve been together since highscool, and now that she is 21 she said she wants to know what its like to be on her own. she doesnt want contact. how long am i supposed to wait to talk to her? or just wait for her to contact me. i really love her, and she said her feelings haven't changed she just has this anxiety. im very sad and am not sure what to do. how can i help her deal with the anxiety and at the same time bring her back?

2006-11-09 04:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by zmvncbsk 1 in Singles & Dating

Married women are you the one who start touching and kissing your hubby before making love or you wait for him .What is he is tired and or he is not in a mood.

2006-11-09 04:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this gurl at my school who likes me but is always playin games. she's alright what should i do drop it and backoff or just go along with it

2006-11-09 04:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by BOOTZ 4 in Singles & Dating

I am finally happy where we r. we have a nice house liive in a nice area great schools for the kids, and he wants it all thrown away to move! I put my foot down and told him I am not leaving if he wants to move he's on his own! Not sure if he is convinced or not! I really dont want to throw our marriage down the drain, but I really cant move anymore! Our kids r happy and doin great in school, and they have a lot of friends! What would u do? Am I right for standing my ground? He's truly a great guy, but I am not moving anywhere! I would think if he loves his family enuf he'd decide not to move and do whats right! Ugh I am just not sure what to do! Tired of argueing about it! If he wants to go then go more power to him! But he will do it alone! Oh and the kids already said they dont want to move either, ages 3, 5, & 7. So am I right on this one let him go by himself if he wants to go?

2006-11-09 04:52:51 · 18 answers · asked by woohooo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys really go for romance or what? I can remember "back in the day" little memories of us..Is it all worth the tourcher..or by now has it all just burned out and I am holding on to it?

2006-11-09 04:51:28 · 12 answers · asked by giveu2tictacs 5 in Marriage & Divorce

want some company or a chat?

2006-11-09 04:51:23 · 18 answers · asked by little sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just moved from one state to other. I have been paying child support for the last 4 years and have always been on top of it. Now I am living in other state, and the area I live in is very cheap. I went from making 28,000 a year to 19,000 a year. My question is now who do I talk to about adjusting the payments? Do I contact the child support office in the state that I now live in? or the state that my son is in? Its very hard to understand who and how to start this..

Thanks

2006-11-09 04:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by babyboyfox78 1 in Family

2006-11-09 04:49:58 · 34 answers · asked by DEZ 2 in Friends

What? Do you really need elaboration on this?

2006-11-09 04:49:53 · 1 answers · asked by elliott 4 in Singles & Dating