First of all, let me make known that I would never cheat on my husband.
Trojan sent me a condom free sample, and it's sitting on my coffee table. When I start thinking about it, I think to myself that I could get away with cheating. But the idea of another man touching me like literally turns my stomach. But still the damed thing is like...I don't know, that I could get away with cheating, and I begin to think who would use it and I get all gross feeling and nautious (not excited). Could this be me longing for my free and single days again? Missing the "thrill of the hunt" and just being free having a good time? I am young, I'm only 24. Please help.
2006-11-09 04:59:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it to a single friend and fantasize about that! lol No, joking! For real though, give it away. You are young for marriage maybe it's a natural instinct working it's way through. I've never been in that situation. I would just get rid of the source that invokes these feelings and thoughts if I were you.
2006-11-09 05:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone woman "thinks" about being with another man at some point, not because they don't love their husband or partner but because deep down it just brings excitement around, you know the "unknown". I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, but like you, cheating on my man makes my stomach turn because I love him. The fact that it turns your stomach is a good thing, it means that you love him and only care about him. To me, it sounds like you need to spice up the bedroom life, you are young and didn't indicate how long you have been married, so to say the least, you may be bored. My advice, use the condom with your HUSBAND. Do a role play with him, pretend to be two strangers and that's where the condom comes into play. Don't fret about it, you're not alone!
2006-11-09 13:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe I am 24 and I get the free samples to so I think you just have to much time on your hands, maybe you and your husband need to try new things exsperiment with each other.. You just need some excitement and you can get that from your spouse let him know what you want and how you want it and its sure to be a thrill ride
2006-11-09 13:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is are you HAPPY with your relationship? Next is everything becoming routinenary? If your answer to the 1st question is yes.. then live with it, now if your answer is no... then we go to the next question.. that means you are bored, din't came out the way you expected things... life is like that, live with it!!! now if you want a solution to your problem... there is always a vacation.. try to contemplate on the idea of are you willing to let go of all things you both went thru or is there more to life that you can achieve more than what you have right now... only you can answer that problem... so good luck and just enjoy life as it is...
2006-11-09 13:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by CAPOCEANS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have not cheated yet but you are on your way too because just by reading what you wrote make me want to say hello. Really it isn't really worth it. Then again you say it make you sick to think about another man touching you or is it the thought of a man really touching you like you haven't been touch and to kiss you from head to toe and with a rubber you wouldn't have to worry about S,T,D and when your husband get home he wouldn't even know anything sounds like fun YUMMIE
2006-11-09 13:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with some girlfriends to a club and dance with some guys. I'm sure after that you won't miss the thrill having attention of other guys.
2006-11-09 13:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pay attention to that feeling of nausea. Do you get the same feeling when you walk past condoms in the drugstore?
2006-11-09 13:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being free and single in today's world is not so much fun. Dating is hard and diseases are rampant. Fantasize if you must but if you love your spouse, stay married. Marriage is special..
2006-11-09 13:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. If it makes you feel sick to think about cheating, then why would that make you long for your single days?
2006-11-09 13:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you nip the thought in the bud,I wouldn't be concerned.If it's a recurring thought,then maybe you need to talk to a professional.
2006-11-11 13:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋