Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I was asked who do I live with at one interview, though I did live with my mother when this picture was taken and my dad, it was at a family wedding in 1984, that's why I look like someone who lives with his mother there like someone said when answering my last question, I live by myself now, I don't live with mom anymore, though I did for a while when Dad died.

2006-11-09 04:49:46 · 21 answers · asked by ucanseethejoin 2 in Family

Everywhere I go , all there is are fat women. What a turn off. I like only thin women, colored, white or rican. Are there any clubs in NYC where they turn away the fat chicks? I'd be willing to pay extra cover to get in.

Its okay if they have tatoos, but it shouldn't say tyroonne or jesus.

2006-11-09 04:49:30 · 20 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend who I have known since the start of high school. We have always just been friends but now I feel that my feelings for her has risen to a leve where I can't stop thinking about her. I know i could tell any girl that i find her attractive in any normal situation. However, with my friend, she has a boyfriend that is in college and also one of her good friends likes me. This is on my mind so much, I think it is causing me stress.

The situation in high schol is always you've had it, you don't want it, or you can't get it. Should I wait till she is single or tell her now so i can relieve my feelings? Would it solve my problems if we just became really close friends?

2006-11-09 04:49:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the womens rights when in a divorce situation in the first year my friend was told by her ex that she was not allowed to see anyone else until after one year, there is property involved no children. and her ex says she has to keep in communication cause of the property she feels like he is controlling her cause he stilil calls and gets mad at her if she does not answer grrrr any answers

2006-11-09 04:49:08 · 1 answers · asked by David R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got of a bad relationship with this guy i really was in love with....now that we broke up i really dont have anybody to help get my mind off of my ex......a couple of weks ago i met a guy on the internet he is really cool and helps get my mind off my ex....should i talk to him? I knw the dangers of this..... thats why i need help

2006-11-09 04:48:57 · 4 answers · asked by Ready4Luv 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old, been dating a girl for two months and she is a month pregnant with my child, and ever since it happend we have been fighting non stop.Our relationship ended recently after a fight, I dont know if its for good, and i dont know what to do in the situation i am in. can someone please help me?

2006-11-09 04:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it against the law to navel rape someone and what exactly is navel rape?

2006-11-09 04:48:25 · 11 answers · asked by heyhey 1 in Singles & Dating

We got in a fight this weekend. and usually the one who needs sex the most gives in first and apologizes. I was using my vibe so I wouldn't give in. And now he's hid it!! How can I get him back!

2006-11-09 04:48:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you say, when a couple that has been married for 5 years. The wife had an abortion behind her husbands back after their 1rst child. The husband found out months later when she was pregnant with their 2nd child by the doctor that she had an abortion just few months back. (He had NO IDEA). The husband found again she had a 2nd abortion after their 3rd child was born, by accidentally. He blasted at her, so she left and moved in with her parents…. DO YOU THINK SHE CHEATED on her husband, that’s why she hid both times she had abortions?? Or what can it be???

2006-11-09 04:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been paying child support on my daughter for 12 years and have never been behind. I have decided to go back to school and have recently changed jobs and lost HALF of my hourly pay by doing so. The agency told me that it would be 90 days before I could get my order reduced (which I have no problem with). My question is, that if I get a second part time job until next spring to earn some extra money, will they take a percentage of those wages and how much of a percentage? At most I will probably only be working about 20 hours a week at the part time job and not making more than probably 8 bucks an hour.

2006-11-09 04:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by dooder 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel the cold hard blues sumtimes cause i feel like i got no identity. I mean, i'm rich cause of my dad and dont have to worry about stupid bills BUT I GET LONELY DUDE! LOL! I MEAN, I'M KINDA YOUNG TO HAVE A GF AND GUY FRIENDS DONT LIKE ME...I DREAM OF LIVING ON HARD TIMES TO SEE THE OTHER SIDE. I WANNA KNOW HOW IT IS TO HAVE THE ELECTRICITY CUT OFF...AND HOW IT IS TO LIVE OFF WELFARE...MIGHT TOUGHEN ME UP, RIGHT?

2006-11-09 04:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by whenrainbowscry 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean what do guys look for a women ?or in short what is your ideal women?what do u consider most in choosing a partner?
too many questions right?i hope you can help me figure it out,,thank you

2006-11-09 04:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by astrid23 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok normally i call my boyfriend everyday. Today I resolved not to call him because 1 I don't have anything to talk about and 2 I"m going to be seeing him tomorrow and I will probably call him the morning to firm up details and 3 to give him a little space. Is it a good idea to not call him till tomorrow?

2006-11-09 04:45:52 · 5 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 11 years.I have always had doubts about my marriage My mom pushed me on him. We married when I got pregnant. I didn't love him. I told myself I would make the best of it. I have developed feelings for him,but we've never had things in common or a connection. He has been distant, cold, selfish, and occasionally abusive, both physically and verbally.I told myself that this was a normal. Everyone has problems but last year when he shoved me and I got a concussion a light went off and I knew this was wrong. the abuse hasn't been constant, but about once a year it does get violent, he snaps quickly and breaks things alot I've begged him for 3 years to work on our marriage but he just ignored me. I was not a priority for him. 6 mths ago I met a guy from my past. I love him. Hubby found out and now decides he wants to treat me right and work on us. I say too late. he's had many chances. but he won't let go. he wants a chance to redeem himself.We have 2 kids,4 and 11.help!

2006-11-09 04:44:00 · 23 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love someone who i have never met before, and never seen, i dont know , what the hell is going on

2006-11-09 04:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by turafgrais 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We met each other about a month ago and we really like each other a lot but my parents don't like the fact that he's so much older then me. So I guess my question is what other peoples opinions are on the whole age factor in relationships.

2006-11-09 04:40:44 · 60 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you have a friend with benefits except for sex?

2006-11-09 04:40:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my brother and his girlfriend live with me and my boyfriend...anyways my younger brother came and stayed for the week the second night he was here my (older) brothers girlfriend the one that lives with us was flirting and showing off her boobs to my younger brother what should i do??? should i kick her out tell my older brother or what??? by the way im 21 my older brother is 23 his girlfriend is 18 and my young brother is 20

2006-11-09 04:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 04:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I meet my wife in college .When we started dating things seems gravy until her parents found out about us. Their reaction was not to serve me in there Togo’s Eatery in Santa Rosa Ca also wasn’t allowed in their home for almost 6 months. We tried staying positive and combat their views with love and expectance. I would eventually be tolerated inside the home I would cook for the holidays only to be ignored at the dinner table. After 4 years. Me and my partner were engaged this brought out a lot of heat. Later an argument would blow out between me and my fiancée and her parents the comments were spitted out such as” you must think twice before marrying a black man” “If you 2 have kids adopt white kids” They had a personal right in practicing racial discrimination and that their daughter is a disappointment. Any how we left got married they weren’t their we bought our home with are good jobs and had our baby. That’s when the phone calls came in from all of our family members. Things are different with my wifes parents but I don’t trust them I don’t want to call them family nor in-laws. But they at least love our child. It’s ironic for many years I hope tried to establish relationship where I could one day be called a son in stead of a black man. Now we are invited to spend part of out thanksgiving with my wife parents and sons grandparents that he only meet 6 times in the four months that he’s been in the world. My wife is willing go but only if I want to go and I don’t. But in saying I don’t that makes me selfish because she wants to be around her family again. Yet I don’t want to go to a home were I have to be tolerated I want to be welcomed and loved. What do I do?

2006-11-09 04:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dennis m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 yrs. Since I was 21yrs old and I am now 35yrs. old and I feel that I am ready to be alone. Not in a relationship. I have not traveled, or did any of the things I feel that I am missing. I want to start my own book and just be able to come and go without hestitation and no questions asked. I feel that I just want to be free. But don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is 48 yrs old and he is a wonderful man. He has spoiled me and comfront me in more ways then one. I hate to break his heart but I feel this is something I have to do for myself. What would you do?

2006-11-09 04:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by ressie re 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a wallpaper that when painted, it looks almost exactly like stucco. I am painting it using a colorwashing technique. Since it looks like stucco, would it be cosmetically appealing if I used wayne's coating with it also?
The waynes coating is dark wood, trimming around doors, etc., is dark wood, and stucco-looking-wallpaper is a light tan on off white (very pretty by the way...). Would this be okay to put into a living room with pink carpet? Any thoughts?

2006-11-09 04:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Family

If your wife or girlfriend couldn't work a job but did everything around the house and indulged every sexual whim you had, would you resent her not working a job?

2006-11-09 04:36:57 · 26 answers · asked by libra10 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've naver gotten oral sex before, but i've guys telling me they want to do it and am thinking about doing it.

But i have a problem I ask my friend who said she had it done to her and it was terrable.

Guys i'm still thinking about getting it dont i just need some advice, like should i get my vagina shave, what do i do when it is been done to me, how does it feel.

Guys please help me!!!!

2006-11-09 04:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by WD 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom cheated on my dad and after my first love, i cheated on every boyfriend i had until now. i have been married almost a year and it hasnt been hard NOT to cheat. but now... its not that i desparately need to sleep with someone else, i just cant get it out of my head. please help! any advice, insight... whatever you can give me!

2006-11-09 04:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work in and office with majority older ladies so, 2 ladies were in the break room grinding coffee. So another lady asked my coworker where they are and she said "they are grinding in the coffee room" That shitt made me laugh my asss off im still laughing. The funny part is it was inocent and only those that understand are still laughing about it. Too funny had to tell you guys. My ? is have you heard someone older say somthing funny unintentional?

P.S I have a dirty mind HA!

2006-11-09 04:34:35 · 3 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

Have you had the "look" where someone stares you in the eyes for longer than they should? What does it mean mean? And what happened with yourself and the man/woman?

2006-11-09 04:33:49 · 22 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Singles & Dating

IS a Lady doing any wrong in being attrackted to one of her family members(lets say Cousin) and dating him then have sex with him? She has wants also!

2006-11-09 04:33:48 · 19 answers · asked by BABY BOY 1 in Singles & Dating

My faithful, horny girlfriend?
My girlfriend has confided that she wants a black male stripper for her birthday. She said that if I got her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. She said that she has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She stresses that I would be the only one who benefits from her being turned on--she would attack me shortly after the strippers performance. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch his big package if I agree. If not, she would just look. Should she get it out of her system? She IS a faithful woman and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 25 this year and would like to do one crazy thing before we marry. I have had much more sexual experience than her and she thinks this would even the playing field, so that she has no regrets when she settles down. Rather than sneak around, she wants my blessing. Should I give her a dark fantasy night?

2006-11-09 04:32:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hope these people are not serious about what they say!
Everyone seems really angry all the time, don't you think?

2006-11-09 04:31:51 · 36 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships