Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

My boyfriend says he wants to toss my salad, what does that mean and should i do it?

2006-11-09 00:43:49 · 20 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 00:43:45 · 14 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dear Everyone,

I have been in a online LDR for about two months now. just the past couple of weeks, things have been really confusing. It seems as if we both have soo much on our plates. There was a moment, when i really felt like speaking with him, and I kept calling him over and over, till he called back (he mentioned that he is busy and would call back in a few) the few minutes turned out being 13 hrs later. I got really frustrated, coz he always, doesnt have the courtesy to return phone calls on time. I wrote him an email, and said that I am just confused on how things are, and if he is just ignoring me or something, do let me know. He called back hurt, and we made up --- since then, we had plans to meet on a certain day, I had to cancel coz my daughters recital was gonna happen(we both got children). he took that offensive, and i was joking around that when we speak during the odd hours of the night, i sometimes am half asleep, he took that offensive, he is thinking i have became distant, which is not true…we both just need assurance that things will work out and these are just confusions…….PLEASE EVERYONE HELP ME… I wrote him an email explaining how much he means to me. I just feel soo overwhelmed, at the moment, coz of my parents interfering in my life, and the daily stress of seeing them. I sent him a text message one night, that “I miss speaking with him, love him, and worry for him because he is going through a difficult time”. And he returned my call around 3:45am, we spoke, I did question him, that is he wanting to quit speaking, because their was lots of awkwardness, and he got upset, and asked “is this what I am wanting?” I said NO!!. and ever since, we both have been a little distant.
I sent him an email yesterday, explaining how I felt of him, and explained how these couple of weeks been tough on me. Last night, he called me around 3am and we spoke, it was the first time ever, the he mentioned how his past marriage failed, which we both never opened this topic, but he still says that he is not going to call me in the middle of the nights He has been calling me in the middle of the night, but, then apologizes that he has called this late. As I said before it was the first time, he discussed about his past marriage too. He mentioned that he thinks, I am a bit confused, and we should take a step back (meaning, he will only call during 9am-9pm) and no longer later. He doesn’t say “I love you” anymore. I don’t want to lose him, but what is going through his mind? Is this a bad sign??, I don’t understand, that he says that he is not going to call me in the middle of the nights, but still does so….which I want him to continue? But, I don’t want to break things off with him, he is the best thing that has happened to me.

2006-11-09 00:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 00:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by dirkthesmirk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 00:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by darthvader825 1 in Singles & Dating

he is always with them, not talking to me im sick of it and he doesnt listen to me when i tell him. everytime i see him he is with a girl everyone says he is flirting with it just seems so obvious to me and he cheated on me so i feel like he is doing it again please help me its driving me crazy

2006-11-09 00:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by my baby girl is here :) 1 in Singles & Dating

what if your dad i s abuseing u and you told a teacher and a social worker came to your house but you deni it becase your afraid.

2006-11-09 00:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 20y 11m old and she's 23y 11m. I m a employed where she is also working.

2006-11-09 00:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by rickykool 1 in Singles & Dating

After 6 mos, she told me she needed some time for herself which I have given her, but the other night I couldn't take it and cracked. I sent her a text just totally spilling my guts, enought that she stayed home from work that day. She came over tonight. Things felt ambiguous when she left. How long would you wait to ask what I can expect as far as we go? Should I even ask or just see how things unfold?

2006-11-09 00:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

well im just gonna tell yall a little about our relationship. we have been together for 7 months and some days and he has always told me that he wants me to have his kids which basically means in my situation that he wants to marry me because he knows that i dont want to have kids until im married. well i was just doin some snooping around oneday and found all of these messages from another woman and him telling her he doesnt know why they cant get together and on his myspace i found him writing messages to gurls asking them to be his **** buddy and i was so upset when i found out because i dont know if im just a side line chick that hes feeding bull **** to or what but the thing i dont get is i have met his family and they know about me so.................anywayz i confronted him about it and he flipped it and tried to put the lying on me, he thinks i lied to him about what skool i go to, by the way i go to st francis university and he thinks that i go to the high skool so can u help

2006-11-09 00:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by gurl_balla14 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 00:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 15 and work hard at my work (home schooled from accident).
i fancy this guy in my class and he is really shy and i know that u dont say anything if u like sum1 incase it spreads and whatever.anyways,my friend/his friend asked him casually did he like me and he didnt answer and i really really like him and would love a chance with him,hes never had a gf b4,u think id av a gd chance? hes the shy type,and when we were talking, in a group of friends he kept looking up at me and i was looking at him and we quickly looked away,is that a sign?shud i get my friend to ask again or what?

2006-11-09 00:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

My close mate told me 4 months ago that he couldn’t get into a serious r’ship because he hadn’t got over his ex. He said every time he heard from her by email it depressed him. He hadn’t seen her since last Xmas. I told him he needs to move on and he agreed with me. He’s been trying to avoid all contact with her. In between the 4 months ago and now we had good times together.
Now last wk I told him I wanted to take things further between us and he said he only sees me as a m8. We chatted for 40 mins and he only mentioned his ex once because he wasn’t over her. Towards the end of the call I ask if there was a chance he and his ex would get back together and he said there is a slight possibility. He didn’t bring this subject up himself at all. I asked if he was still in touch with her, he said only now and again.
My question is, is he making up the fact that he might be getting back with his ex to make me back off? because he didn’t tell me this right from the beginning of the call.

2006-11-09 00:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by Peter W 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to see my inlaws recently, and they have really upset me. everytime i try to speak to them they totally ignored me. didnt even look at me let alone talk. they got along with my husband great (suppose they will as he is family). when they asked question about me, whether i can cook , they wouldnt say it to me directly, they would ask my husband instead, even though am sitting right next to them. i was being so polite, putting a smile on face thru out the visit. i didnt get any support from my husband while i was with them. he could have said "well,, why dont you ask her the question" etc.when i told my husband everything, he kept sticking up for his family. he doesnt care the fact i was hurt. and always says, you either ignore what happened to take it personally. its easier said than done. especially when i never ever got treated like that.he know i dont like his family. he see's them every weekend for good few hours whic i dont mind. we always have argumets cuz of them.

2006-11-09 00:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Rosy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 00:38:03 · 2 answers · asked by Virginia Gal 3 in Weddings

I strongly believe that you are under the influence that I am obsessed, very devious. I am writing this to clarify the misunderstanding that you have of me. That night on Friday I was stupid and confused upset that my Nan was ill and had to go away. I wanted to see you that day and you were busy I was selfish but no way did I mean id go away and not contact you. Look how long it has been now and your still living in me would it ever be possible that I’d go away and not call you.Then I acted in haste and went to see you at your house. I am not a psycho or a plotter, it wasn’t like I investigated you or anything please do not think that. I came to see you because I wanted to see you. You not your family. No way did I go to speak to them. I had in my head that if anyone other then you answered I’d say I was looking for directions. Would never have mentioned you. You being the first ever man in my life I lost control of me. I am a girl with high standards,You being the first ever man in m

2006-11-09 00:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got a new boyfriend and IM SO SICK OF HIM!!!!!!!! I want to end our relationship ASAP. But I dont know how to go about doing so....ANY SUGGESTIONS?

2006-11-09 00:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by britt 1 in Singles & Dating

does he like me if he stared right into my eyes and i stared in his and then he smiled and then i smiled and then sumthing happened that was funny so he looked away to see wut was going on and then he started laughing and then he looked bak and smiled again ns i smiled bak...do u think he likes me??

2006-11-09 00:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to his friend about hucking up n i relly wanna HELP

2006-11-09 00:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by short_n_sweet_n_luv_2_kiss 1 in Singles & Dating

Luke's wife bought a new line of expensive cosmetics guaranteed to make her look years younger. After a lengthy sitting before the mirror applying the "miracle" products she asked, "Darling, honestly what age would you say I am?" Looking over her carefully, Luke replied, "Judging from your skin, twenty; your hair, eighteen; and your figure, twenty-five."

"Oh, you flatterer!" she gushed.

"Hey, wait a minute!" Luke interrupted. "I haven't added them up yet."

2006-11-09 00:34:58 · 11 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do they cheat?

2006-11-09 00:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by shorti241 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 00:33:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that if you're in the market for a mate that you would want to dress and look the part. Most of the time when we see people who fancy themselves up, it's strictly for the admiration of others. Are we all so susceptible to the attention of others that we will go to great lengths to get it. Although I will argue that if you choose to look or dress in a "certain fashion" you lose the right to complain when people do pay you what you consider to be unwelcomed attention.

2006-11-09 00:33:05 · 3 answers · asked by Jeremy 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok....three months ago, I moved in my internet boyfriend of over a year.

He says he loves me...all that stuff. Yet, he never wants to be intimate....despite the fact that he likes to view p*rn and chat with women about s*x online.

On the upside, he does work really hard and is thoughtful in other ways.

Basically, though....I just feel sorry for him....cause I know he has nowhere else to go...and other than his parents....no one who really cares much about him.

What to do?

2006-11-09 00:32:25 · 21 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

when u know they are in the wrong they will always argue with you so it always look that they are right

2006-11-09 00:32:03 · 13 answers · asked by briteeyessam 1 in Family

my husdand has left. but i find myself missing him so much. i knwo he has another woman.My friend say he has a spell on him because she cannot belive he just leave like that. she say he was so in love with me she was jellous of that so what can i do to get him back, do i just wait, visit him at our shop.

2006-11-09 00:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by pauline s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you having a good day? What are your plans for the day?

2006-11-09 00:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been having sex with my BEST guy friend for 7 yrs even if each of us is in other relationships. Lately we've been seeing eachother every weekend. The sex is great, and everything else as well. But we never talk about "us". He never says what he feels for me nor do I. We don't hook up just for sex, we hook up because we have a good time together. But I'm confused, I'd really like to know if he has feelings for me, but I won't take the risk of asking him or talking about my feelings because I don't want to loose him. I'm stuck. Any advice?

2006-11-09 00:29:06 · 19 answers · asked by linda27 2 in Singles & Dating

From my childhood to now, I have suffered mental attacks from my parents. If I did any wrong even if it was simple I was beaten badly. I was always called names, slangs and many other which made me sometimes think to rather die than to live. I hate my paremts most in the world. My parents never gave me much support in my life, I am like a prisoner to them. If I got a B in my exam she shout at me. My parents don't seem to care about me much, they r like worse than animals who don't understamd about their own son.
I hate my life, plz someone tell me what do, how can i free myself

2006-11-09 00:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by erfan912 1 in Family

Mine was 4 years

18-22

Whats yours ???

2006-11-09 00:28:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating