what if your dad i s abuseing u and you told a teacher and a social worker came to your house but you deni it becase your afraid.
2006-11-09 00:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should then seek out the social worker outside of your house. Get with the teacher and set up to meet with the social worker on your own and explain the problems.
2006-11-09 00:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to go back to your teacher that you had talked to and tell the teacher that you are afraid to let any one know. Maybe you should ask the teacher to call the social worker again and then the teacher, social worker, and you can sit down together at school to talk about the abuse. You will be afraid and scared. A lot of things will go through you mind wondering what will happen to you, but you do need to tell. No one deserves to be abused in any way. You will be safer once you do solve the problem. Another way is to take pictures of yourself if your dad is hitting you. There is proof right there. If your mother is involved she will get what comes to her just as your father. Besides talking to your teacher talk to the principal. Let them know you are scared if your father finds out.
2006-11-09 11:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by nbubbyjak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first- you are NOT the first person to deny abuse because you are scared. LOTS of children and teenagers do that too, and the social worker will not be mad at you for denying it at first. If you have her name and number, call her on the phone. If you don't, tell a guidance counselor or teacher at your school that you need to talk to the social worker again.
2006-11-12 18:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, honey that is terrible. i am so sorry u are going through that. think about this for a minute. if your dad is abusing you he is sick and needs help. it is a control thing. contact the social worker and explain how you feel. (the s.w. may already know that you folded out of fear) tell her/him u would like another chance to confront your dad. get all the courage u can muster together, stand tall and proud when the s.w. is there. face your dad and tell him he has been hurting you and your not going to take it anymore. Tell him your his daughter and u deserve to be treated better. You took the first step by asking for help. now it is his turn.
try not to cry, and do not be ashamed. this is his fault. and you need to make sure that he gets the message that the abuse is over, or else.
2006-11-09 10:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kim N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your teacher again at school or a counsler at your school and tell them that you are very afraid that you will be harmed if they come to your house. You need help really bad and you don't want your father to get mad at you for telling. But you need to say something. Don't just keep taking it. you are a strong person to speak up. Does your mom know? Do you have any family members like an aunt or uncle you could speak with you would be understanding as well.
2006-11-09 08:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, keep talking to your teacher and social worker, don't be afraid, its not your fault and the abuser should be stopped immediately before he can hurt you or anyone else again. Be strong and be honest.
2006-11-09 10:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it will probably keep happening...next time no one may believe you...if possible, get the phone # for the social worker, and call her. Tell your teacher that you were afraid to talk about it with your dad there and you want to talk to the social worker again to let her know that you were afraid.
2006-11-09 08:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask the social lady to councel you at school.
It's a lot more safer because then you can say everything.
At your house you would deny it because you are more afraid.
2006-11-09 10:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her in, what you think your parents are gonna hit you in front of them. And I hope that you aren't just making this up cause you and your parents can get in a whole bunch of trouble . But if they are abusing you then tell it tell everything leave nothing out.
2006-11-09 17:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get with your school counselor again or if you have a School Resource Officer. Let them know that you are scared. Be sure and do that, because abuse won't stop. Please seek help immediately, you are in my prayers. Have you talked to your mother about it??
2006-11-09 09:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lori C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋