Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

ok so i heard from a friend that my other best friend kissed my ex bf this really hurts me because what if this is really true.I dont anyother information about the situation im praying that its just a rumor because i still have feelings for this person i love him alot and i know that he still does to even though he denies it. I know this because of the he keeps on talking about and how he keeps popping up whenever im around.What should i do , should i believe what i hear or go with my heart.

2006-11-09 01:24:11 · 3 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

we r friends since 2 years! in these 2 years we have become too close. all the day we miss call each other and everynight we chat or call each other and talk for 4-5 hours daily!!!
but she(my frnd) said once tat she doesnot believe in love as its fake and boys always betray girls ;-((( in school one of naughty boy had proposed her when she was in 7th std so she is scared of such things !! so as such she doesnt talk much with guys, but she is my bestfriend i dnt wanna lose her i m confused wat shall i do??

2006-11-09 01:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by Aakash R 1 in Singles & Dating

He is 17, he loves sports and he also loves movies. But i have a problem he told me not to get him anything. Would i be a bad girlfriend if i listen to him and not get him a gift? If i get him a gift What should it be?

2006-11-09 01:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by Rissa 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for 10 months and engaged for 6 and I cheated on him about a month and a half into our relationship! I didnt have any strong feelings for him then so I didnt tell until two days ago!!! He has always told me that if i ever cheat on him, he will leave but when i told him he just cried and said that he love me too much to leave and that he forgave and begged me to never make the same mistake again and ofcourse so being that I do love him very much now I agreed but my question is if he forgave and I gave him my word for this to never happen again, will this still affect our relationship in any way?

2006-11-09 01:22:04 · 30 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 01:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for lost contact, he might still live in Eastbourne, UK.
If anyone knows him/of him please let me know, been trying to get in contact for a few years! Cheers.

2006-11-09 01:21:02 · 2 answers · asked by Norm. Abnorm. So-so. 1 in Friends

oh yeah she played the lets be friends card.....that just leaves you wondering too much.....

2006-11-09 01:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my friends was dating this guy who is 20, and she was 15. They've been dating for a year, and since in my church, sex before marriage is forbidden, I didn't say anythin because I thought she was smarter than that. I found out later when she ran away w/ him that they had been have been sex since September and that our minister knew and didn't tell her parents. Her parents didn't even know she was dating the guy! I thought they knew so I didn't tell them anything. Why state the obvious, but the fact that he was messing with her like that was the last straw. What can be done? Is the minister liable? Can he be arrested? I know the 20 year old can, but I don't know whether the minister can. It had happened before with a 16 year old, but until now we found out that he had known about that too and now I don't know what to think. Aren't ministers supposed to help instead of hurt? I know he was wrong in covering for her but this is too much!

2006-11-09 01:20:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does any one else think so.

2006-11-09 01:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by do you wanna 2 in Singles & Dating

I was walking my date home after we left the movie we were talking and stuff when she said "I am getting wet" I laughed and said "How its not raining" she got mad when I asked her what she was talking about she said just forget it. Now she will not talk to me I really like her What did I do wrong???????

2006-11-09 01:18:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are 4 couples in our group of friends. We have been friends for 15 years or so. One of the women has been having an affair for 18 months with her nephew (her husband's sister's son). Two of the other couples have known for a while. The 4th couple just found out. They are pushing the cheater to tell her husband or they will do it for her. She has stopped the affair 2 months ago, and is genuinely sorry. The couple has 2 children, and finding out will cause a complete destruction of the whole family. I don't think any of us should tell because of the horrible consequences. I don't even think she should ever tell. I know first hand how much pain and suffereing finding out your spouse cheated on you can cause. You never get over it. I am debating as to whether I should tell my friends to back away and let the cheater deal with the situation as she sees fit. Help!

2006-11-09 01:18:35 · 28 answers · asked by FelixtheCat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 01:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by mohammed a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for an hounarable man. I am 30 yrs with one kid.He has to be descent.

2006-11-09 01:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex rang me last night and said something really sweet and my reaction upset him even though i dont see how. I just want him for not to hate me so what do i say?

2006-11-09 01:16:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my partner have been together now for nearly 8 year's met him when i was 18 and he was 33. we now have two children together but i feel like i cant do any thing I'm not aloud 2 go out clubbing I'm now 25 but he goes out with his mates hes now 39 i don't have any friends now because they feel unwelcome where the come round what could i do i understand he works all work and wants to unwind but what about me i have the 2 kida 24/7 which i dont mind but i would also like a night of from cleaning doing house work and looking after kids.do you think im being selfish?

2006-11-09 01:15:27 · 42 answers · asked by pauline_rk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm at the mall scouting for chicks, so these hot babes are walking in and I hold the door for them. Next thing you know they start throwing a fit saying things like "What, you think because I'm a woman I can't hold the door myself" and "Why are you such a pig, we can do this ourselves". Yeah, crazy wenches, they left and some more girls were coming, I let go of the door and they had to open it themselves, then they threw a fit. Saying things like "Why are you such a pig" and "No wonder Chivalry is dead, you can't even be a gentlemen and hold the door open for a ladie".

2006-11-09 01:13:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 21 this guy 25 we had a converstion and he asked me what kind of work i want to do and i said care work why did he want to know that ?

2006-11-09 01:13:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A great friend is getting married soon and I'd like to get something tradition for her engagement and wedding presents. Any ideas? Only suggestion I've found is that money is appropriate wedding present.

2006-11-09 01:11:14 · 4 answers · asked by cturner52000 1 in Weddings

l love this man and i am in love with him and he is in love with me. well i am 16 years old and he is 19 and my mom just now got along with him and i broke the news to her that we did stuff. now my bf looks at me in a diffrent way and he treats me different why is that?

2006-11-09 01:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by sugar 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy, and now we are sharing a place together, he said he is in love with me but he doesn't want a commitment yet cause he feels he can't be faithful at this time. But he is home with me everynight and we sleep in the same bed. Tells me all the time he loves me and when we talk about the kids they are ours not his or mine. Does he really love me and is just afraid and in his mind taking it slow but we are really together. I just don't understand. Should I date?

2006-11-09 01:10:14 · 15 answers · asked by loveit39 1 in Singles & Dating

Some one phoned me to tell me my partner was cheating on me and he loved her,i didn't asnwer his texts or calls because he had done this before, i then let him back in to my life this week and yes went through his phone to find out there is three other females he is texting and seeing he works with one, the other lives in wales and the third the mother of his children they are still married, i know i should of known better to get involved with him but i have asked him more than once about if he is sleeping around or if that is what he wants to do i will not stay with him. well this weekend we are going away and i have not mentioned to him what i know but this time i'm going to leave him some where on the way back which i feel will make me feel a lot better do you feel i'm wrong to dump him in the middle of nowhere

2006-11-09 01:10:07 · 31 answers · asked by angies_angel_eyes2 3 in Singles & Dating

Just split up with my boyfriend of 9 months, promised myself after last 9 year relationship i wouldn't get involved again and promptly fell in love derrrr! I knew deep down that he didnt want the relationship to be serious as he has commitment issues so I ended it Tuesday, why cant i ever find a man who isnt afraid of love!? sorry rant over. :(

2006-11-09 01:08:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

starting rumers about my friends n she wants to kick my *** when me n my friends all no n she does 2 that i can kick hir *** and hir all him fav. thing to do is to kick ppl out of school n off the bus n nothing happens to hir what should we do to get back at hir??

2006-11-09 01:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by short_n_sweet_n_luv_2_kiss 1 in Friends

After a couple of months of silence my boyfriend calls and asks how i'm doing and why i'm not calling or texting anymore. I know he can afford to do the same at least once a while cause he lives abroad but he hasn't done it himself. What would you do, i really love the guy.

2006-11-09 01:08:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-09 01:06:33 · 10 answers · asked by ikea8844 1 in Weddings

i work with this guy i used to date... but i really dont want to see him anymore because he thought i am a psycho for reporting to the cops that my stalker said if im not going to leave the guy i used to date he was going to kill him... now im moving from cali to chicago and make a new start... but i still have to spend 2 weeks at work and i swear i dont want to see him anymore...

2006-11-09 01:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by "sehz" 1 in Singles & Dating

When is actually the best time to tell your kids the uncensored truth as to why their parents divorced especially if it was due to adultery and abuse.Or should I just paint a pretty picture of their dad who was actually a beast to me.

2006-11-09 01:05:26 · 56 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on the toilet, my "boys" fell in the cold water, any remedies, advise?

2006-11-09 01:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can u tell if a guy likes u?cuz i really like this guy at school and i reallt think he likes me cuz like yesterday he kept staring into my eyes and so i did it bak and then he smiled and then i smiled and then sumthing funny happened and then he looked away to see wut happened and then he started laughing and then he looked bak into my eyes and then he smiled and then i smiled...does that mean he likes me?

2006-11-09 01:04:03 · 9 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever i am away , my wife just says me two things
1} daughter is not feeling well or 2} there is some big problem.
and she never sends apart from this any sms on my mobile, then i in work forget everything and start worrying about this,

I Just thought to try this on her,
1} i said her am having a back injury, and not feeling well, she said go to the doctor, as i have to take care of myself and both of them .

I Wanted to tell her, we both have to take care of each others,
BUT IS IT RIGHT WHAT SHE IS SAYING.? is it a universal thing .?
IS IT THAT ONLY HUSBAND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHOLE FAMILY"S CARE AND WHAT DOES WIFE do for this?

2006-11-09 01:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce