After a couple of months of silence my boyfriend calls and asks how i'm doing and why i'm not calling or texting anymore. I know he can afford to do the same at least once a while cause he lives abroad but he hasn't done it himself. What would you do, i really love the guy.
2006-11-09 01:08:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk back to him and let it go but be careful to not get too involved again ,he might leave you suddenly again.
2006-11-09 01:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal. It seems as if i am not the only one with the problem. My BF has done the same, but the only different is that he is in the same country. Hey gal, think back to what he might have said and what ur reationc was becasue for me, he porposed but i am not ready, but we love each other dearly. And when i tld him that i cant promise him any thing then he stop texting. That was his reason. But he texted me now, and thing are cool between us.So i guess you should just think back.. Ok... I would ask him why he stopped sms or calling.
2006-11-09 09:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about this I have just one idea for resolution. Long distance or not 2 months with no contact from either side when contact can be achieved via phone or text spells lack of interest? I could be wrong, however I do not think so.
2006-11-09 09:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kyrah Tribas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why he has not been replying the ones you've been texting him, and why has he not been calling u, hear from him, if he is still interested in u from his statement u will know.
2006-11-09 09:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him why he's been so silent, what he's been doing, etc? He needs to answer these questions so you can determine if he's actually still your boyfriend, painful as that might seem.
2006-11-09 09:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for his long silence and if it he gave you the honest answer, then decide what to do.
2006-11-09 09:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by MUSICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not worth for you. he is just taking you as a toy. let him go and let him feel the pain.
2006-11-09 09:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he still loves you.
2006-11-09 09:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋