l love this man and i am in love with him and he is in love with me. well i am 16 years old and he is 19 and my mom just now got along with him and i broke the news to her that we did stuff. now my bf looks at me in a diffrent way and he treats me different why is that?
2006-11-09 01:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you talk to both of them...find out from your mom what she must have said to him cuz she may have been nosy in his affairs or interrogated/scolded him. Tell her that whatever you tell her, should be btw the both of you and if she keeps leaking secrets, then your lips will be zipped.
Talk to your man and find out why he's treating you funny. If he yells at you, apologise and tell him you didn't mean any harm and that you love him.
Not all guys like their ''in-laws'' to know the jiggy btw them and their gf's so you should know the type of things you tell your parents so that there won't be conflict.
2006-11-09 01:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you were open with your mom. He feels like his personal business is known by others. Makes him uncomfortable. You did a good thing to share with your mom. Now you will find out what he is made of. He is also not supposed to be with you. Because of his age. So, maybe afraid.
2006-11-09 09:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by rrclaeson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man i was in this situtation the other day, I'm sixteen as well as my girlfriend, we did "things" and then she told her parents that she did, well now her dad hates me, but I do not look at her any different, to point is if he loves you he won't care about what others think!
2006-11-09 09:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by worldenvy5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he shouldn't get made at you for telling your mom, you should be able to tll your mom anything and you felt as if you had to tell her so you did, if he don't understand that he may ain't the one for you, I wish I can do that because I am to scared to tell my mom I have had sex, but hopefully one day I will have the courage to tell her, but back to you, he have to understand that he is a lil older than you so your mom want approve of him as a normal boyfriend, but just talk to him hopefully he will understand
2006-11-09 09:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I BET HE WAS LIKING THE FACT YOUR MOM LIKED HIM....NOW U TOLD HER U DID STUFF AND I BET HE'S NOT SO HIGH ON HER LIKING LIST AND UR 16 HE COULD GET INTO TROUBLE FOR DOING STUFF WITH YOU AND @ 16 IT'S NOT LOVE I'M SORRY!
2006-11-09 09:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just took you for a ride. you are still young and you did the taboo thing. not good but people make mistakes, just stop all of this and stuy hard. when you are older than you can have all the enjoyment you want. go to sunday church and pray.
2006-11-09 09:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he already had sex with you, its never the same after sex. they start to get very dominant over you. And well he knows you told your mom sooo ofcourse he is probably embarrased infront of her!
2006-11-09 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he doesn't want your mum to know what you did. He wants to keep things private maybe, and then you told your mum what you did.
2006-11-09 09:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Queenlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared because your jailbate
2006-11-09 09:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by gail w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you weren't around your mother probably threatened him and now he is probably afraid.
2006-11-09 09:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋