i work with this guy i used to date... but i really dont want to see him anymore because he thought i am a psycho for reporting to the cops that my stalker said if im not going to leave the guy i used to date he was going to kill him... now im moving from cali to chicago and make a new start... but i still have to spend 2 weeks at work and i swear i dont want to see him anymore...
2006-11-09 01:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by "sehz" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get company....where ever you go.....never be alone......get protective weapons if possible for self defense.......
2006-11-09 01:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to work with someone u dated and then split up with........I do it everyday. I dated a guy for 2 1/2 years and then we split up and he was not happy about it. I trashed my name to everyone and was very mean and still is. It is a very small place and I have to see him 9 hours a day. You only have 2 weeks and u can do it. Simply go into work with a clear head. Don't look at him, don't start conversations with him, don't let him get u going if he harasses u. Just do your job and act as if u never knew him outside of work. You have obviously been through alot and know u are going to make a new start, don't let him put you through anymore turmoil. You made the right decision and if he can't accept that or stand behind u that's his problem. Good luck on your new start and I wish u all the best. :-)
2006-11-09 01:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boss about the situation. Failing that, your just going to have to be the better person and put up with it. Just try and avoid him as much as possible, and when he talks to you, tell him you dont want to speak to him unless its about work and walk away. If he gets out of hand, he may break a rule at your workplace and have to stay away from you. Alternativly, get a restraining order.
2006-11-09 01:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like thi guy, leave him . There is no problem.You try another guy and have life wih him . Do not speak with him. If he wants to speak with you, avoid him and say that you do not want to speak and have any relation with him any more. If he is not going to mend his ways, ask the police and register a case of harrassment against him.Good Luck.
2006-11-09 01:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just quit early and move on before he has to call you psycho again.
2006-11-09 01:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋