would you blame me if i left him in the middle of nowhere?

Question

Some one phoned me to tell me my partner was cheating on me and he loved her,i didn't asnwer his texts or calls because he had done this before, i then let him back in to my life this week and yes went through his phone to find out there is three other females he is texting and seeing he works with one, the other lives in wales and the third the mother of his children they are still married, i know i should of known better to get involved with him but i have asked him more than once about if he is sleeping around or if that is what he wants to do i will not stay with him. well this weekend we are going away and i have not mentioned to him what i know but this time i'm going to leave him some where on the way back which i feel will make me feel a lot better do you feel i'm wrong to dump him in the middle of nowhere

This female Laura text me said she was with him at 02.05 am in the morning off his phone, i rang back she then put two cans of laarger all over him and said he was lucky it was not hot water she called him a charmer. i took what he said was true and now i don't he said he had not slept with her

He did the same to his wife when he was with her. I know i have been a FOOL and should walk away but he will not leave me alone so this is my only option in my mind to dump him in the middle of nowhere to get my own back also

i said i didn't want him back prove that you didn't sleep with her ? bless...... he got his mate to phone me and change my mind but the texts are still coming 12 oclock last night and no he is not living with me he as his own place which he shares with a lad ............... i'm now sure he enjoys the game see if i get out of this one . always another female to date one down two to go type thing

I have changed my phone number and cut all contact with this guy ..... not going away this weekend now for the best. i just hope one day he gets what he should for how he treats females

i have changed y mobile phone number and not going the weekend to wales now desided he is not worth it he will soon find out when i'm not there to pick him up tomorrow morning and can't contact me thats good enough for me

Answer 1

If I were younger yes I'd say dump him like that.

But I think you should cut all ties with him immediately. I wouldn't even give him a reason. He knows, he will just play stupid to see how much you know. If he continues call his other girlfriends and tell them they need to come remove him from your property or file a restraining order.

Answer 2

oh god no this guy deserves to be dumped! wonder if all the other girls know about each other... probably not! anyway besides the point are you driving to this place for the weekend? if so stop of at a service station to get some food and say your going to the toilet and sneak of to the car and drive away and make sure he leaves his mobile in the car cause u dont want him to get someone to collect him.. but even that he would have to swallow his pride and admit that he has been done over tehe

Answer 3

I think if you left him in the middle of nowhere you would feel really, really guilty. Afterall, you seem like a nice girl and your softer side might get the better of you as it obviously already has done by taking him back.

Let him get ready and packed for the w/e away, i'm sure he's looking forward to it, you get in to the car and when he tries to tell him to p*** off and that you're going away for the w/e but not with him and then drive off, hopefully leaving him gobsmacked and wondering who you're going with - not knowing who you're going with and what you're up to will torture him with any luck !!

Answer 4

hi, i think you should go for it, he obviously thinks that you are a half wit and haven't got the brains to figure out what he has done, i think you should leave him like you said and go home and then find your self a new man who will treat you better and give you the love and respect you deserve, this guy your with is treating you like a door mat, if he loved you he wouldnt treat you like this and deep down you this, rather than finish with him and feel sorry for yourself you will at least smile when you think about dumping him this way...it will teach the pastard a lesson and maybe he will think twice before he tries and hurts the next girl to come along...good luck i hope it all works out for you.

Answer 5

why not? it cant hurt and if it makes you feel better then its a result! i wont give you the your an idiot for taking him back speech cos you already know. but yeah dump the tosser in the middle of nowhere then change all your numbers. and do not go back to him again. let some other poor woman put up with it.

Answer 6

Nah not at all. If this girl is telling the truth ( and you have to make sure she is ) i would go for it. Its not fair he is with you and however many other girls. Once you get home pack all his stuff in bin bags and leave them outside on the street. You have to vow to yourself that you will never take him back no matter what he says. Good luck and i hope you find someone who will treat you right. xx

Answer 7

Do it! Drop him off minus his phone, keys etc... Get back to yours just in time to start a nice little binfire in your front garden with all of his things. Get hold of the other girls he's also cheating on and see how else you can stitch him up! Whatever makes you feel better!

Good luck!

Answer 8

Dont do that because what'll happen when he comes back?Just break up with him dont give him an opportunity to ask you back or for forgiveness or anything like that.My sister is the exact same with her fella and she wont break up with him and I'm really sick of the site of them two to be honest..Dont let yourself get hurt because dumping him in the middle of nowhere honestly won't solve anything.

Answer 9

What goes around comes around. He will get what he is due without you having to do anything. If you do that and a few years down the line if you find yourself in the middle of nowhere you will know why.

Answer 10

You knew what he was when you hooked up with him so why should you expect him to change his spots now ? He's lied to all the women and you were no exception...Nah, go ahead and dump him off somewhere and when he calls and asks you how he is going to get home, tell him to call (whatever her name is)...happy trails...