Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years in January. I am 23 years old, he is almost 25. We have lived together for 2 years. I am ready to get married!! I dont necessarily have to be married, but I want to be engaged. I know that he wants this to. The problem is he can't afford a ring. We've looked at rings so he knows now how much they cost. He doesnt have a savings account and he basically lives pay check to pay check. What am I going to do????

2006-11-09 05:21:10 · 18 answers · asked by Krista P 2 in Weddings

2006-11-09 05:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by Olicat1234 1 in Friends

the reason why i ask is even when i'm tying my nest not to be shy ppl always seem to figure it out. personally i hate it, i would much rather be the opposite.
is it harder to approch shy girls?

2006-11-09 05:20:33 · 18 answers · asked by char 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:19:28 · 25 answers · asked by hassan n 1 in Weddings

and did it work for you ?

2006-11-09 05:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-09 05:18:14 · 19 answers · asked by jennifermeganmole 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does it bother u when ur gf makes u stay on the phone for a long time?

2006-11-09 05:16:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:16:51 · 23 answers · asked by ls_gaskin 1 in Family

The guy interested in my gf, is picking her up in the morning to drive her to work and after work to home ...My gf autorized him to come and get her ..although I told her without arguments that I don't like when he talked to this guy everyday, she continues ...I'm not reacting on that, because, I'm saying to myself, I don't possess her, she must have her friends and own life too ..but, I find it weird that the very guy interested in my gf, has so much contact with her ...and I know she appreciates him ...I'm imagining myself a lot of weird things when she is with him alone ...
she threatens me by saying, maybe, I shouldn't tell you when those stories then, if it disturbs you so much my frankness ..I don't know how to react ..I'm afraid when I react, she doesn't tell me the stories anymore ..and if I don't that she continues the same way ..
but, is that normal that she has someone who interested in her pick her up like that ? do u think she is in love with the guy already ?

2006-11-09 05:16:11 · 10 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 45 and I BRAG about every year the Good Lord gives me. I do not mind getting older - it means I am still alive!
My MOM is freaked about having a 45 year old daughter though and I laugh. My husband and I had our kids young (4 of them and the oldest is 23) and she hated being called Grandma when she was 45. I am not a grandma yet but would not mind it (for my married child ONLY).

2006-11-09 05:16:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

TWO ABORTIONS?????? why?? why???
What would you say, when a couple that has been married for 5 years. The wife had an abortion behind her husbands back after their 1rst child. The husband found out months later when she was pregnant with their 2nd child by the doctor that she had an abortion just few months back. (He had NO IDEA). The husband found again she had a 2nd abortion after their 3rd child was born, by accidentally. He blasted at her, so she left and moved in with her parents, he has nothing against abortions, he travels alot for business purposes, he loves his wife dearly…. DO YOU THINK SHE CHEATED on her husband, that’s why she hid both times she had abortions?? Or what can it be???

2006-11-09 05:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year date not set...but I am starting the planning now...it is my second marriage...and my only concern for cheap is bridesmaid and bridal dresses...my dress will be a champagne color, and the girls a hydrangea blue or champagne with accents...where can I go for cheap..I live in texas...1.5 hrs from dallas! thanks

2006-11-09 05:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by Brittni Freeman 1 in Weddings

There's this guy that I have a crush on. We're friends but the thing is he becomes shy when he's around me. He'll only look at me while we're talking, when Im not looking. Like once I turn in his direction he turns the other way to make it seem like he wasnt looking. He shares his stuff with me, remember everything I said even if it were weeks ago. But how long is too long to wait on him to finally ask me out on a date. We just exchanged numbers last week...it took 3 months to finally get to that point! What should I do? Should I wait for him?

2006-11-09 05:14:23 · 7 answers · asked by lilkitt 3 in Singles & Dating

im single since birth,i'm 18 now and turning 19 this may of this year im very disappointed bcoz i thougght i would not be hard up on finding my boy becasue i have the looks"not for bragging" i feel jealous about those couple i saw around, i want him to come into my life now because i tought he would be the person who can replace the love which my family didn't give,i feel alone! another problem i have is that i am self-conscious whenevr i saw boys looking at me and when i am wlaking alone and saw a group of boys for more info. i dont have a goup of male friends. whats wrong with me?help

2006-11-09 05:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by astrid23 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an eleven month old son, and I wanted to start a Christmas tradition with him. Do you have any that you and your children enjoy?

2006-11-09 05:12:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want roses and I want the hand tied or wrapped look.

2006-11-09 05:12:16 · 10 answers · asked by karaoke_mama78 1 in Weddings

My husband (30) has spent the last two months texting ( sometimes 40 times a day) and calling a 19 year old girl, we have two children and I am 7 months pregnant with number three.
They both swear that nothing physical has ever happened, he went to great lentghts to hide all evidence but I had my suspiscions and caught him anyway.
I am absolutely devastaed by the lies and deceit that went along with it.

I class this as an affair becasuse he has betrayed me, how do I even begin to deal with this??

2006-11-09 05:12:13 · 61 answers · asked by horsegal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 05:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by mongo862001 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Friend of mine is planning to elope to the Maldives to marry her sweetheart. I think that is sooo romantic!! Did you elope? and why? did it work out?

2006-11-09 05:11:45 · 5 answers · asked by chocaholic246 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had been dating this guy for a little over 10 months and we recently decided to separate because we needed time to grow. Plus, he's a year younger than me and we wanted to wait until he graduated to date again. Anyways, he claims that he loves me and that he doesn't care if we're not exclusively together because in his eyes I AM STILL his girlfriend. With that said, he's been avoiding me ALOT lately and not returning my phone calls. He finally emails me to tell me that he is talking to another female now and that I shouldn't be upset, I just need to relax. Help me, please....

2006-11-09 05:11:44 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Spirit♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I got a detailed phone bill and counted over 60 callswithin 11/2 months of course they said they were just friends. her husband doesn't doesn't have a clue I don't know if their still sneaking around . they quit using cell phones but she can leave a voice mail and it not show on our bill. the only way is to have her husband look up their phone bill' he gets a lot of voice mails he erases all calls before he walks in the house I'm not sure if or what I should do??

2006-11-09 05:11:43 · 22 answers · asked by amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is white. we have been going out for 4 months now. my family is cool with it and his famliy is cool with it too. i want to tell ,y father but i am afraid of how he will act

2006-11-09 05:11:26 · 18 answers · asked by santiagardner 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an eleven month old son, and I wanted to start a Christmas tradition with him. Do you have any that you and your children enjoy?

2006-11-09 05:10:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

diary with me, anonymously if you prefer. You can send it via an anonymous email address. It is also possible to make a groud of diary sharing. I think it could be fun; what do you think?
If you like the idea email me.

2006-11-09 05:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

I thought he was choking, so I jumped up and gave the stupid idiot the Heimlich Manoeuvre, but it turned out the fool was just giving me a lingering, come to bed look.....

2006-11-09 05:09:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find my ex who has my son. She got remarried to a marine and I havent seen my son in 4 years. I was seeing him monthly but all of a sudden the number she gave me was disconnected. I put out a missing persons report but the marine corp said I could not get any information because all the court papers I filed and went to court for visitation no longer existed. Thats something weird but I dont have the money to get an attorney. So I have just been praying some day I hear from him. But I would really like to see him and I know her last name is Morris, her first name is Faith and the last I could find on the interent she is located in oceanside Ca. But it wont give me a number due to it being unlisted. Plus I dont have the money to go paying all these search websites to locate her . Can anyone help?

2006-11-09 05:08:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Card, flowers,chocolates or anything else. Money no object.

2006-11-09 05:05:56 · 21 answers · asked by Thinker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you with or against and why ?

2006-11-09 05:05:40 · 4 answers · asked by HellRaiSer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was never fat i was just curvy. i hads big hips and a booty. then i went and lost 40 pounds. i lost my hips my bum. men just dont want to know now honestly. beforehand when i was bigger men would ask me out and if i went out clubbing, i was the 1st person out of mt friends to get asked to dance. now when i go out men dont even look at me. it wasent that i wass unhappy with my body i just wanted to get alittle healthier but now men pay no atention to me and i feel ugly. why is this

2006-11-09 05:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by pattoner06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:04:45 · 1 answers · asked by Lou P 1 in Marriage & Divorce