The guy interested in my gf, is picking her up in the morning to drive her to work and after work to home ...My gf autorized him to come and get her ..although I told her without arguments that I don't like when he talked to this guy everyday, she continues ...I'm not reacting on that, because, I'm saying to myself, I don't possess her, she must have her friends and own life too ..but, I find it weird that the very guy interested in my gf, has so much contact with her ...and I know she appreciates him ...I'm imagining myself a lot of weird things when she is with him alone ...
she threatens me by saying, maybe, I shouldn't tell you when those stories then, if it disturbs you so much my frankness ..I don't know how to react ..I'm afraid when I react, she doesn't tell me the stories anymore ..and if I don't that she continues the same way ..
but, is that normal that she has someone who interested in her pick her up like that ? do u think she is in love with the guy already ?
2006-11-09 05:16:11 · 10 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm wondering how she would feel if it was reversed. It's not that I advocate playing games, more like put yourself in my situation type of thing. if you were doing these same things with a woman who was interested in you would she be ok with that?
2006-11-09 05:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now how u feel. but the key to turn this around is you becoming the driver yourself. if not always, once a week and let the guy and all your gf co-worker know, you are the bf not him. Call your girl up and say "Honey I got ticket to the ball game, concert, Disney on Ice, whatever" Make plan and dinner. Say you got discount to the even. Invite her co-worker, then everyone know u are the bf. Then they will ask her when they are in private, "so who r u with, this bf (you) or the driver?" remember, this shouldn't come out of your mouth, but from her friend. Plus the driver will get annoy when u show up and he has to go away alone. Do this a few time, the driver and your gf will argue and that will be the end of their story.
Good look, remember some words shouldn't come out of your mouth
2006-11-09 13:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit confused over your relationship. If she is your gf then why don't you drive her to work?
Discuss your jealously of this guy getting to spend so much time with her. Ultimately, you need to trust her. If there are reasons you cannot trust her then get a new gf.
2006-11-09 13:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a little wierd because youa nd her know that the guy likes her. Why do't you pick her up?? you're jsut creating a window for him to come in and take advantage of the trust you have for your wife and so is she. You should trust her but- i think you should pick her up isntead of some other guy
2006-11-09 13:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad situation. That guy shouldn't be picking her up every day. You just may lose her. Or, if she honestly doesn't like the guy, it's not good for her to disrespect you like that.
2006-11-09 13:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me where you work so I can go pick you up.. See how she likes it.
2006-11-09 13:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she's defenetly not in love with this other guy...dont worry if she was she would already have left you....so enjoy your relationship and stop worrying!!!trust her....its important to shpw her that u trust her....
2006-11-09 13:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about your main question, but she should definately be more concerned about your perspective on this. thats a problem in itself.
2006-11-09 13:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by tonberry79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her how you feel about it
2006-11-09 13:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope!
2006-11-09 13:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by sunny24242001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋