TWO ABORTIONS?????? why?? why???
What would you say, when a couple that has been married for 5 years. The wife had an abortion behind her husbands back after their 1rst child. The husband found out months later when she was pregnant with their 2nd child by the doctor that she had an abortion just few months back. (He had NO IDEA). The husband found again she had a 2nd abortion after their 3rd child was born, by accidentally. He blasted at her, so she left and moved in with her parents, he has nothing against abortions, he travels alot for business purposes, he loves his wife dearly…. DO YOU THINK SHE CHEATED on her husband, that’s why she hid both times she had abortions?? Or what can it be???
2006-11-09 05:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she cheated, y else wouldnt she want to have her husband's child unless it wasnt his
2006-11-09 05:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have cheating and that would be my first assumption, and if she could hide an abortion then she could hide an affair. This woman seems very shady and he is probably better off raising their children with out her in his life. He will never be able to trust her again. She may have had another reason for doing what she did but she broke every ounce of trust that man had for her and even if he forgives her, he will never have that pure unbridled trust with her.
2006-11-09 05:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is married, and gets an abortion behind his back without even talking to him about it, she freaked out because of the possibility that it was not his child. Either way, If my gf got an abortion behind my back, without even talking it out with me, I would abort her off the face of the earth.
2006-11-09 05:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably did cheat and didn't want him to know about it.. Did she ever hear of 'birth control'..... But if she didn't cheat then why didn't she tell him that she was pregnant and wanted a abortion??? hum.... Maybe then they shouldn't be together.. No trust.
2006-11-09 05:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by gamustanggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have did cheated that would explain the secrecy and all but she might not have wanted kids thats a pretty good reason too
2006-11-09 05:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly she just doesn't want children or that she was concerned that they may obviously not be her husbands.
2006-11-09 05:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S POSSIABLE THAT SHE DID CHEAT BUT I DON'T KNOW HER SO I THINK IT'S BEST IF THE HUSBAND TALKED TO HER ,AND ALSO THOUGHT ABOUT THE POSSIBILTIY OF HER HAVING AN AFFAIR.
2006-11-09 05:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a REALLY bad situation to be in.
Glad I don't have to deal with that nonsense.
2006-11-09 05:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how disgusting to blame her He was there too...doesnt matter what we think...it was murder though
2006-11-09 05:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-03 11:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋