i was never fat i was just curvy. i hads big hips and a booty. then i went and lost 40 pounds. i lost my hips my bum. men just dont want to know now honestly. beforehand when i was bigger men would ask me out and if i went out clubbing, i was the 1st person out of mt friends to get asked to dance. now when i go out men dont even look at me. it wasent that i wass unhappy with my body i just wanted to get alittle healthier but now men pay no atention to me and i feel ugly. why is this
2006-11-09 05:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by pattoner06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOME GUYS DON'T LIKE SKINNY GIRLS.
2006-11-09 05:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by mona75243 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad because you had to have worked hard to loose that much. Congratulations!!
All these answers are in my opinion corerect. Some people see a fit woman and are intimidated by them. Perhaps you have a diferent style now too.
Also curves are SEXY! I love hips and a**. Not with too much excess but hey, I aint perfect either so it's still ok.
I fyou have a newfound confidence and style that came with the new body then you may be scaring the old people who used to see you. Visit new places and meet some new guys.
One more thing, Do you ever approach the guys? Or do you just sit there and wait for them to approach you.
2006-11-09 05:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men like a little meat on the bones. A lady's curves are a thing of beauty. Just go to a museums and looks at the classic paintings.
2006-11-09 05:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by ladytc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women unfortunately think that we want some skinny supermodel to hang out with. However, this is not the case. As a matter of fact, being curvy is VERY sexy, and, to me, healthier than being straight out slim.
2006-11-09 05:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself, I prefer curvy women...I like a nice round azz and hips. If you lost 40 lbs you might be too skinny for alot of guys, because you lost your curves.
2006-11-09 05:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I want to say good job for losing the weight to be more healthy. Are you going to the same places, maybe if you try going to different places you would get a different reaction from guys. Don't worry you will meet someone.
2006-11-09 05:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by jslick95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hang out with a lot of guys and we have the most interesting conversations about these kind of things..........men like women with a little meat on them because not only does it accent your body but it doesn't make you look sick or like your trying to be skinny just to be impressive and also as some of the jerks i hang out with say its more cushion if you know what i mean..............and a little meat on your bones is just as healthy as not so much meat
2006-11-09 05:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by mommabree04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I am on the thin side and my curvier friends get all the men.I asked a male friend of mine why,and he said"Guys think that you have somebody already,they can't get you to change for them,besides that, they think they will break you in half if they hug you."
2006-11-09 05:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by sharon r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously had the curves in the right place. Perhaps your now too thin in their eyes. You shouldnt assume all men like string bean women...because they dont.
2006-11-09 05:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because i guess all men love meat in woman they like you the way you waz maybe losing weight those not go with you.
2006-11-09 05:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to go out to different places.
2006-11-09 05:08:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋