Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I'm lost on what to do. My family doesn't like him but I love him very much, we have been dating alittle over a year and it hurts whenever he asks why they don't like him and I don't know what to say to him. I have asked them but no one can give me an answer they just say he is an asshole, then I asked "why is he an asshole?" and all they say is "he just is".
Its driving me insane as well as making my boyfriend feel bad, what can I do?

2006-11-09 06:04:07 · 20 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Singles & Dating

this is crazy.. but i want to have a friendship with someone without knowin their sex , age or location.
i have a feeling it could be more true, secondly to what extent does knowin who they r affect what u feel for them..

2006-11-09 06:03:43 · 7 answers · asked by anamika 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 06:03:07 · 1 answers · asked by Thinking. 2 in Friends

I only have a couple really close girlfriends, and they're girls that I have know a really long time. Most of my friends are guys. When I meet new girls, they are seem SO fake and SO annoying. Like I met this one girl, and turns out she only wanted be friends with me & hang out with me to get to one of my guy friends and sleep with him. Now I dont even talk to her because she got what she wanted. And it's not like we're in high school, we are in our mid-twenties. It's like, girls don't give a crap about bonding & making friendships that could possibly last a lifetime. All they care about is what THEY are gonna get out of it, do whatever will benefit them in the end. I wish I was closer with more girls, but they are all so stupid!!........or maybe it's me?? I don't know. I don't get it. But I Just moved to another state and I want to make some girlfriends down here. What in the heck is going on??

2006-11-09 06:01:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know i know i'm only 15...but everyone thinks i'm 21-because all the teen guys r too immature for me adn cuz i guess i jus act and look like it-when am i going to fin that perfect guy who wil treat me right?

2006-11-09 06:00:57 · 20 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 06:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 06:00:50 · 17 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 06:00:07 · 24 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Singles & Dating

he says i am a wonderful, great person and very pretty but he's not interested in me anymore. i asked him what i did, and he said that we just have nothing in common. but we do, we have endless conversations about different things..honestly, i thought everything was fine...

what would cause this? anyone have any insight?

2006-11-09 05:59:13 · 24 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend just called and left a message that she needs someone to talk to.Her twin brothers funeral was yesterday. I don't know what to tell her or how to start off the conversation.

2006-11-09 05:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by Christy 2 in Friends

2006-11-09 05:57:31 · 13 answers · asked by JIMBO 4 in Family

2006-11-09 05:56:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People handle breakups very differently. What do you do to get over a breakup?

2006-11-09 05:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm going through some emotional drama with the guy i'm with or kinda with because I no longer know where we stand. After alot of thinking I have come to realize that we are not meant for each other. But I cant tell him that because he does not pick up my calls or call me back. This is making me STRESS to the MAX. I need ways to relieve stress any ideas? also reading also helps me relax does any body know of any good books? all I want is a healthy way to relax that does not envolve drugs. alcohol or any kind of sexual encounter or rebounds. If you have any ideas please let me know.

2006-11-09 05:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by M 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been goingout with my girlfriend for 13 months now. she used to say i love you, once or twice, now and again. she used to kiss me too now she never after one day i asked her if she loved me and she said i don't know.
it has torn me to pieces i really thought she was the one.
what should i do? how should i feel?

2006-11-09 05:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by chris_harte_14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

yesterday at school we were playing a game as a class and the guy was on my team of 4 ppl...and he was sitting diagnol from me and he kept staring right into my eyes and so i stared right into his eyes and he smiled then i smiled and then sumthing funny happened and he looked away to see wut was going on and so then he looked bak at me and was staring into my eyes again and i was staring into his eyes and he smiled then i smiled and then the game started...but then he kept staring at me wen i laughed and wen i talked...but wen we were looking into eachothers eyes it felt like magic...but heres the problem his friend and my friend r really good friends and they r both telling me that he dosent like me but my friend lies alot!and i think his friend lies all the time!.and who should i believe my heart or his friend and my friend?my heary says:he does like me,but it also says he dosent.and my friend and he friend told me he dosent should i still ask him to the dance?who do i believe?

2006-11-09 05:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she doesnt want to help herself she constantly screems for no reason she broke into a total strangers house and told them to get the f33k out and told me the police who arrested her were fake and for me to beat them up. shes wrecked four cars this year one a hit and run. she also calls total strangers at 3 in the morning and she was admitted to a psych ward for 10 days and then she got arrested again shortley after getting out for calling her ex at three in the morning what should i do

2006-11-09 05:54:17 · 3 answers · asked by rchrdsn_rymnd 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my girlfriend and I are living together,we are extremely happy. My parents and family adore her,her parents won't give me a chance,and are trying to find any chance they get to ruin us. My girlfriend has already addressed them about it. They come from a different culture than I do,so I know I have to learn about theirs,and learn to accept it,but do they really have to be so mean to me? One of the things they hate about me is that I am 24,and I have been divorced (my ex cheated on me),and I have two kids. I had my two kids with my ex wife who cheated on me..does that MAKE ME the bad person? I just really need some advice. My feelings have been hurt,and all because I am a daddy,they won't give me a fair shot. :-(

2006-11-09 05:53:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

us girls we kinda like people and when we keep it inside and we cry and stress about it. are guys the same way too? i like this boy and he knows and he sais he likes me but it seems as though he is just using me for the sex!! do you guys stress about this stuff too?

2006-11-09 05:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 05:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone please tell me what this means: a valid marriage contract cannot exist between baptized persons without its being by that very fact a sacrament.

2006-11-09 05:52:27 · 20 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Weddings

how?

2006-11-09 05:52:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Question to the people who said it's NOT ok for him to move in. What possible reason do you have for him not moving in while waiting for his divorce to become final?

2006-11-09 05:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by puresatin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I named my son Wolf and my bestfriend named her daughter Eris Eyre.

2006-11-09 05:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife got pregnant from ex before getting married. As he wanted her to have abortion and she didnt, i stand by her and her decision because i was incredibly in love with her.
2.5 years gone and the father suddently reappears and wants to be involved. Now we have 2 kids. I found out by text messages on her cell phone and history on computer and always hid it from me. She was flirting with him because she said we were not going well together (right because of all the guilt she had she was avoiding me). Going to family therapist and she still not honest about it. Getting tired of it but strong for the kids not to suffer. He is a looser and broke (trying music business). If I cant deal with it anymore, will he have to pay for child support for his kid ? and me paying for mine ? can it play on my favor that they were flirting, that she was lying, that she has past with alcohol, drug, and psy probleme ?
thank you for ur help

2006-11-09 05:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by cedric l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 14 year old guy....but i'm homeschooled.


And I just moved across the country so i don't have any friends.


I see kids my age walk by my house every day coming home from school...but since i'm homeschooled, i don't have any friends, and I'm a freshman in highschool.

I'm kinda shy, but people say i'm easy to get along with...any suggestions on how to make friends, or any good conversation starters?

thanks. :D

2006-11-09 05:49:52 · 17 answers · asked by Peyton4Prez 2 in Friends

i know this boy who has a girlfriend but he "talks" to me and trys to get with me still. he tells me that he never cheats and he wants to be with me and he would like to be with me forever but he is doing everyting he said he dont do to his girlfriend right now. if i got with him do you think he would do the same to me or do you think he would change for me like he sais? i really like him though and i donr know what to do!!! HELP ME PLEASE!

2006-11-09 05:49:35 · 22 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex. boyfriend left me for his baby momma w/o saying anything to me....I had to find out for myself....he moved in with her....I was hurt not to much mad...I understand that they have a child together and there are jus somethings you have to put aside because of that....I did what i could for this man and i felt that he could have told me the situation and y he was moving in with her and him and i could have just been friends.....well I haven't seen or spoke to him in about 2 1/2 months untill this past tuesday we had a good talk and i asked him y he didn't tell me and what made him move in with her.....he gave me some reasonable answeres.....but now he does not live with her any more because all they did was argue and it was just not going to work and now he wants to get back with me.....I love him so much that i haven't stoped thinking about him since that last day i saw him and seeing him agian made me fall in love all over agian i'm jus not sure if i should let him back in....

2006-11-09 05:49:34 · 14 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Singles & Dating